Would you date someone who is in a wheel chair and paralyzed from the waist down?

[coachTanthony]

Yes

No

[BoopBoopBeep]

It's not a disqualifier but I'm not doing it for charity, so she'd a) have to bring enough to the table to date, first off and b) would have to bring something unique that the dozen women behind her don't, since despite what social media says nobody is some unique snowflake that is the be-all-end-all. It's all "sum of the package" with everyone. If she knocked everything else out of the park, sure. Also it would depend on how sex worked. One of the ladies I served with got blown up and lost the use of her legs, but she still had feeling in her groin, so she was still sexually hungry. It would be hard to date someone who I can't be intimate with in a way that they could really appreciate and not slide into a friendzone territory.

[strateguy632]

reminds me of video fantastic 4, the "thing" tells his wife "remember for better or for worse" ergo i don't believe anyone pretentious enough to say "they would" stay after the change or start dating a handi-capable walkingly challenged. is my opinion offensiv? but not fake trolling. we shouldn't pretend.

[DizzyDesii]

There was only one dude in a wheelchair that i was ready to jump for. That mf had the most beautiful face and nice toned arms. He was sweet and funny. He could do handstands and play basketball in his wheelchair. And he even had a car custom-made to be able to drive in. He didn't let his disability stop him from living. He was very happy in life and yea i totally wouldve dated him had he not got a girlfriend before I admitted my feelings. So I just had to settle for friendship.

[DreamLife7]

Drake in degrassi?

[DizzyDesii]

@DreamLife7 ew ain't nun cute about drake. But no im talking about someone i know irl who was paralyzed in childhood because of an unattentive babysitter

[DreamLife7]

🤣🤣

[DreamLife7]

Laughing at drake but Omg poor guy

[YesterdaysChild]

But being paralyzed from the waist down would preclude him from having sex one would think as he would have no feelings there. Of course he could still give oral. I don't know how the gymnastics would work out for that though.

[DizzyDesii]

@YesterdaysChild can he cum in a cup? But honestly i’d be okay without the sex

[YesterdaysChild]

If he can't feel his dick he would not be ejaculating at all. I don't know many people who could do without sex. I imagine that eventually, there would be some cheating going on.

[DreamLife7]

If he can't feel he won't be able to cum.

[DizzyDesii]

@YesterdaysChild i think its overrated at least within the first year so i’d be faithful but if i felt tempted, i’d end things

[YesterdaysChild]

@DizzyDesii At least you have honesty. I'm sure guys will appreciate that. 👍😉

[Oliverlogan263]

@DizzyDesii wow really, damn that guy in the wheelchair sounded awesome! Really refreshing to hear about someone not letting a disability hold them back. Taking on handstands and wheeling around the basketball court - mad respect.

Also big ups to him for modifying his ride so he could drive independent. Must take a strong person to overcome challenges like that with such a good attitude. No wonder he was snatched up so quick!

Can't blame you for catching feels, he seems like a stand-up dude. And having those nicely toned arms you said is never bad either, haha. Sucks it didn't work out romantically but at least you got a good friend out of it.

Maybe down the line if he and his girl don't work out, you could shoot another shot. Or who knows, you might meet someone else cool who also happens to be in a chair. Just 'cause it didn't work out with that one dude doesn't mean you couldn't vibe or have another chance with others.

Keep your head up - you know what you want now. And hey, if the opportunity's there again someday don't hesitate to take a chance! Never know where life might lead.

[DizzyDesii]

@Oliverlogan263 i dont seek dudes in a wheelchair. He was just an exception. And we drifted off from eachother because his girlfriend was territorial.

[TrueConfection]

I had a huge crush on a guy in a wheelchair when I was 18. I think he was 19. He was so sweet and berry good looking. I used to go over his house all the time and hang out with him, but I never made it out of the friend zone. I don't know if he knew how much I liked him. So, yeah, I wouldn't let a wheelchair stop me if I really like the guy.

[Anonymous]

This might not sound politically correct but I would prefer not to be honest.

I want to have fun with my boyfriend and that would be a lot harder to do if he was in a wheel chair or paralysed

Thats just my preference though. Other women out there might consider it

[katiesmuff]

Yes and No are not intelligent answers for a question like this. It all would have to do with how your feelings were for each other, how well you meshed and mostly if you loved each other or not.

