Do girls/women really mean it when they tell a guy he is handsome?

[Smoothing]

I have been getting told quite often by women lately that I am handsome. In the past, I always took it with a pinch of salt because it happened once in a blue moon. And it was women mostly my mum's age that told me. But never did any girl with in my dating range, would say it to me. I grew up thinking only women get such compliments. But recently, I have been told a bit too often to what I am used to.

Are these women being genuine, or are they just saying it for the sake of flirting?

[AmandaYVR]

They are absolutely being genuine. There are no ulterior motives when it comes to a comment/compliment like that.

Are they flirting? That is the million dollar question. If you could figure that out, you'd be a rich man. It's a question for the ages, and there is no one answer that can apply to all men or encompass all situations, unfortunately.

I personally do believe, and have always believed (since I was 19) that men really come into their own at the end of their 20s. 28 is like this magic number where they're fully flushed out, mature, competent... so many things. And I'm genuinely not talking about money or status. It's something in their character that is developed. There are, of course, differences and subtleties and everyone is unique, and some are more special than others, for sure. But I am not at all surprised that you are getting more comments and compliments now, at your age. It's a great age for men. In fact, you benefit through the rest of your life, being seen as attractive. Grow some stubble, pull the chair out for your women, carry yourself well, as a gentlemen, but not with arrogance where you appear to think of yourself as better than others. But by knowing these things, how to carry yourself, having integrity and class, you may be better than some others. And that is very, very attractive, looks aside.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Would depend on the women saying it.. As with people period, some people only say things they mean, and some will say what they think people want to hear... So if they're a genuine person, it's a genuine compliment...
If it's coming from someone who's not so genuine, then the compliment probably isn't either

[Avicenna]

When I tell you you’re hot, do you think it’s a genuine compliment? Im just curious.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@Avicenna I believe you think I am, but you see just a profile pic, and even tho I don't edit my pic it's not the same as seeing someone a the full package in person

[midnightmoon05]

Agree with Bbb... some at a young age are highly manipulative.
They know how to use their charm to get what they want from others.. usually from men in this case...
Calling a man handsome or even doing certain things doesn’t show they are interested or being genuine.

In this case, I do think those who are calling @ smoothing are genuine.

[ShadezMcgee]

Never did. I always felt women were being disingenuous whenever they made a comment about my looks. I was never called handsome, sexy or hot. Always cute, and that really angers me because it sounds demeaning and not viewed in a desirable way or to be taken seriously.

[Avicenna]

I don’t think a Woman would Tell you That if she didn’t mean it. As to whether it’s flirting, it depends on who’s doing it and the context, but it’s usually not part of flirting.

[Avicenna]

Thanks for the mho

[Smoothing]

Your welcome

[Teamawkward]

There are generally three possible reasons for a woman complimenting you on your looks:

1. She thinks you are objectively good-looking and pays you a genuine compliment. You are attractive and she wants you to know that because it feels nice to brighten peoples days.

2. She is interested and is flirting. She finds you attractive and she is shooting her shot.

3. She feels sorry for you. This happens sometimes, especially with guys who are somewhat cute/average looking but can't seem to gain the confidence to be comfortable around women. Sometimes our mother instinct just kicks in and we want to make you feel better. This doesn't mean that the compliment isn't true, just that she probably spiced it up a bit. "Handsome" might mean "adorable".

[karolaga]

I wouldn't tell a guy he is handsome if he isn't. You are a handsome man ❤️🙈

[Smoothing]

Thanks

[menina]

They mean it, so you should believe in them. They're probably attracted to younger men.