Is it possible to be TOO attractive? Will people not see you as serious relationship material if you're past a certain level of hotness?

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

I'm not asking about myself, just in general.

Yes, it's possible.

There's no such thing as too attractive.

Not sure.

It's not that simple.

[Nirmroth]

Kinda? Ik a guy who is very attractive like the prince of charming guy you only read in fairy tailes. Girls turning heads to him etc having great success on apps and irl aswell.

Now back to the topic his last relationship ended bec his girlfriend was to insecure. She litterary told him how handsome he looks and how good looking his ex was and how she feels like she can't compare to that. Was really bad he really did love/like her.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

So being good-looking works for your friend in the short term, but not in the long term. Interesting.

[Nirmroth]

Oh he had long term rl before with longest beeing 4 years (he is same age as me) but currently he struggles to commit bec of all his options and now that he finally did commit she broke up with him bec he was to good looking

[Nirmroth]

So its his fault he mostly had short terms since his 4 year one ended bec he was sleeping around a lot this was the first time it wasn't

[Avicenna]

No, that's silly. If some people can't see the whole person, that's their shortcoming and makes THEM not relationship material.

[coxoabean]

Maybe not. There are very handsome guys who are so attractive it's crazy, but they seem nice too. Although I do believe really attractive people can often get very stuck up if they know how attractive they are. Then they may have a poor personality and not be relationship material for that reason. I have seen horribly handsome guys though who were definitely relationship material.

[dustybiker2]

There is a downside to everything. If someone has shall we say few flaws there are people who want that just to tear it down. Then you have beautiful people who are emotionally damaged. It's tough coming out the far side of life unscathed.

[PointlessNonsenseGuy]

Fair enough.

[DishLady]

Too attractive? Not really, but too conceited is a thing. “Pretty people” need to be humble and kind to be truly attractive.

[DrPepper12]

Lookism is a thing. People who are very attractive often do not get approached for fear that he or she is out of their league and or already cuffed.

Yes it's possible to be too attractive and to have detrimental effects because of it.

[Anonymous]

In a way of speaking. Typically the more attractive a woman is the more unpleasant and narcissistic she is. This is common knowledge amongst guys. If she's hot and single, it's NOT an accident.