[YesterdaysChild]

@katiesmuff But... you are overlooking the possibilities of having sex. They would have no feeling below the waist so it would be a one way ride.

[katiesmuff]

@YesterdaysChild I didn't overlook it, it's just another challenge you would have to resolve which would be part of the meshing and love for each other.

[YesterdaysChild]

I guess. Most would call it insurmountable, if you get the joke. It would definitely take a very special person to pull it off.

[katiesmuff]

@YesterdaysChild I 100% agree with that, and I doubt I would be one of those!

[jimmy2]

I seen some blessed women and men
In fact this kind of family invent many things for example there a family like this she was in that chair. She told her husband I want to run.

He took her wheelchair and made a motorized bike where you ride her chair into the thing and it's like a motorcycle

[YesterdaysChild]

Interesting.

[OfMiceandMen]

Why not, especially if she's the most beautiful/caring person I've ever met.

[AmeerX]

Yes I would but I always wonder if I had a disease, not contagious or Sexually transmitted and the people would found me less attractive. And I got my answer that most people find me less attractive when I tell them I had retinopathy or any other disease. So, definitely a person with a disability is seen as liability against happiness by a lot of people.

Think of it like this, films with Cancer guy or girl is only liked when she is a rich family girl 😔.

[Quigly]

To the people that voted no:

At some point in anyones life they can be in a wheelchair, It's a part of life.

If you don't believe in sickness and in health stay out of relationships and marriage all together. Cause that's literally the entire point of getting married is to help each other through life's hardships. To be there for one another. If You don't believe in family, don't whisper love into someone's ear and stand in front of the alter lying to God saying that you do.

[Nikki1989]

Of course, I would and the users on here that just don't get it, well that says a lot about them now doesn't it.

[Anonymous]

I don't see why not - might be fun.

[enterr10]

How about sex?

[Opinion Owner]

@enterr10 The question was to date, not about having sex with them. If they were paralyzed below the waist, that would be a tall order anyway.

[enterr10]

So you'd date a man without desire to have sed with him?

[Opinion Owner]

@enterr10 My idea for dating is not having sex. That is not a date, that is a hook up.

[enterr10]

You can date or marry a person without having sex with him/her?

[Opinion Owner]

@enterr10 We are talking dating, not marrying them. Keep up.

[enterr10]

So you'd date someone already knowing that you won't marry him?

[Opinion Owner]

@enterr10 Omg! Go away!

[enterr10]

Ok bye bye bye bye

[TheUniqueOne96]

Unlikely, but if we really clicked, then possibly.

[exitseven]

Yes, but marriage might not be on the table. I lead a very active life and it was important to me to find somebody who could share that

[YesterdaysChild]

I get that. I think a majority of the people would feel the same.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If we clicked and got along well, I wouldn’t mind helping in other parts of their care as we dated.

[Christoff92]

Theirs no problem with that at all. It shouldn't be a problem to begin with.

[chrissykerdock]

if he was into blowjobs i would date someone like that... i would still need to feel love even if it means getting on my knees for him.

[enterr10]

But he is paralyzed so he won't get erected

[chrissykerdock]

@enterr10 i would need that or i'd feel unloved unliked bad as it sounds

[enterr10]

Ok hr can't get erected. But he would let you touch it play with it and suck it.
Would you like that then?

[chrissykerdock]

@enterr10 i would like that

[enterr10]

What would be nice about playing with and sucking a soft penis?

[chrissykerdock]

@enterr10 is yours soft

[enterr10]

Lol. Everyone's is soft unless erected

[chrissykerdock]

@enterr10 so true

[Slim57]

Honestly probably not, just doesn't fit my life style, if something happened to my partner to put them in a wheelchair though of course I would stick around

[AmyHew1tt]

I wouldn't know for sure unless I met them, but though I'd like to say yes, I think the answer would be no.

[havingfun2023]

Honestly I couldn't. And I wouldn't want anyone to date me either to be fair, as I'm just being fair on both sides of the street.

[sheenagwapa]

nope uf you are disabled or autistic i won't date yoy

[inhua]

oh the amount of virtue signaling

[Anonymous]

No i wouldn't date someone who was already in a wheelchair before dating them.

[Chthou95]

No i wouldn't. And most of you are full of shit. You know damn well you're not dating a paralyzed person.