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Why don’t guys know what girls want? (Page 2)

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  • anylolone
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    You keep making choices that result exactly in what you claim you don't want, consistently.

    If he was honest with himself enough to know what you want, he'd justifiably hate you.

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  • Adam_West
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    Unless you know what men really want, you can't expect them to understand you.

    For example I'm a guy of simple taste. I enjoy, uh, dynamite and gunpowder and BLOWJOB.

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  • Kiran_Yagami
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    We do know what girls want. Ironically, giving girls everything they want is not what girls want, because the moment you do that they get bored of you.

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  • GMANN56
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    No because every girl is so different and what you want today may not be what you want tomorrow, which will be different from what you want the next day.

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  • Anonymous
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    Yes. Especially when they’re younger, guys just don’t get it. We learn from women getting mad at us for not understanding. Just don’t get so mad that we refuse to learn out of spite.

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  • Commando_Preetam
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    Because we can't read minds. And for girls it's something in mind and other on tounge. As guys speak up freely but girls doesn't.

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  • masdee18704
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    Same reason u can't explain to someone what peeing out of a penis feels like!!! The thing u want is called a robot

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  • Zodiac10
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    Nobody is a mind reader. It can't be expected for anyone to just know what anyone else wants. That's what communication is for.

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  • Uptowngirl88
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    New flash he don't want you sis. He knows what he does bothers you so he does it hoping you'd get the hint and leave

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    • JustiReno
      JustiReno
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      More shade this sun is hot!

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  • admles
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    It's more that women just give stupid / obscure hints they expect men to understand.

    TIP: Say what you want outright.

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    • roxbby
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      True from what I've seen.

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  • jasco
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    Some of us are kinda slow, Myself for sure can be slow asf sometimes. I may just not comprehend or understand what your saying

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  • Steelygrl
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    Sometimes we don't even know what we want

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    • RandomGuy1030
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      Then obviously what she means is he isn't being authorative. Think about it, the only reason she wouldn't want to tell him is because... that would defeat the purpose

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  • TheFlak38
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    Here is another entitled princess that wants the entire cosmos to serve her vagina.

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  • ChiTown33
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    Honestly? Because most the time girls themselves don't know what they want.

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  • Andres77
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    Are you kidding? Girls don't know what girls want. So how are we supposed to know?🤪

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  • maverick2022
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    Girls don't even know what they want so how can guys be expected to?

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  • loveslongnails
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    I presume you're talking about sex? Some don't know, most don't care.

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  • jahaims
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    You probably aren't communicating as clearly as you think you are

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  • noohair
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    Guys don't understand hints and nuance. Speak clearly and tell then what you want. We are simple creatures and we are not mind readers.

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  • anton_dee
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    I still don't know what girls want. No clear speech. It is mostly vague hints which I have to figure out. 🙄🙄🙄

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  • fred_durst
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    because it is nature of people
    everyone want other people to do something for them , instead of vice versa

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  • Anonymous
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    its really simple. Dont be cryptic. Dont drop hints. Just be straight forward and tell him what you want. Men. Are. Not. Mind. Readers.

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  • CuriousMufuxka
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    Because girls don't know what they want! They think so and then that changes.

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  • Luopio27
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    310 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Not even Aristotle, Tesla and Einstein combined could figure out how the female mind fully works.

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    • Preston_Tatum
      Preston_Tatum
      +1 y

      👆🏽 Facts

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    • JustiReno
      JustiReno
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      @Preston_Tatum well Tesla for sure taking it up the booty Aristotle a maybe and Einstein? At least you didn’t say Stephen Hawking what about Al Saud? 😭

      Reply
    • Djaay
      Djaay
      +1 y

      Just understand the devil and you will miraculously understand a deceptive woman..

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    • JustiReno
      JustiReno
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      @Djaay naw but let’s be real how many times guys look at another girl when they with someone and then it would be end of the world if their girl did the same, toxic people can’t expect anything but a toxic relationship

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  • Zygum
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    All healthy guys understands that girls want sexual pleasure from boys. If boy is impotent, do not get erection, so he does not care for girl

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  • Anonymous
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    If you don't directly tell us, how are we supposed to know?

