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it feels good no matter who you are.
That's how we work given we are animals living in groups. We need to feel appreciated.
And it feels even better when the appreciation comes in such a natural way of a "look" from the opposite sex.
I like it. I would however like it more if the girl would actually gather the strength to actually say something or do something more than just look and let it go. I sometimes realized too late that the girl was actually into me, because they would only look. This happened at work with two hot girls. I only realized after months or so, when for some reason the bulb lit up.
There were only 3 girls that actually did a bit more than just look and I have to give a round of applause to them.
One was upfront about it and said she wants to sleep with me. I was 13. so I freaked out and did not leave the house the next day as I did not know how to handle that.
Beautiful girl, she definitely had the looks.
Then another one that sees me, looks at me, changes direction, comes towards me and I could look at her face and see her turn fire red, but that did not stop her. She approached and said HI, while smiling in a genuine, honest "I don't give a fuck if I'm red, I know, but I like you" kind of way.
Voted "NO." I don't "SECRETLY" enjoy being checked out by the opposite sex. I "OPENLY enjoy it.
Very flattering - especially when it's my girlfriend. However, all women are welcome to make me feel sexy and macho by checking me out.
Sure, and I don't think it's a secret that most people do. Lol It's flattering to know that someone finds you attractive. The only thing that I wouldn't enjoy would be if they were obnoxious about it (whistling, yelling obscenities at me, etc.) but I know that most normal people don't do that when they check someone out.
Does it make a difference on if the guy is hot, cute or handsome though? I would think it would be ultra flattering on if the guy checking you out is good looking to you and attractive vs a homely looking guy? As long as it's not obnoxious like you said. Like I admit, it is flattering generally if a woman finds me attractive or checks me out. But it definitely feels much better or flattering when it's a cute, pretty or hot girl doing so.
@brennanhuff I mean, I don't feel upset or bothered if someone I'm not attracted to checks me out, but I can agree that it does feel "better" when it's someone I'm attracted to also.
How about me would you mind checking me out
I love other men checking me out, I am by nature an exhibitionist, like I think a lot of people are, why else would girls wear revealing clothes, and why do a lot of fella's work out to get a nicely trimmed body, the more checking out the more my ego soars
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I don't know if women still do at my age, but when I was younger, I enjoyed it very much and sometimes hit on ones that did.
I voted no but it depends - if guys are hitting on me its a good thing because it means I have options - but if guys are checking me out - to me it means they want to hit it and quit it and I don't like that - I hate being objectified.
when i'm at gym i can feel it when people stare at me. it's like i feel this awkward and weird sensation coming from the direction the person is staring at me from, and when i look at that direction i always see the person being startled/freaking out and quickly trying to pretend to be doing something. it's pretty funny at first but now i find it to be quite annoying.
I keep a three second rule. My eyes and face give a "hello what's up" look up and around. Then start acting like adult in a business meeting if the need arrives.
If in a passing by situation i give my look that says you made my day a bit better, and based on your poll i hope my look made there day a bit better in those three seconds.
Even if I consiously like the idea of being noticed and liked by women, I admit being checked out may make me uncomfortable. In fact, any behavior that can be seemingly flirty toward me can make me uncomfortable, regardless of whether or not I like the person back. I tend to get nervous and not know how to respond.
Oh yeah I do enjoy and especially when I catch one and she knows it. Eye to eye with a woman talking and when she has an impulsive glance on my body and then looks back at me and I can see embarrassment. Great sht, I am an attention whore!
I do.
BUT if the dude is looking really hard at me with a perve stare then that'll just make me uncomfortable!
It's happened a few times and i had to hide myself behind someone lol
Yes, but I don't think it's really a secret. It's obvious that most of us enjoy attention from both sexes, but especially the opposite sex. It's what you do with that attention that ends up being secret if you're not behaving.
I can be a bit oblivious to my surroundings sometimes so no, if I'm not talking to the guy or he's not standing out from the crowd (dressing weirdly, drawing lots of attention, being loud) then at most I might glance at him while looking around.
Haha there was this one time a guy walked past me and turned round and full on checked me out, the thing was we were walking alongside a load of big windows and I saw his reaction clear as day, it was pretty funny actually ;)
Lol.. nice
I make no secret of it at all. I've listened (unintentionally) assess me and my oh my the language they use but it's always interesting to hear. As for getting checked out, when it happens I think it's great.
I don't mind one way or the other if someone checks me out as looks count for nothing. Though I wouldn't even notice if they were checking me out blatantly.
No, because when I enjoy it, I don't make it a secret. And whether I enjoy it or not very very much depends on how this "checking out" is done and in what circumstances and so on.
I'm bi, and I like anyone who checks me out. It's flattering. Sometimes I slut-drop for them. It's funny
Actually yeah, when I see a beautiful girl checking me out (or 1 in 2 or something) and I'm with my parents or something then I can't talk to them so I just see in the corner of my eye if they look at me and I enjoy it when they do 😎
Fuck no secret there. I love being checked out and looked at like a piece of meat sometimes. It tells me I'm sexually desirable and that's a good thing in my eyes. ;)
I only like it when it’s because they are sexually attracted to my physical appearance. If they are only checking me out because they like how I “carry myself” then that’s more of a turn off for me.
@DamnMan Women check out men for many reasons but I only find it flattering if they check me out for my looks. Of course, I don’t mind being admired for my other traits though.
I bet girls who voted for "No" are those who wear big cleavages and tight shorts and then they complain about how all men are perverts.
Who wouldn’t. I mean when someone is checking you out it means they find you attractive, so they are basically giving you a compliment. I have never heard anyone say that they didn’t like to get a compliment
Its basic human nature. Everyone want to be wanted. Anyone telling you otherwise is lying.
Tell that to the sex negative feminists out t here.
@worldscolide I really don't think you can tell these people anything they don't want to hear. :)
agreed
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