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I mean sometimes I get mad at someone , I complained about it and he acted like he doesn’t know what I want him to do!! Do guys really don’t know what girls want from him?
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Are you expressing what you want in plan speech, or are you using literally anything else?
It's a ludicrous modern standard to expect men to decipher non-verbal cues and expression with absolute accuracy, yet the standard lives on. I harken back to my mother's antics of setting non-descript goals about the house. If something so general as "clean up" were demanded, that was a trap. Anything which wasn't placed in its explicit perfect location was defined by her undisclosed methods, thus incurring her wrath.
Women, often, speak in what's functionally a completely different language than men do in that even clearly spoken statements rarely align with their dictionary meanings. At the most extreme fringes, we could consider flirting with a stranger, a first engagement, as an example. You might recognize the phrase "no means no" which is rather transparent. Yet, men must cope with the idea that yes means no, yes means no perhaps some days afterwards when she's no longer interested. No means yes, because she's trying to see if you'll try to earn her, and if you won't fight for her, you're not a good man, as a good man would fight for what he wants. These are common ideologies.
Plainly speaking, if even "yes" and "no" cannot align with dictionary definitions, when addressing women, nothing can.
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959 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. I think though guys and girls are similar in what they want they are different in how to show it oftentimes guys and girls could be the direct opposite in their behavior. Here´s where problem starts because everybody thinks what they and how they react to something is common knowledge and therefore needs no further explaination misunderstanding happens.
An example is the way and need for communication while women find security in talking about something and with someone men don´t have that much of a need for it. Guys can be alone for long and don´t hear from other guys for a long time and still feel they are good buddies.
It´s same with communication in a certain situation because many of us guys are direct communicators in terms of saying what you when you want it straight away it´s harder for us to listen and understand a woman speaks in a way that goes with the flow.
To answer your question in short: No in most situation I´d say guys don´t know what woman because while you oftentimes go with the flow of ideas saying what you want guys have a hard time following in therefore will stop listen carefully after some times and don´t get what you were saying.
No one is a mindreader. Just because you like or love someone doesn't give them superpowers to know your personal needs!
This seems to be a naive romantic notion. "My love will grant my every wish and know me through and through." No such luck. There's a slim to none chance you might find someone like this, but more likely you meet an average Joe (or Josephine) who loves you and tries to help and please you.
If you find anyone who seeks to help and please you, tell them what you'd like to get from them: This goes for what to get from the grocery store to what kind of jewelry or fragrance you like. You favorite slippers or PJs.. The movie you'll watch two dozen times and quote from.
Give a guy a break. This has nothing to do with what sex anyone is. The only people who know you IS you, your siblings, best friend and your parents. If you reveal yourself to your partner, that's the only way they'll have a clue.
Now if it's clear you HAVE been doing the former and your partner isn't paying attention, that's a different story altogether.
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A guy knows the basics, so if he’s not meeting the bare minimum than say bye to him… Also, men aren’t dumb, they do for who they want… For example, how you noticed how some girls will beg a guy to do certain things and after they’re not together anymore, he “acts right” for another girl? Sometimes it’s nothing about you, it’s simply we’re not the girl for them.
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- 4.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
u Guys and girls make the same mistake.
A guy has a problem with a girlfriend. He thinks about what he would be thinking or feeling in a particular situation and he expects that his girlfriend should be thinking or feeling the same things. He fails to take into account that there are fundamental differences in the way that guys and girls view things and respond, based on our biology, our upbringing, our culture, and our experiences. Because he fails to account for the differences, he can't understand why his girlfriend is reacting as she is. In reality, it would be astounding if guys and girls DID respond the same way in a situation. And girls do the same thing and can't understand why guys react as they do.
All, of course, because Eve ate the apple in the garden of Eden. 
This is What women want This is what women see in the eyes of men. A tree that grows money. It seems women want everything but they don't know what they want first. Instead of asking the guy to get her something that is reasonable she rather empty the man's wallet entirely until he has nothing left causing her to leave him.
1.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Well for starters we don't MIND READ XD. If you don't tell us we gonna just assume things are alright. Its like if you want something then like tell us or hand us the red hot metaphorical fireplace poker and tell us what you want XD. Men are strictly factual and if you got a man hook, line and sinker. Its kinda your own fault if you haven't told us what your goals and where you want to be in a year, 5 years or 10 years. Its hard for us to set goals. If we don't know that you have them. The number one rule of a relationship is communication. I'd rather have a girl stab my hand (metaphorically) and be literal and factual than assume I can guess. Cause the average person isn't actually good at guessing answers. To a question or topic they haven't been told. Even riddles to a degree have their answer inside of them.
- 917 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Haven't you worked it out yet? If you want to get your own way, the way to go about it isn't by losing your temper. Most guys I know will use that against you.
