Do you secretly enjoy the opposite sex checking you out?

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looneymalooney · Accepted Answer

it feels good no matter who you are.
That's how we work given we are animals living in groups. We need to feel appreciated.
And it feels even better when the appreciation comes in such a natural way of a "look" from the opposite sex.

I like it. I would however like it more if the girl would actually gather the strength to actually say something or do something more than just look and let it go. I sometimes realized too late that the girl was actually into me, because they would only look. This happened at work with two hot girls. I only realized after months or so, when for some reason the bulb lit up.

There were only 3 girls that actually did a bit more than just look and I have to give a round of applause to them.
One was upfront about it and said she wants to sleep with me. I was 13. so I freaked out and did not leave the house the next day as I did not know how to handle that.
Beautiful girl, she definitely had the looks.

Then another one that sees me, looks at me, changes direction, comes towards me and I could look at her face and see her turn fire red, but that did not stop her. She approached and said HI, while smiling in a genuine, honest "I don't give a fuck if I'm red, I know, but I like you" kind of way.

nightdrot · Accepted Answer

Voted "NO." I don't "SECRETLY" enjoy being checked out by the opposite sex. I "OPENLY enjoy it.

Very flattering - especially when it's my girlfriend. However, all women are welcome to make me feel sexy and macho by checking me out.

xHoneyxBeex · Accepted Answer

Sure, and I don't think it's a secret that most people do. Lol It's flattering to know that someone finds you attractive. The only thing that I wouldn't enjoy would be if they were obnoxious about it (whistling, yelling obscenities at me, etc.) but I know that most normal people don't do that when they check someone out.

weysally · Accepted Answer

I love other men checking me out, I am by nature an exhibitionist, like I think a lot of people are, why else would girls wear revealing clothes, and why do a lot of fella's work out to get a nicely trimmed body, the more checking out the more my ego soars

Logorithim · Answer

I don't know if women still do at my age, but when I was younger, I enjoyed it very much and sometimes hit on ones that did.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I voted no but it depends - if guys are hitting on me its a good thing because it means I have options - but if guys are checking me out - to me it means they want to hit it and quit it and I don't like that - I hate being objectified.

ImSoSquishy · Answer

when i'm at gym i can feel it when people stare at me. it's like i feel this awkward and weird sensation coming from the direction the person is staring at me from, and when i look at that direction i always see the person being startled/freaking out and quickly trying to pretend to be doing something. it's pretty funny at first but now i find it to be quite annoying.

NaultD · Answer

I keep a three second rule. My eyes and face give a "hello what's up" look up and around. Then start acting like adult in a business meeting if the need arrives.

If in a passing by situation i give my look that says you made my day a bit better, and based on your poll i hope my look made there day a bit better in those three seconds.

Burgerboy21 · Answer

Even if I consiously like the idea of being noticed and liked by women, I admit being checked out may make me uncomfortable. In fact, any behavior that can be seemingly flirty toward me can make me uncomfortable, regardless of whether or not I like the person back. I tend to get nervous and not know how to respond.

passinby · Answer

Oh yeah I do enjoy and especially when I catch one and she knows it. Eye to eye with a woman talking and when she has an impulsive glance on my body and then looks back at me and I can see embarrassment. Great sht, I am an attention whore!

BunButtJennie · Answer

I do. BUT if the dude is looking really hard at me with a perve stare then that'll just make me uncomfortable! It's happened a few times and i had to hide myself behind someone lol

Sbleigh · Answer

Yes, but I don't think it's really a secret. It's obvious that most of us enjoy attention from both sexes, but especially the opposite sex. It's what you do with that attention that ends up being secret if you're not behaving.

Nxtawm · Answer

I can be a bit oblivious to my surroundings sometimes so no, if I'm not talking to the guy or he's not standing out from the crowd (dressing weirdly, drawing lots of attention, being loud) then at most I might glance at him while looking around.

19magic · Answer

Haha there was this one time a guy walked past me and turned round and full on checked me out, the thing was we were walking alongside a load of big windows and I saw his reaction clear as day, it was pretty funny actually ;)

i1T2daty · Answer

I make no secret of it at all. I've listened (unintentionally) assess me and my oh my the language they use but it's always interesting to hear. As for getting checked out, when it happens I think it's great.

FinalVow · Answer

I don't mind one way or the other if someone checks me out as looks count for nothing. Though I wouldn't even notice if they were checking me out blatantly.

Pamina · Answer

No, because when I enjoy it, I don't make it a secret. And whether I enjoy it or not very very much depends on how this "checking out" is done and in what circumstances and so on.

DaChillCookie · Answer

I'm bi, and I like anyone who checks me out. It's flattering. Sometimes I slut-drop for them. It's funny

dontgofalling · Answer

Actually yeah, when I see a beautiful girl checking me out (or 1 in 2 or something) and I'm with my parents or something then I can't talk to them so I just see in the corner of my eye if they look at me and I enjoy it when they do 😎

MrMysteryMan · Answer

Fuck no secret there. I love being checked out and looked at like a piece of meat sometimes. It tells me I'm sexually desirable and that's a good thing in my eyes. ;)

ADFSDF1996 · Answer

I only like it when it’s because they are sexually attracted to my physical appearance. If they are only checking me out because they like how I “carry myself” then that’s more of a turn off for me.

