What does girls truly want from a guy, being too nice is bad, being to bad is also bad its hard to balance and to be honest balance doesn't exist?

[Anonymous]

My last three relationships only lasted about 5 to 6 months. Am I trying too hard. How do I tell girl is into you?

[WonderBell99]

Have you ever wondered if those relationships didn’t last long because you were trying so hard to be someone you weren’t? I would not want my boyfriend to pretend to be someone he wasn’t just to attract me. I want to fall in love with someone despite their flaws; that's true love. How could I fall in love with the REAL him if he wasn’t willing to be himself around me?

I want a guy who wouldn’t ghost me or play mind games. I expect:
- trust
- loyalty
- charisma
- intelligence
- kindness
- optimism
- simplicity
- love
- good hygiene
- open-mindedness
- responsible
- mature
- good listener

And most importantly, loads of hugs and cuddles! Most girls just want a guy who will treat them with respect and give them all the love in the world. I want someone I can do cute shit with.. like holding hands, taking care of him, being there for him, laughing with him about the most random stuff, arguing about who loves the other more etc.

I will suggest you to be yourself. Only then will you be able to find someone who would love you for who you are, not someone you made up.

[SueShe]

I can only speak for myself but if I was in a relation (or interested in being in one), then here is my short list of qualities a man should have.

- Character
- Intellect
- Personality
- Charisma
- Responsible
- Humor
- Caring
- Open mind
- Being respectful of others, animals and nature
- Not selfish
- Altruism
- Honesty
- Positive thinking
- Humble
- Generosity
- Simplicity
- Kindness
- Truthfulness
- Smart
- Empathy
- Positive attitude
- Assertiveness
- Body hygiene

Now, remember that his is only the short list. I don't want to scare anyone off by listing the full list.

If anyone fulfills those conditions, he has a good chance to be able to be in a platonic relation with me. That is not too much to ask, right?

[PrettyPriya]

Maybe you just haven't found the right girl. I always look at personality first. For me, I have to be with someone that is gentleman like. Making me laugh is a huge bonus.

Just treat me with respect and as an equal and I am happy. Now, all girls will be different. You need to find one that meshes with your personality. Not everyone will be the right fit.

Good luck to you!

[SecretsofKB]

Stop trying to be someone you're not. Too nice or too bad. They aren't you. Just be yourself.

Yeah it sounds cliché but it's the truth. You want someone that will like and love you for who you ARE and not who you are pretending to be.

Just be yourself and you'll find someone that's right for you.