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  • Desconhecida
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    449 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Guys can't read minds.

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    • admles
      admles
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      Thank you!

      Reply
    • Desconhecida
      Desconhecida
      +1 y

      What for? 🤣

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    • admles
      admles
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      For understanding that men aren't mind readers!

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    • Desconhecida
      Desconhecida
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      It's pretty much common sense. Or it should be.

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  • Anonymous
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    Girls don’t say it and just expect guys to read their mind. And are then baffled to find out that men aren’t telepathic.

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  • cloud9vortex1234
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    310 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Just tell them. It doesn't take much effort. He will learn what you want the more he's around you.

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  • Hanrej
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    Girls don't know what they want but expect a guy to know.

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  • Kurdistan1991
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    because woman is very different in creation. we women look so different, men are just plain logic

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  • McKellar
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    +1 y

    Was your communication with him very very clear? Should he know by now as to what is to be expected?

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  • nawtee_me
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    Just give them money to go shopping and they will by happy… lol

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  • Guanfei
    Guanfei Follow
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    1.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Because we're not mind readers, if you want something, say it.

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  • grega239
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    809 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Women dont know and/or dont tell so how are we supposed to know

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    Since you didn't say what you girls want, we won't know what you girls want.
    It's that simple.

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  • SignedAutographs
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    We're not mind readers

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    • Darine123
      Darine123
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      Lmaooooo,😅

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  • Hulk30
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    because your girls and we actually gotta learn that shit it's not instinctive for us to know

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  • dolemite89
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    cuz women are fussy and don’t even know what they want themselves 😅

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    the younger they are the less they know

    the older they are
    the less they care

    cause what most of you women want is stupid

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  • Anonymous
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    (25-29)
    +1 y

    Because girls don’t know what girls want… if the opposite were the case most gay girls wouldn’t be more single than gay guys. It’s all biology.

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  • Anonymous
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    +1 y

    Communication. Honestly a lot of these problem can be solved with communication.

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  • Anonymous
    Anonymous
    (36-45)
    +1 y

    girls don't even know what they want let alone guys

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  • RebeccaBI2000
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    They don’t truly listen or watch the signs.

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    • RebeccaBI2000
      RebeccaBI2000
      +1 y

      @Djaay not all woman are this way. I saw what I want. My friends do not influence things

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    • RebeccaBI2000
      RebeccaBI2000
      +1 y

      @Vegasrunner I actually know what I want. I just Don’t need a man to make this choice for me.

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    • RebeccaBI2000
      RebeccaBI2000
      +1 y

      I know not everyone is perfect and people have bad experiences. I should not have to sit here and justify things for every situation that did not go right with a woman or man. Communication is key with people in a relationship.

      Reply
    • RebeccaBI2000
      RebeccaBI2000
      +1 y

      @CrazyGirl2

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    • RebeccaBI2000
      RebeccaBI2000
      +1 y

      @PrettyPriya

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    • Djaay
      Djaay
      +1 y

      Need your friends assistance? Just as i thought and erased everyones comments but your own. Pathetic...

      Reply
    • PrettyPriya
      PrettyPriya
      +1 y

      @Djaay I think enough is enough, don't you? I read through this and everyone had made their point/argument, but you and the other users continued to troll. Now, I think it is time to put this to rest.

      I am asking politely as I'd rather not take any sort of action.

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    • PrettyPriya
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      @Darine123 Would you be so kind to remove @RebeccaBI2000 comment by selecting the 3 dots to the right of her name and clicking "I don't want to see this"? This is at the request of the opinion owner.

      Thank you in advance.

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    • Djaay
      Djaay
      +1 y

      "MY FRIENDS DONT INFLUENCE THINGS " This !

      Reply
    • PrettyPriya
      PrettyPriya
      +1 y

      @Djaay I haven't a clue what you are on about with that last comment. Are you okay? I'm just making sure your head didn't come in contact with a blunt object or something.

