Girls, is it true us girls can expect things from guys in a relationship and if they ask about what we could give them, its wrong, bad, rude?

[QuasiaRobinson44]

yes

no

for the most part

maybe it depends (please explain)

only if i think its sexist

only if it makes me feel a certain way, it doesn't matter what they want because im a girl. im right there wrong.

its okay if he's assertive about it

[Rosexøxø]

If he can admit he has emotional, or any other types of needs, then I can try to accommodate. 👐 It would be then, that he could ask me what I’m willing to offer/ bring to the table.

If he can’t admit he has needs…

then those would just be demands, and I’m not willing to put up with the demands of any human alive.

lol

[Rosexøxø]

If it’s something he would like… then there’s a better way of asking for it.

Voted “depends”

[QuasiaRobinson44]

is it ok for us girls to have demands

[QuasiaRobinson44]

I demand LOVE, UNDERSTANDING, LOYALTY, GIFTS EVERY ONCE IN AWHILE, SUPPORT IN THE KITCHEN, RESPECT FOR MY CHOICES, AND DO NOT BE JUDGED AT ALL. In my opinion Men owe all of that to us. We gotta be firm and assertive about it at the start, and maybe even aggressive, But men shouldn't be assertive with us, we gotta take down the partirachy still. I demand Money as we share and he better listen to how I feel and if he doesn't then I get to TAKE the money even if he earns it. But he should NEVER take my money because he dont know I need to take care of more hygiene protects and kids cuz men dont take care of kids. He has to earn my trust. I want him to respect my degree. And my occupations. I wanna pursue my career and not have to have so much work to do at HOME and at WORK. I am a very independant person and I dont need to rely on anyone, on any man. I let them know I dont need them.

wouldn't you agree this is a fair want? I hate it when guys are selfish and arrogant, and give us a list of demands. isn't this a common way for girls to think.

[Rosexøxø]

Well I will say whomever you are, you didn’t read my comment.

I won’t address your gender…

You’re clearly upset.

This also isn’t a question, but I can see why it would be difficult to fathom this “speech” that may come from a percentage of women.

No you can’t speak for all women- certainly not me.

You can’t speak for all men, either.

Demands of any kind are not good.

Your example of demands, was just that- an example, and not applicable to every female in human existence.

You need to heal/ cope.

Befriend/“date” a lady who isn’t going to mistreat you.

[DaisyM23]

expectations come from both sides, a relationship should be about communicating these and either trying to follow them to ensure a happy relationship or compromising/breaking up because you disagree