For example:-
if you go berserk at me, my response isn't to lose my temper back, it's to make out I have absolutely no idea what you're on about and that is how you deal with spoilt brats who think the world owes them.
Now if you are civil, I as well as most other guys will go out of their way to accommodate you.
Don't be under any illusion in thinking we don't know what is really going on though.. We aren't stupid! -
Men share a lot of similarities with each other (same for women), but in the end it depends on the individual; so avoid judging men/women as a whole based on this one person, because this is how you become bitter. Everyone is different, you just got to learn to decipher the good from the trash.
From what I'm reading it sounds like you need to be more direct and concise with what you want. From experience, most times bc men can't smell what their lady wants... evolution gave us a mouth for that...
Ladies, pls learn to stand up to yourself...
Women tend often to use hints as method...
Let's be real, a 6x2 feet neon banner with lights and hearts and some arrows to ensure he doesn't miss it... I swear, 49 of 50 guys still wouldn't see that at all...
"Clear words support clear actions"
Write that down
I bet putin did also hint that he will invade the ukraine... 😆 perfect example how that usual works out-
Um because of you reading magazines with their f ing quizzes that you live and die by. Websites that spout the same Bs. Plus the feminist hatred of men. Remember all men are pigs? I read a sexual harassment pamphlet from my college. The male side is very much saying what you can't do the female side is what they can do and signs that the male is going to attack/rape/ stalk/ kill them. Plus it says nothing to males about false accusations of rape what a guys rights are if accused. Basically in "overcoming" your male "oppressors" you've become just as "bad" as we "are". And you will never admit that you do nothing wrong and if you do it's because a male abused you and made you do it. Women rape, kill, molest, steal, commit fraud, get drunk and high, speed, abuse too.
Because even girls don't know what girls want and girls are never the least bit consistent with what they want, other than "not you or most men." Besides girls wanting the most elite, rarest, best looking men, there's not a single consistency to what girls want, not even among themselves. That's why SMART men never take dating advice from women.
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Me and my girlfriend are working on open discussion about how things affect each other right down to details of things that neither of can personally understand.
Discussing things on here has given me a better understanding of the opposite sex.
Biggest thing to remember is never assume when you ask something to one of us guys if we don't 100% understand we might guess to fill in the blanks but if we even look slightly confused be ready to explain. see this is the problem women don’t know what they want either so it’s up to men to create that thing from scratch and hopefully it appeases the queen 🙇♂️
This proves my point guys are very selfish they make it all about themselves that's why they don't understand women or even hear them or even know what they want or what they like or don't like they're too busy focusing on themselves and why girls don't understand this I would just keep walking if I was a girl
Guys were made to feel respected. Women were made to feel loved. The two differences keep us in a cycle of competition. One needing respect and the other needing to feel loved. She doesn’t feel loved she does / says things that make him feel disrespected. He withdrawals feeling like a looser and retaliates with anger which makes her feel unloved. It black and white in the Bible. His created us different. We can either feed each other or feed on each other.
- 1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
yes some don't, it's a matter of training. at that age, they can be very selfish and unaware. you will have to learn to communicate, teach, work together. guys and girls communicate differently in general, but there's challenges communicating with anyone.
good luck! - 1.5K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
Just because you want him to do it, why is he required to do it? You don't think we feel the same way about women? Honey what's wrong with you, nothing. We know there's something wrong but we don't know what the fuck it is. You'd rather sit there and sulk about it than speak about it
315 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. No we don't because we aren't mind reader's, women are vague at the best of times, sometimes don't even know what they want when directly asked, so how would we know.
If we try and guess from insinuations and help, we're wrong. If we choose not too read into something and stay out of it we're wrong.
If you want a man to know what you want, just tell him, it's real easy.573 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic. Because often they don't know what they want themselves. When they say one thing and you do it for them, they can change their mind, not appreciate it, and then want you to do something else instead.
At least be direct. Don't use hints, just plainly say exactly what you want.We don't know because we aren't you. We don't know what anyone besides us is feeling. That's why communicating is so important.
I don't understand why so many women have an issue with just communicating what they want men to do. Y'all seem to think that men should just intuit what you're thinking/feeling without having to say it; that's just not how adult relationships work.Because guys think like guys and girls think like girls.
Also nobody is required to understand someone. I believe in talking about things that upset us or make us happy just express yourself and that way you give sb space to know you betteeIf you want your guy to do something or want something from him, just tell him directly. Don't play mind games and expect him to guess what you really want.
You must be confused with those mind reading vampires guys and that's fiction, in real life guys can't read mind so instead of complaining just tell them what you want them to do, dumb down things for them. You're superior, smart, sophisticated girl so just be direct and stop judging guys for not being the smart. 😀
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