Do you secretly enjoy the opposite sex checking you out?

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  • Voted "NO." I don't "SECRETLY" enjoy being checked out by the opposite sex. I "OPENLY enjoy it.

    Very flattering - especially when it's my girlfriend. However, all women are welcome to make me feel sexy and macho by checking me out.

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  • it feels good no matter who you are.
    That's how we work given we are animals living in groups. We need to feel appreciated.
    And it feels even better when the appreciation comes in such a natural way of a "look" from the opposite sex.

    I like it. I would however like it more if the girl would actually gather the strength to actually say something or do something more than just look and let it go. I sometimes realized too late that the girl was actually into me, because they would only look. This happened at work with two hot girls. I only realized after months or so, when for some reason the bulb lit up.

    There were only 3 girls that actually did a bit more than just look and I have to give a round of applause to them.
    One was upfront about it and said she wants to sleep with me. I was 13. so I freaked out and did not leave the house the next day as I did not know how to handle that.
    Beautiful girl, she definitely had the looks.

    Then another one that sees me, looks at me, changes direction, comes towards me and I could look at her face and see her turn fire red, but that did not stop her. She approached and said HI, while smiling in a genuine, honest "I don't give a fuck if I'm red, I know, but I like you" kind of way.

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  • Sure, and I don't think it's a secret that most people do. Lol It's flattering to know that someone finds you attractive. The only thing that I wouldn't enjoy would be if they were obnoxious about it (whistling, yelling obscenities at me, etc.) but I know that most normal people don't do that when they check someone out.

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    • Does it make a difference on if the guy is hot, cute or handsome though? I would think it would be ultra flattering on if the guy checking you out is good looking to you and attractive vs a homely looking guy? As long as it's not obnoxious like you said. Like I admit, it is flattering generally if a woman finds me attractive or checks me out. But it definitely feels much better or flattering when it's a cute, pretty or hot girl doing so.

    • @brennanhuff I mean, I don't feel upset or bothered if someone I'm not attracted to checks me out, but I can agree that it does feel "better" when it's someone I'm attracted to also.

    • How about me would you mind checking me out

  • I love other men checking me out, I am by nature an exhibitionist, like I think a lot of people are, why else would girls wear revealing clothes, and why do a lot of fella's work out to get a nicely trimmed body, the more checking out the more my ego soars

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What Guys Said 160

  • I don't know if women still do at my age, but when I was younger, I enjoyed it very much and sometimes hit on ones that did.

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  • Oh yeah I do enjoy and especially when I catch one and she knows it. Eye to eye with a woman talking and when she has an impulsive glance on my body and then looks back at me and I can see embarrassment. Great sht, I am an attention whore!

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  • when i'm at gym i can feel it when people stare at me. it's like i feel this awkward and weird sensation coming from the direction the person is staring at me from, and when i look at that direction i always see the person being startled/freaking out and quickly trying to pretend to be doing something. it's pretty funny at first but now i find it to be quite annoying.

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  • I bet girls who voted for "No" are those who wear big cleavages and tight shorts and then they complain about how all men are perverts.

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    • Tbh if they worn like that they probably do enjoy the attention.

    • Not true, but maybe they want attention only of certain people.

  • Even if I consiously like the idea of being noticed and liked by women, I admit being checked out may make me uncomfortable. In fact, any behavior that can be seemingly flirty toward me can make me uncomfortable, regardless of whether or not I like the person back. I tend to get nervous and not know how to respond.

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  • Secretly?
    I don't think anyone would be annoyed with that
    And yes, we all enjoy it if the opposite sex was attractive

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    • my guess is that guys secretly do enjoy it where as girl not so much

    • Nope trust me
      If a good looking guy was checking you out. You would be smiling without a reason

  • I make no secret of it at all. I've listened (unintentionally) assess me and my oh my the language they use but it's always interesting to hear. As for getting checked out, when it happens I think it's great.

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  • I don't mind one way or the other if someone checks me out as looks count for nothing. Though I wouldn't even notice if they were checking me out blatantly.

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  • I keep a three second rule. My eyes and face give a "hello what's up" look up and around. Then start acting like adult in a business meeting if the need arrives.

    If in a passing by situation i give my look that says you made my day a bit better, and based on your poll i hope my look made there day a bit better in those three seconds.

