Polls: Dating

Serious question, how many times have you been out on a date or two with someone and everything is going seeming well... but then all of the sudden the say there is some type of family crisis, and they are not sure when they will be able to see you again.

In the last two weeks I had one tell me, her stepfather just had a stroke like the day after the first date... were we made out for about 30 minutes... hummm?

The second said, now pay attention it gets confusing... she says her stepdaughters, mother-in-law's grandmother passed away, so she really needs to be there for her daughter. Who is 22 years old... hummm?

Seriously have you all ever used a family illness before as an excuse not to be able to see someone?

This has happened to me like no less than 6 times so its no coincidence, they are making it up right?

It’s all the same for guys:

A white guy, somewhat tall, muscly/built, sharp facial features and good jawline

That’s what women want.

I can’t imagine being a 10/10 looking guy to anyone. Most girls seem not to like me unfortunately.
It’s not like I’m fat or anything.

I’m speaking in terms of physical attractiveness

Explain your choice

And yes the modern woman is the proper material for marriage as well, I'm not talking about the toxic ones with the stupid agendas or none of that bullshit, they both meet all the right requirements for marriage, if you had to choose, which one do you choose?

Women if y'all wanna spectate, feel free and if y'all wanna add any input or anything also feel free

This has happened to me a few times, and I was very grateful and flattered. Most guys like it, but not all.

Like seriously, number one rule on a first date... DO NOT, talk about your past relationships. You are not there to rehash your past, it about trying to make a connection with the other person and building a possible future.

Like seriously, this woman would not get off your past relationship, every time I tried to make conversation go a different way it came back to her and previous heartbreaks.

She starts straight up crying, she is like I am so sorry, it not you, it's me. She excuses herself to go to the bathroom. She comes back and she is like,

"I am so sorry it is not you. Actually, you are being so nice and sweet, and you are very good looking, it's just that..."

"I interrupt her, it's that you are not ready to be dating yet period, right?"

she's says, "I am so sorry, but yes. I just had no idea, until right now."

I said, "Yeah, I get it. You're like the fourth woman I met online, that comes online and thinks they are not going to meet a real person and when they do, they freak out because they are not ready yet."

She says, " Yeah, you are right, but it's not you. I am so sorry; you are so nice and handsome..."

Again, I just say, "just stop, you do not think I do not know I am a nice person? You do not think I know that I am a nice-looking man? Like I have heard that shit my whole life, and I do not need to hear it from you. Obviously, it's not enough for you, so basically after weeks of talking and you assured me you were ready, you basically wasted my time today."

I walked her to the car and wished her well in life.

How many of you have had something like this happen to you?