Do you feel wanted by the opposite sex?

Question

Do you have " presence " wherever you go? How easy for you to get a date? Are you never short of female / male attention? Do you always have " options "? Do people always flirt / crush on you? Ever had a secret admirer? Or Someone who was kinda obsessed with you?

NathanDavis · Accepted Answer

Do you feel wanted by the opposite sex? -- some of them, definitely wanted some of me, yes...  Do you have " presence " wherever you go? -- yes, I do have that presence that comes with being yourself, wherever you go... How easy for you to get a date? -- it could be easy if I just wanted to date for the sake of dating and trying... but, I don't like "easy" and, personally, I am very selective as to who and why I'll dedicate time with someone Are you never short of female / male attention? -- I never look or make myself the center of attention like that, but yes... attention, intrigue, some interest has always been there, depending on the settings and circumstances as well... Do you always have " options "? -- if I wanted "options" there would be some options yes, but again... I am very selective, so I do not consider a "menu of options" ever, lol Do people always flirt / crush on you? -- it has happened before a few times, much more so when I was younger, but no.. it definitely does not happen "all the time" Ever had a secret admirer? -- yes, in the past... but they always came out about it... truly secret admirers I don't know since they would have not told me so, lmfao Or Someone who was kinda' obsessed with you? -- sort of, but I would not call it on obsession, more like a mild fixation... lol

BullShark · Accepted Answer

Lots of questions here. I'll try my best to answer them one at a time. Here goes..

No, I do not have a strong "presence" wherever I go. Whenever I enter a room, people may look up but that's it.
Getting a date isn't easy, what with everyone's stupid, unrealistic demands nowadays.
I could definitely use some more female attention. Because it's little to nil for me.
Options? Plural? Nah. Not even singular.
Nobody's flirted with me ever, so no, nobody has a crush on me either most likely.
No secret admirer.
No one's obsessed with me either.

So no. I don't think I'm "wanted" by anyone.

WonderBell99 · Accepted Answer

Well, I have only been rejected twice. I confessed my feelings to one of my guy friends and he said he viewed me as a sister so it would be awkward for him to date me. The other guy had a ton of shit going on in his life, so it was sensible to not start a romantic relationship. Other than that, my feelings have always been reciprocated back if I really like someone and show interest in them. I don't really have a "presence" wherever I go. I don't turn heads when I go somewhere, but I'm very charismatic if I want to be. I'd consider that a positive trait. I'm by no means manipulative, but I am genuine and put effort into getting to know people and showing interest in them. It always works.

I don't want to be wanted by everyone. That would be overwhelming. I just want to be wanted by someone I want. I don't really like people easily, but when I do, they are good people. I don't think anyone has ever checked me out. I have had guys staring at me, and when I switched schools, some people were "intrigued" because I was reserved and did not converse much.. other than that, nope. Nada, zilch, nothing. One of my crushes was into my best friend, lol. That hurt like hell. She does have a presence wherever she goes. She is stunning, inside and out. I'm just a plain Jane.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

I barely feel wanted by the people in my life, much less the opposite sex.
No, I do not. And before anyone says, "You're just being hard on yourself!" LOL, no; I'm not.

I don't get dates or approached by men. I don't have "options," I'm not even an option for most, lol. Nor do people flirt with me. I call myself "just there." I'm that friend people run to for dating advice, but not exactly attractive enough to date or list after.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Guys don’t approach me because I look pretty, they approach me because I look predictable and nice - a hot girl that gets angry or a nice person who looks like a sister?

Guy13 · Answer

No one lives a fake hollywood lifestyle. No complaints...

soulbabe · Answer

Lol I pretty much don't exist to any gender the only time I get attention is at 3 am when the creepy dude's who might kidnap you show up. And they only want me because there nobody else around.

Like lagit first day of college I was the first person to class there were 4 round tables I picked the one in the middle of the room everyone came in and once all the other tables were full the rest of the students looked at my table looked at the other packed tables removed all of the chairs from my table and over crowded the other tables to the point sum had to write on their knee's

If that's not social rejection I don't know what is

Guy___ · Answer

It depends on the time and place. For some people there is no such thing as too much. The usual problems are if it distracts you from work, etc.

And I see that gag allowed gifs to play in poll options, it couldn't last time I tried.

hafinjun · Answer

When I turned 50 it was like a switch has been flipped, suddenly in the eyes of either gender I was old , my facial features at best could be described as rugged. I don't feel my age except some mornings😬, but in seemingly 24 hours I went from getting positive responses when I'd flirt with someone, to get looked at like I'm. an old perv ( not that I'm not), or worse yet a customer in need of a "date."

BlueScorpio · Answer

Imma go with E lol truth be told if I wasn't married or never met my husband, in sure I would still be single. Growing up I didn't receive a whole lot male attention and not even in my 20s to now. So yea I have feeling that's what would happen.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

Taken now. But back when I was dating, no. I had to work to stand out to women I was interested in, but I was very selective. However whenever I was talking to one woman or more, usually more would come and talk later when I was by myself.