MrAdams · Answer

I bet girls who voted for "No" are those who wear big cleavages and tight shorts and then they complain about how all men are perverts.

stepup20 · Answer

Who wouldn’t. I mean when someone is checking you out it means they find you attractive, so they are basically giving you a compliment. I have never heard anyone say that they didn’t like to get a compliment

NormaTavish · Answer

Its basic human nature. Everyone want to be wanted. Anyone telling you otherwise is lying.

victorvolf · Answer

If I said "yes", then it's not a secret any more and it should be "no". Did I break into the 5th dimension?

ChronicThinker · Answer

I have always been honest about enjoying it, within reason. Some people take it too far, but it's easy to ignore.

bubbatxman · Answer

If it’s a secret how would I know? It was an attempt at a secret that was caught or it was obvious.. ;)

Dinklex3 · Answer

No. I feel disgusted.  People act like they've never seen a womans body before.  Especially when they start following you. It's the worse.

Enaya · Answer

They can watch as long as they don't make a sleezy cat call. I usually get a headturn or two when I'm out, it feels good.

LittleRedKat · Answer

In a respectful way. If they're whistling or honking I don't like it. But if they're just looking or flirting in a non degrading way then I don't mind.

Factshurt90 · Answer

The only person I want to turn on is my Boyfriend. I don’t like attention from random strangers it makes me feel cheap

iFarted · Answer

Its not a secret that i enjoy attention from the ladies.

AbdKilani · Answer

Secretly? I don't think anyone would be annoyed with that  And yes, we all enjoy it if the opposite sex was attractive

PrincessPie · Answer

I actually don't, UNLESS i feel some sort of attraction to the person doing it.

SarahsSummer · Answer

It depends on how creepily they do it and if I’m attracted to the guy.

_Dylan_ · Answer

I do, I'm not really great looking and I'm the quiet guy so honestly I don't think I've ever noticed it. But hell if I did I'd love it

Anonymous · Answer

It depends though, checking you out can mean you’re being judge in a positive or negative way for criticism. If a guy looks at me, I like the nice looks, not the nasty ew looks.

Elizzie · Answer

As long as it's subtle and quick, or at least non-creepy.

African_Queen0309 · Answer

Since I’m a girl I’m not as bothered as most guys I know would but if it’s like a sex related thought I would be disgusted

TheBigSoftie · Answer

Sort of. Heck, I just feel good when ANYBODY checks me out cos it makes me feel better about myself. :')

imredheaded · Answer

Not even secretly. I'll happily take somebody checking me out. Hell, I'm straight and I'm happy if a gay guy checks me out. As long as I'm still hot to somebody!

lucas2323 · Answer

Always shoot them a little smile if they're good looking 😂😂

Unnameable · Answer

I said yes, but technically my answer is no. I openly enjoy anyone checking me out

Dannii97 · Answer

I enjoy it... As long as they don't get all creepy or stalky

blubblubblub · Answer

Sure but only if im interested in them too and its not in a creepy way.

BangTanSauceJK · Answer

I do secretly enjoy being checked out but not in a way that a guy might look at a woman creepily.

Dsg11694 · Answer

I must say, I don’t think I’ve ever had a woman hit on me😂

Cammy137 · Answer

I've literally never noticed someone checking me out. I probably would enjoy it though.

RetroAlpha · Answer

Of course.  ... and there's no way in hell that's a secret!

naijagurl · Answer

As long as they’re not invasive or make it blatantly obvious, I don’t mind

bekalen · Answer

Yeah. Really it depends on who's looking and why they are looking. ;)

binarybabe001 · Answer

Yes, my boyfriend does too. We playfully tease each other about it sometimes.

Drener · Answer

If it is my boyfriend HELLYES if it is someone else HELLNO

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes i do , i love your Avatar that is one beautiful dog. Awe :)

Kaneki05 · Answer

Yea of course i would even like it if a gay guy did and i am not gay at all.

TShot · Answer

I like it when they do it so I can see, then we flirt and have fun

fjh80 · Answer

Of coarse, it's flattering. Those act offended by it piss me off.

sawno · Answer

No, given the fact its universally known guys love this its not really a secret ;P

Julie102 · Answer

Because I feel apreciateed not from who I am on the inside but who I am on the outside as well.

Benedek38 · Answer

Secretly? If it happened, I'd be obviously happy. Too bad it doesn't.

Seanhub · Answer

I don't mind getting checked out by any sex, no homo

TheyCallMeTayTay · Answer

I mean, I get shy as fuck when anyone checks me out but that doesn't mean I don't like the attention

animelover14 · Answer

Not sure. I never had that happen to me or maybe it did but I wasn't paying attention.

lomimore · Answer

There is no secret there i like when guys check me out thats it😅

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