Would you date someone who is in a wheel chair and paralyzed from the waist down?

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BoopBoopBeep · Accepted Answer

It's not a disqualifier but I'm not doing it for charity, so she'd a) have to bring enough to the table to date, first off and b) would have to bring something unique that the dozen women behind her don't, since despite what social media says nobody is some unique snowflake that is the be-all-end-all. It's all "sum of the package" with everyone. If she knocked everything else out of the park, sure. Also it would depend on how sex worked. One of the ladies I served with got blown up and lost the use of her legs, but she still had feeling in her groin, so she was still sexually hungry. It would be hard to date someone who I can't be intimate with in a way that they could really appreciate and not slide into a friendzone territory.

strateguy632 · Accepted Answer

reminds me of video fantastic 4, the "thing" tells his wife "remember for better or for worse" ergo i don't believe anyone pretentious enough to say "they would" stay after the change or start dating a handi-capable walkingly challenged. is my opinion offensiv? but not fake trolling. we shouldn't pretend.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

There was only one dude in a wheelchair that i was ready to jump for. That mf had the most beautiful face and nice toned arms. He was sweet and funny. He could do handstands and play basketball in his wheelchair. And he even had a car custom-made to be able to drive in. He didn't let his disability stop him from living. He was very happy in life and yea i totally wouldve dated him had he not got a girlfriend before I admitted my feelings. So I just had to settle for friendship.

TrueConfection · Accepted Answer

I had a huge crush on a guy in a wheelchair when I was 18. I think he was 19. He was so sweet and berry good looking. I used to go over his house all the time and hang out with him, but I never made it out of the friend zone. I don't know if he knew how much I liked him. So, yeah, I wouldn't let a wheelchair stop me if I really like the guy.

Anonymous · Answer

This might not sound politically correct but I would prefer not to be honest.

I want to have fun with my boyfriend and that would be a lot harder to do if he was in a wheel chair or paralysed

Thats just my preference though. Other women out there might consider it

katiesmuff · Answer

Yes and No are not intelligent answers for a question like this. It all would have to do with how your feelings were for each other, how well you meshed and mostly if you loved each other or not.

jimmy2 · Answer

I seen some blessed women and men
In fact this kind of family invent many things for example there a family like this she was in that chair. She told her husband I want to run.

He took her wheelchair and made a motorized bike where you ride her chair into the thing and it's like a motorcycle

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Why not, especially if she's the most beautiful/caring person I've ever met.

AmeerX · Answer

Yes I would but I always wonder if I had a disease, not contagious or Sexually transmitted and the people would found me less attractive. And I got my answer that most people find me less attractive when I tell them I had retinopathy or any other disease. So, definitely a person with a disability is seen as liability against happiness by a lot of people.

Think of it like this, films with Cancer guy or girl is only liked when she is a rich family girl 😔.

Quigly · Answer

To the people that voted no:

At some point in anyones life they can be in a wheelchair, It's a part of life.

If you don't believe in sickness and in health stay out of relationships and marriage all together. Cause that's literally the entire point of getting married is to help each other through life's hardships. To be there for one another. If You don't believe in family, don't whisper love into someone's ear and stand in front of the alter lying to God saying that you do.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Of course, I would and the users on here that just don't get it, well that says a lot about them now doesn't it.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't see why not - might be fun.

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

Unlikely, but if we really clicked, then possibly.

exitseven · Answer

Yes, but marriage might not be on the table. I lead a very active life and it was important to me to find somebody who could share that

CupcakeTheDestroyer · Answer

If we clicked and got along well, I wouldn’t mind helping in other parts of their care as we dated.

Christoff92 · Answer

Theirs no problem with that at all. It shouldn't be a problem to begin with.

chrissykerdock · Answer

if he was into blowjobs i would date someone like that... i would still need to feel love even if it means getting on my knees for him.

Slim57 · Answer

Honestly probably not, just doesn't fit my life style, if something happened to my partner to put them in a wheelchair though of course I would stick around

AmyHew1tt · Answer

I wouldn't know for sure unless I met them, but though I'd like to say yes, I think the answer would be no.

havingfun2023 · Answer

Honestly I couldn't. And I wouldn't want anyone to date me either to be fair, as I'm just being fair on both sides of the street.

sheenagwapa · Answer

nope uf you are disabled or autistic i won't date yoy

inhua · Answer

oh the amount of virtue signaling

Anonymous · Answer

No i wouldn't date someone who was already in a wheelchair before dating them.

Chthou95 · Answer

No i wouldn't. And most of you are full of shit. You know damn well you're not dating a paralyzed person.

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