Polls: Dating

Myself?
I'm only 71 inches in stature and I'm a little overweight. Obviously I'm option A.

How much spoiling is too much? I wanna make sure I treat her. Back massages feet massages and food so on. What else do I do?

Perfect example of video

https://youtu.be/G5wIj7LbslY

This is gonna be very controversial to a lot of people. But women pretty much once they turn 18, have value especially in the dating world. You get access to men just for being women and don't have to do much. Men on the other hand have to create value. Men can't just get women just for being a man. For a man to succeed in the dating world, he has to work for it and take the initiative and build himself up. There's low tier men and there's high tier men

I’ve been A and somewhat B. There was a time in my 20s I got a lot of attention. Lots of women told me I was cute and handsome back then. I could approach any woman and literally say anything and get away with it. I was never aggressive dbag but i could flat out make sexual jokes/remarks back then and at worst a girl would laugh out of amusement (even if she wasn’t interested).

The only time I ever really got turned down back the is if the girl was already taken. But even taken girls would often chat with me and sometimes give out there number (but they wouldn’t respond to texts/calls). I would only find out later they had bfs.

However I did have a few bad experiences. I had two girls actively stalking me in college. I’ve had random drunk women grope me in clubs/bars. I’ve had one woman get angry and trying to shove me when I turned her down. I’ve had other guys try to throw me under the bus out of jealousy. But those incidents were few and far between.

Now I’ve gotten older I’m not the baby faced 24 year old I once was. I am still in excellent physical shape but I‘m not going to go walking around shirtless (unless it’s at the beach or something).

Overall it’s been a lot tougher approaching women. Although I have gotten more aware of their body language and I’ve gotten better at my game it’s insanely tough now. I have very little wiggle room to make any mistakes. If i say or do anything even remotely considered “creepy” it’s game over. It doesn’t matter if it was unintentional or not. Nor does it matter if the girl even knows it was unintentional. I’m being held to a much higher standard.

But I am curious what women honestly have to say about this. I was surprised that some prefer B. I sure as hell don’t.

I've always heard it was my role to find a girl and ask them out as it's my job as a male to hunt down the girl

It will be less likely for a girl to ask me out, and I've never had a physical girlfriend, only one online and that started by sexting on Kik; she was from Egypt.

Also, the whole guys ask girls out is one of the few main reasons I wish I was born female, not the main reason but one of the few.

I dislike being a single male. If you haven't noticed by now, I've always been worried about hitting on girls now at 26 years old as most are married, dating or young but still pretty.

Feel like its a money making scheme and a lot of shadow bans involved for men.

I'm 7 in looks but getting one match a week and the women I get lucky to match are obese or single mothers with no hobbies