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  • Actually yeah, when I see a beautiful girl checking me out (or 1 in 2 or something) and I'm with my parents or something then I can't talk to them so I just see in the corner of my eye if they look at me and I enjoy it when they do 😎

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  • Fuck no secret there. I love being checked out and looked at like a piece of meat sometimes. It tells me I'm sexually desirable and that's a good thing in my eyes. ;)

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  • Who wouldn’t. I mean when someone is checking you out it means they find you attractive, so they are basically giving you a compliment. I have never heard anyone say that they didn’t like to get a compliment

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  • I only like it when it’s because they are sexually attracted to my physical appearance. If they are only checking me out because they like how I “carry myself” then that’s more of a turn off for me.

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    • Wait. I don't get it.

    • @DamnMan Women check out men for many reasons but I only find it flattering if they check me out for my looks. Of course, I don’t mind being admired for my other traits though.

  • If it’s a secret how would I know? It was an attempt at a secret that was caught or it was obvious.. ;)

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  • Of course.
    ... and there's no way in hell that's a secret!

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  • I don't mind getting checked out by any sex, no homo

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  • Its not a secret that i enjoy attention from the ladies.

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  • I said yes, but technically my answer is no. I openly enjoy anyone checking me out

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  • Not even secretly. I'll happily take somebody checking me out. Hell, I'm straight and I'm happy if a gay guy checks me out. As long as I'm still hot to somebody!

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  • Sort of. Heck, I just feel good when ANYBODY checks me out cos it makes me feel better about myself. :')

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What Girls Said 84

  • I do.
    BUT if the dude is looking really hard at me with a perve stare then that'll just make me uncomfortable!
    It's happened a few times and i had to hide myself behind someone lol

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  • Yes, but I don't think it's really a secret. It's obvious that most of us enjoy attention from both sexes, but especially the opposite sex. It's what you do with that attention that ends up being secret if you're not behaving.

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  • I can be a bit oblivious to my surroundings sometimes so no, if I'm not talking to the guy or he's not standing out from the crowd (dressing weirdly, drawing lots of attention, being loud) then at most I might glance at him while looking around.

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  • I voted no but it depends - if guys are hitting on me its a good thing because it means I have options - but if guys are checking me out - to me it means they want to hit it and quit it and I don't like that - I hate being objectified.

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  • Haha there was this one time a guy walked past me and turned round and full on checked me out, the thing was we were walking alongside a load of big windows and I saw his reaction clear as day, it was pretty funny actually ;)

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  • No, because when I enjoy it, I don't make it a secret. And whether I enjoy it or not very very much depends on how this "checking out" is done and in what circumstances and so on.

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  • I'm bi, and I like anyone who checks me out. It's flattering. Sometimes I slut-drop for them. It's funny

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  • As long as it's subtle and quick, or at least non-creepy.

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  • I do secretly enjoy being checked out but not in a way that a guy might look at a woman creepily.

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  • Yes, my boyfriend does too. We playfully tease each other about it sometimes.

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    • I guess me and your boyfriend think alike cause I think it's a turn on to be with the woman that every guy is checking out

  • They can watch as long as they don't make a sleezy cat call. I usually get a headturn or two when I'm out, it feels good.

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  • In a respectful way. If they're whistling or honking I don't like it. But if they're just looking or flirting in a non degrading way then I don't mind.

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    • Jesus Christ! So many freckles! Don't get me wrong, they look good, but goddamnit, that's a lot! I bet you use like, 5000 SPF sunscreen.

  • I have always been honest about enjoying it, within reason. Some people take it too far, but it's easy to ignore.

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  • I strictly belive NO because that's not moral or ethical.
    But in today's world it's an outright fact that many people do it and we can do nothing about their mindset.

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  • I enjoy it... As long as they don't get all creepy or stalky

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  • I actually don't, UNLESS i feel some sort of attraction to the person doing it.

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  • It depends on how creepily they do it and if I’m attracted to the guy.

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  • Its basic human nature. Everyone want to be wanted. Anyone telling you otherwise is lying.

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  • Sure but only if im interested in them too and its not in a creepy way.

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  • No. I feel disgusted.
    People act like they've never seen a womans body before.
    Especially when they start following you.
    It's the worse.

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