Girls, Is it creepy if I ‘try’ to find a girl who I was gana ask out but who ended up moving jobs?

[false_prophet]

Met a cute nerdy looking girl at a gas station. I was doing a job on that side of town and saw her every morning for a few weeks. She always seemed to flirt with me, caught her staring once. I never asked her out cause I didn’t think our personalities would click.

I moved shortly after about an hour away, and when I was in that part of town again 2-3 months later I decided to go ask her out. Unfortunately she no longer works there.

I’m tempted to go push to get a name or get connected with her somehow through her old work.. but I don’t want to be a creep. It’s not a big deal, but I’ve been kicking myself for not asking her when I first met her. I doubt her work would even help me, for obvious reasons. Still, I may try.

Yes. *bonk*

No, it’s romantic

[SweetJoyGirl]

It is stupid for guys to just assume that after only knowing a girl for a like a week or a month, your personality would clash. You don’t truly know the person yet, so it is a terrible way to judge, but what do I know…guys will be guys. 🤷🏾‍♀️

Now, she is gone. 🤷🏾‍♀️
Don’t be weird and try to find out who she is. If you find her, you would come off as a stalker.

[false_prophet]

You’re the only one making a rash judgement here. Look in the mirror. I made a reasonable assumption based on evidence. Yet still wanted to try, because I could’ve be wrong. I came here looking for a genuine answer as I’m a normal dude who just missed a shot and got in his head about it.

Instead I got judged by a woman guilty of the exact same thing. Glass houses and all, but what do I know… women will be women.😉

After further consideration I decided that there’s no way to go about it in a “non creepy” way, so I’ve forgotten it. Disappointing though.

[SweetJoyGirl]

Ahuh.
Did I ask?

Yea, so anyways, don’t be a creep. Good choice to forget. 😊

[DishLady]

Oh... that does sound creepy...

[false_prophet]

Yea I figured. I was hoping to find a rational suggestion, but there’s no way to go about it where I don’t come off as weird regardless of my intentions.

[DishLady]

Yeah. You just need to move on. If you’re really meant to be with that girl the universe will put her back on your path.

[OhLongJohnsoning]

Depends on how you phrase what you say to her. Most women respond to honesty, for one, but, at the same time, showing up at her door, without first talking to her, might be crossing a line

[false_prophet]

I was just gana see if she comes around the store still. But, as others have said, a bit creepy so I’ve forgotten it :/

[MisterWack]

Creepy.
Since you said your personalities may not have clicked, maybe this was a good thing…. You’ll find someone better someday.

[Anonymous]

I say go for it and just be prepared that she may ignore you lol. If I message someone I don’t really know I would probably just say hello, introduce myself, and do a quick upbeat message. If the other person is interested they’ll reply with more than one word responses. Likelihood of her replying is probably low but it’s better to try than not try and regret it later.

[Peridot25]

Yes you’re creepy