Polls: Dating

If there was chemistry and you got along really well with her, would you be with a more mature woman; a cougar (or if she has kids, a MILF)?

Like 35 to 45, if you're under the age of 40.
45 to 55, if you're 40 to 45 yourself.
Or 55+, if you're over the age of 45.

Her face is age appropriate, but she's still good looking, but her body "looks younger" and is like an all-natural 9 out of 10. She's very healthy for her age and you two have a lot in common. You just don't know if she's always been single, is divorced, widowed, etc.

I asked a girl for her number today and she sed she wasn't quick to respond and she sed it would be better to add or contact her through social media. I waited a few hours to send her a friend request on Facebook. I did because I thoght it wouldn't seem desperate if i added her to soon, but maybe that was the problem, I didn't add her soon enough. Maybe it came off as I didn't care. Also when she sed she's not quick to respond, that might be bs because everyone always has there phone on them. Leave your opinion down below please.

Your boyfriend has a best friend that happens to be female and also happens to be really hot. Are you fine with that?

A man handsome or very handsome or normal looking.

What would most super pretty girls like the most?

Or do you rather prefer weak girls so you can keep cheating on weak girls?

I'm a very light skin Dominican and because I've had a lot of people think I'm other race, Italian being one of them.

Ironically I moved to a predominantly white part of my state when I was 13 and been living here since then, but even more ironic Italians are the majority here. throughout my school days and even after graduation I've had a lot of girls here drool over me but I never went with the flow or tried to showed mutual interest because I always thought I would deceive them ones I reveal to them that I am not one of them.

There is this girl that works at the hardware store that is really attractive. She is in high school about to graduate early in January. I wanna ask her out. Should I?

My HighSchool crush recently got in contact with me and I was surprised when she did and I was also a little happy too. We began to chat a little and had a video call then proceeded to vibe and catch up a little. After we started talking for a bit, she then proceeds to tell me, in confidence, that she regrets not giving me a chance and she has wondered and has been wondering what her life would be like if she did give me a chance. During HS she knew how much I liked her but we still remained as friends. Even tho this news bring me a bit of joy and excitement, I still am not sure how to go about this. elp :(

Context:
I am 23yrs old and so is she.
She is married and has a kid. She lives in the same state as me.
Husband is in Mexico

The whole premise of this website is to ask the opposite gender about dating and relationship questions. Given we are anonymous it’s easier to ask questions and get responses without worry about losing face.

And yet I find that most women I talk to do NOT often give good dating advice. I feel that they usually respond to “protect the team” i. e. tell me what to do which is in best interest to another random woman vs. really trying to understand my POV.

For what it’s worth it’s extremely difficult to think and understand the opposite gender. But I don’t always respond to “protect some other guy” depending on the circumstance a woman is going through and asking about.

Sometimes i see women talking about emotionally abusive relationships and encourage them to get tough and draw the line. They struggle because they have feelings which are compromising their judgment (can be true on the man’s side as well). But I don’t like seeing dbag guys get away with that crap. I sure as hell won’t tell the girl to keep enabling them.

But I feel that most women on here (and in general) always give the other woman the benefit of the doubt when they are giving advice to guys. Guys aren’t looking for the answer they want to hear on here. They want the truth so when we ask questions we rarely embellish our circumstances.

Anyway when I am dealing with tough dating situations I find that other men usually give better advice then women. Reason being they are feeling emotions I am feeling so they can look at issue more clear headed. It might be not what I want to hear. But what I NEED to hear. That is what matters.