      I'm not influencing anything if that is what you are referring to. I'm simply doing what GaG asks me to do, which is moderate. I did ask politely. I just thought it was time for everyone to move on. Have a great and sunny day. 😊

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    • anylolone
      anylolone
      +1 y

      @PrettyPriya Gosh, first time I saw this.
      Do you want this to completely die?

      Seriously, even reddit dies with stuff like this.

      Please do this, the demoralization you'll suffer from another empty echo chamber will bring a smile to my face!

      So please, follow into putin's footsteps. He's not very happy right now.
      Neither is biden, neither is trudeau.

      Please, Please red pill more people for me!

      Reply
    • PrettyPriya
      PrettyPriya
      +1 y

      @anylolone Gosh, I don't remember someone being so upset about the colour of pills they were taking. Perhaps take another coloured one. Perhaps it will make you happy 🙃

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    • anylolone
      anylolone
      +1 y

      @PrettyPriya Oh, my sweet priya, please, do me a favor, follow in putin's lockstep.

      You have two possibilities, either this is fully taken by 5th column, which means you'll see this die.
      Or, this isn't and you'll be ousted.

      Either case is not going to do well to your psyche. Actually same damage. I've seen it.
      I had your kind beg me for forgiveness, ask what they did wrong, ask what they could do to fix it all up when their house of cards fell.
      You gonna have the same answer from people around you.

      Or, you could regroup, change, learn. It's way better for you, not for me.
      I'm not daryl davis, he moves at a snail's pace with his god like charisma.

      You see, it's really hard to make people come to their senses, it's way easier to get them to neutralize themselves peacefully.

      But you see, the world needs both. Specially since his work makes mine even more effective.
      It's way more potent when you realize it was all your fault, that you can't just rebrand your bullshit and that you had a way out.

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    • PrettyPriya
      PrettyPriya
      +1 y

      @anylolone Goodness me. You are somewhat unbalanced, yes? These columns you speak of? The rest is complete nonsense. Do you not agree?

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    • anylolone
      anylolone
      +1 y

      @PrettyPriya Well, have you tried googling 5th column?
      Daryl davis?

      Oh, by the way, I'm set to lose my sister to this, by the way.
      I love her, but it's her choice.
      I told her she has a way out, but she doesn't listen.
      If she expects more from someone who wasn't afraid to die by her hands, well.
      (and way more hands, while protecting people.)

      I must remind you, you can't ever join us, it's impossible, all you can do is live with a better conscious.
      My sister almost died a few times this last year, first one I voted with my feet with pride.

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  • spartan55
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    Not when you don't tell us, DUH.

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  • TrillXHippy
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    You don’t even know what you want 😂

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  • Gwenhwyfar
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    They really don’t lol

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    • sensible27
      sensible27
      +1 y

      *batman voice* WHAT DO YOU WANT

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    • Gwenhwyfar
      Gwenhwyfar
      +1 y

      @sensible27 😂😂😂

      Reply
    • sensible27
      sensible27
      +1 y

      I'm serious though,.. what do you want

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    • Gwenhwyfar
      Gwenhwyfar
      +1 y

      @sensible27 rn I want to get back to work. I’ll ttyl 😊.

      Reply
  • globetrotter22
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    Because we aren’t mind readers.

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  • John_Doesnt
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    Because girls don't know what they want.

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  • Djaay
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    351 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Because you have unrealistic expectations of men.

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  • chulo1992
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    Because even girls don't know what they want

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  • aquamarine321
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    Because we can’t read minds

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  • In_Trance
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    Lol girls don't even know what girls want

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  • Ayaan00001
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    Guys knows it but they can't express it.

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  • Balbal
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    They are busy with themselves, family and work.

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  • This_Is_My_Opinion8
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    +1 y

    Depends on the situation.
    What was it?

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  • Slim57
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    1.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    Easy because even they don't know what they want

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  • sensible27
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    560 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

    What do you want..

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  • Bourbon_
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    I blame you

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  • DNelson
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    Because they are to concerned how it effects them.

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