Like I get being ghosted before a first date or even after a date but I find it weird for her to say she enjoyed first date and yes to a second date then ghost.
A woman's interest in you involves things beyond your behaviour in the relationship such as her priorities in overall life, her location choices, her work and scheduling choices, her other options, and her relationships and interests outside her interaction with you.
I remember rejecting guys cause I did not want to pay for transportation to Toronto, rejecting guys cause I wanted more time to pursue my goals, rejecting guys cause I thought they were too old to relate to me and my sense of humour, rejecting guys cause they were too serious and I wanted a more flexible mind, rejecting guys cause they were not serious enough and I viewed them as a waste of time.
i don't find that weird, i feel like it's common after a first date. she said yes to a second date and then either changed her mind or only said that because she felt awkward and didn't know how to say no and then eventually just ghosted. or she found someone else. either way, she is cowardly to not explain herself and then the cycle continues
Guys should always remember that just because you have a great time with a woman the first time you go out with her doesn't necessarily mean that she's going to ultimately choose you as her next boyfriend. Anytime a woman enters the dating pool, she is almost always meeting other guys, and until she makes her final decision, there are no guarantees.
u She genuinely liked you, but then reconciled with the guy with whom she had recently broken up, and she was too embarrassed to tell you what she had done.
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It's unusual but not weird. My guess us thst she might have commitment issues and prefers playing the field.
That’s weird. I wouldn’t agree to a date to ghost you after. Either way, she showed you she’s more of a coward than anything. I can never understand “ghosting” because what are you so scared of to tell someone you’re not interested?
Guys ghosting instead of communicating is cowardly and weak in it’s not normal it’s normalIZED but not normal. In History Plenty of wild shit used to be NORMALIZED. Doesn’t make it right.
She may Have Gotten To Thinking About The Date More... It Happens... xxoo
And now you need a pat on the shoulder and Mom gives you some candy? :)
Not meaning this in a malicious way - but what you experienced is what many others experience as well:
Life.
It is stuff like this that makes me glad I lived a long time ago before social media.
Yes its weird. It woulddve been best to say they aren't interested but instead lead u on
Nah I’m on like 5 in a row that did exactly that
To the sensitive, it might be weird. I would just brush it off myself.
i wouldn’t take it too personally, women are ungodly picky and arbitrary about their dating choices so if she wasn’t into it then just move on.
unfortunately no not at all
She got distracted perhaps
Women will flake all the time, get used to it.
Yes, she is just messing with your head.
That’s weird
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