Questions: Dating

Should it be this hard? There’s about an even split of men and women in the world.
There’s also endless pretty women in the world.

I’m straight and today I had some random gay guy in my DMs calling me so handsome and asked me out. Very strange but made me feel a bit upset, I’ve not had a girl do that kind of thing. Can’t imagine it ever happening tbh. Like I get more interest from a gay guy than any woman 🤕

As a guy you get more interest from gay guys 😣I mean obviously women don’t need to try much but something is not right about that.

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I don’t understand it!

I rely a lot on online dating as it’s hard to find girls from my culture and I look at my profile and I think how can a girl find a better guy? Because I tick all the boxes and I do really well on the odd app but I’ll mostly never match with the girls I want.

My conclusion is you can have it all and be doing really well in life but dating is just a weird game that doesn’t make sense a lot of the time.
Do you agree?

The older I get the less I can feel I can understand it and try to understand it. I used to think it was weird why people would end up single at 30 now I can start to see why.

Should you put that much emotional investment and time into one? Women are often temporary. Relationships just always fail nowadays, the girl’s a bit unhappy and boom she’s gone. Every girl you meet has had x number of boyfriends.
Do you think it’s mostly the man’s fault?