Polls: Dating

I’m living every man’s dream. I’m the one who got away because she fucked everything up, now she desperately wants to come back.

I got played pretty hard by a girl i really liked (she went after another guy that I “don’t need to worry about”) and then a year later I inherited a 200 acre ranch and now I’m building a house on it. She would always tell me how much she would love to leave the city and live on a ranch/farm/acreage. She got word of this (she probably stalks my IG) and now her friend told me she regrets everything and wants me back. I’m obviously not ever giving her the time of day again, and that brings me so much joy in my heart.

Anyway, Im just curious, what would you do? And is this the right move?

• He was born at six months premature, so he's height is 5'2(1.59cm tall)
• He is very scrawny and fine built
• Women can't respect him due to him looking like a teenager rather than an adult
• He has a Normal adult male appetite but due to his size give him less food than his peers..

• They're both in their lat thirties. And she is 1.5 years younger than him.
• He is bald and skinny built kind of short height, innocent looking man.
• He has very hairy body for a man.
• He is very very average looking and she is a bit above average looking , is somewhat short for a woman but has nice well built attractive curvy body.
• He is introvert and socially awkward. While she is extrovert and has great social skills.
• She takes the lead in everything while he needs to be pushed to do anything.
• She is very photogenic while his photos are very awkward and ok ok type.

She likes him a lot and has even asked him for relationship.

Why do you think this woman likes him and wants to be in relationship with him despite all the negative points above?

I don't know if you all saw the Tinder Swindler, but basically the Tinder Swindler charms women on Tinder enough to get them heavily invested emotionally and financially. Do you think most women are likely to fall for this kind of trick or are the Tinder Swindler victims just on another level of stupid or what?

Be honest. Poll is anonymous.

Based on a conversation I had with someone here

I am 30. I now feel I'm too old, agreeably, to still being a player. Remember HIMYM, episode, Barney and Ted realise being 30s isn't the same as the 20s. I also would look down on others or myself if they're 30 still thinking they're 20 or thinking they could even at 30 score a 20 chick hahaha

You’re in a relationship. You’re also happy in said relationship.



One day a man that literally beats your boyfriend in every way, is more successful, has more wealth, status, looks, charm, charisma, etc. approaches you and asks you out… would you betray your boyfriend or reject the guy?




(Go anonymous if you so choose, I’m asking this for research on female behavior/decision making)

Does the situation matter?