Polls: Dating

Yes, I’m single and not looking to date anyone. Get over it

So, you connect with woman online a week ago. You chat for a few days; you exchange numbers, and you talk on the phone that Monday. So, you have been texting for about four days prior to your first phone call. Now mind you her activity bubble on the site stays green, like all the time.

Monday - she says she has Friday and Saturday off work, but maybe Friday you can get together.

Wednesday - You been texting at least three or four times a day... you ask her if Friday is still a good day, and if you can give her call on Thursday to discuss making plans. She says that she thinks we could definitely work something out.

Thursday- you text her and ask if she has time for a quick phone call. She says she is getting ready for work. So, you text her and say no worries, I just need to know if Friday is a yes or no.

She replies with I am sorry, but I made plans to go do something with a girlfriend, and she makes no comment about Saturday being an option.

Now I know what I said and did. But what I want to ask you all, is do you think she is really going out with a girlfriend, just brushing me off, or seeing another guy?

I m from Turkey. 5 feet 11 inches is a tall stature for a man in Turkey. Is it the same in your countries?

My stance is that if you look at your grandad, he could get a woman 5X the quality (virgin, cooks/cleans, obedient), just because he has a degree.

Whereas now;

You have to have your whole life in order, intelligent, money, hardworking, tall, fit everything, handsome.

For what? A girl that jumps across guys and doesn’t treat you with the true respect men deserve.

Do you agree? Just an observation. It’s so common to meet a girl that’s talking to multiple guys at once and just playing some game.

I want to believe it. And I have a promise to myself, the first woman who will love me so much from now on and if I come across her somewhere in life, I will devote my life, and will do anything for her.

But unfortunately I don't believe in it anymore. :(

I’m 24, tall, handsome, charismatic, very good career, wealth family. I tick all boxes and dating sites are just boring despite my great profile

Women are not that serious about dating, they don’t even check their accounts that often, shit responses, ghosting 👻. If you end up talking it lasts no more than a few days. Also so many women are like 30 when they get married. Women even struggle to have children at this age. They should be marrying at 20-28

I’ve got my s*** together so where’s all the good pretty women, who are looking for something serious?

I thought men are only interested in s** and women want love. The only thing holding me back is women. Women aren’t that serious and I fail to see any fault whatsoever in myself, my profile my activity on dating apps.

So what’s wrong?