Polls: Dating

What do you think about this issue? Grass is not greener on the other side it's fake or it's greener where you water it ✌
Under no circumstances you should stay with emotionally or physically abusive person, but always trying to search for the "next better thing" won't bring you fulfillment.

Dating can be extremely difficult to navigate these days.

Many of us end up developing walls in order to protect ourselves.

A lot of men don’t seem to understand what many women need in order to let those walls down and show him her naturally sweeter side.

So let’s talk about it. Women, what would you need from a man, for you to let your walls down and show him your “sweeter”side?

Feel free to also share your story of why your walls go up in the first place and why you feel the need to put them up.

Thank you!

Imagine an event where no one knows each other and this guy came in and started talking to all the women at the event including you but when there was an opportunity to talk to other women he would do it and try to engage in conversation with all the women at the event

but afterwards he asks for your number and asks you on a date. Would you give it to him?

This woman told me that her ideal man would be a smart successful man who’s a lawyer or doctor.

I told my friends this and some called her a gold digger because they said she’s basically only dating these guys for money. The only reason she wants a doctor or lawyer is because they’re loaded and why else would she want a guy who has a certain type of career as a preference

other friends said it’s not gold digging because she said that this is her dream man and most women would find this combination ideal and just don’t say it for fear of being judged. They said at least she’s honest about what she wants, not pretending to want average men and secretly wishing she can have more successful ones

The chances are rare. Some would even say it’s impossible. What’s your take?

28F, I’m leaning towards bad luck. I’m very introverted & not the friendliest but I don’t think I’m intimidating. I’m told I’m cute/attractive, it’s not like a runway model & guys just never approach me. I’m told guys look at me but they never do anything about it & I’m too shy. I know there’s nothing wrong with me, most women seem to get guys so easily. That’s why I’ve been on and off the apps since I was maybe 18, getting matches have never been a prob. Convo always fades, ghosting, lack of interest (goes both ways) & some guys who are crazy. I’ve tried a lot of them, usually I stick with Hinge. It’s always a pattern of the guys I want who don’t want me back & the ones that want me I don’t like back. For maybe the past year I’ve become less and less interested, I reply to matches/msgs every couple of days? A few people have said maybe I’m asexual (haven’t had sex or masturbated in years), assume I’m gay or I’m unsure of what I want. Maybe they’re all wrong & simply I haven’t found the right person?

Would you date a woman with 4 false teeth? Front teeth?

I’ve only been in 1 relationship but my friend wants to set me up with one of her friends who checks all the other boxes but he was married and I don’t want to date someone who’s been married or has had kids