TrueConfection · Answer

I voted D unless you count my husband. It takes a lot of work for me to look hot enough. Or, if I want easy, I just go to the grocery store. I don't know what it is about the grocery store, but I get stopped every time. No place else though!

he-takes-a-part · Answer

well there was a time in my life that sharing number went like crazy. In and around 250 people class. top 16 girls were available for me as and when i watned them. now others who shied, there scenario was just to give me dead stare no matter if i get disturbed or what. In a 2.5 hrs class that lot hardly paid attention on the board. some instances, they will hit your leg. touch you on shoulders, hit you from behind when they walk pass by, turn around and see you. would bring their ass closer to you and sometimes grind your head or dick that too in a public place. sometimes sitting with their own friend/'boyfriend's no matter what but they would stare at me resting their face on hands and no matter who thinks what. you name it. sorry I don't know why i liked to spit it out.

MCheetah · Answer

My short-ass has NEVER felt wanted by the opposite sex in my adult life. I did when I was in high school though, but I was too bust focusing on my grades, at the time, to worry about girls. The only women who have shown interest in me as an adult have been queer ("bisexual"), so none of them gross-ass lesbians count.

Summeroflove · Answer

Some women are into me. Some aren’t. The same as everyone else. I’m attracted to some women and not to others.

Nothing personal. Doesn’t mean they hate me or I hate someone for not being attracted to someone romantically and/or sexually. They just aren’t my cup of tea or I’m not their cup of tea.

Heolurt · Answer

Yea right, I look like a monster that's generally not the kind of face the gets the wanted feel and don't give me that confidence bullshit because even when I had confidence, I was only ever called ugly.

marshmallowcream · Answer

Yes , I do feel desired by the opposite sex (not gonna lie it’s a great feeling ) often get approached on a night out and sometimes randomly on my way home from work (when it happens unexpectedly it’s the best)

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

Sometimes, but not usually by the ones i desire. Ell oh ell!

lucas262 · Answer

Iv always felt like i repelled the opposite sex. I don't know why, and when I asked people said I wasn't confident enough. Hard yo be confident when you've Nothing to be confident about.

Darine123 · Answer

The guy that I want him to wants me he doesn’t but the guy that I don’t want them to want me they wanted me

Asker2022 · Answer

Actually, I don’t think that a girl has ever been attracted to me.

Valso · Answer

"Do you feel wanted by the opposite sex?" No. That's why I get them drunk to the point where all of their inhibitions drop and they don't care who fucks them, for as long as someone does.

Chthou95 · Answer

Nope. I have to work for it and build my value. Like most men do. Men must create their value, women must protect their value

melanieeeB · Answer

Yeah and sometimes even too much, so that if feels uncomfortable and objectified

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Very much so! Women show me a lot of love. It's nice. It can be a little overwhelming though.

WhitneySnow · Answer

I voted A. It does get a little overwhelming sometimes.

HighValue · Answer

Yeah. They show interest in me IRL, but the area where I live has too many people that aren't up to my moral standards so I end up not dating them.

JSmuve · Answer

No. As far as I can tell I'm more or less invisible to women. The most I get is I'll get women occasionally looking at me or doing a double-take. But they never approach or they never signal that they want to be approached.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Usually by older men who think I'm just 30-something, I still get flirted on and/or asked for dates even though it's known that I'm married.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I find that I intrigue women. They always notice me, and I can tell that there is activity going on in their brains. I can't tell if their thoughts are positive or negative, though. I think maybe I confuse them.

slatyb · Answer

Women seem to like me. I'm attractive enough, but I think mostly it's because I listen to them and pay attention.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

I am like the predator who forgot how to put the invisibility mode off

es20490446e · Answer

I feel most women like me quite a bit. Other thing is that if they are capable of articulating that liking into a healthy relationship.

nightowl_28 · Answer

No I don't think so I think women think I'm ugly so I don't bother

TroyDT2 · Answer

Not really, but I can lure enough to keep me occupied so it's all good.

PainusNdeeAnus · Answer

I honestly could care less that being said I do really well with women when I’m not being a low maintenance sloth

OddBeMe · Answer

Just one representative of the opposite sex, who agreed to marry me.

24_7_Amazing · Answer

I'm happy and confident with who I am. Do you I feel wanted by woman? No, but I'm okay with that.

drizzledtoffy · Answer

It's happened a few times, only once or twice was it a woman I actually felt attractive, others weren't my type.

KelleyNice · Answer

I don't lack attention from the opposite sex.

AsaKyo · Answer

No lmao

jamesgoldman · Answer

No, thank God

Zolly99999 · Answer

Nope... not at all...

mobiusforniner · Answer

Yes, but only in my 30s. Never in my 20s.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes, daily.

Anonymous · Answer

More like the opposite. 🤣

MrTaboo · Answer

Yes, just because I have money

BLP11520 · Answer

Some want money and some actually want me

Trilinium · Answer

Absofruitly not

Brendlolita2 · Answer

Nope.

Dnc_21 · Answer

Somehow yes...

grega239 · Answer

Nooe

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