Polls: Dating

We spoke briefly through hinge, he asked for my number so I gave him my IG. He followed me but I didn’t follow back. He was usually responding to my stories and sending messages, Wednesday he asked if I wanted to go out for drinks. I said I’d rather stay in but would be down to videochat. I wasn’t really feeling him, I cut it short after an hour. Before we videochatted, he asked if I wanted to go with him to a block party for New Years and would cover my entry fee. I told him I wasn’t sure, after the video chat he sent a message saying to have a good night. I simply replied with you too and haven’t heard from him since. He saw my message and stories today, I just find it odd that he hasn’t sent any messages considering he was more engaged before we video chatted. He ghosted alright

I’m almost 25 and haven’t dated anyone ever by choice so far and now I’m ready to start having a love life but at the same time not waste any time (which was one of the reasons why I haven’t dated)

Since I’ve never been on a date, i want to know if it’s too early to bring up that I only want an exclusive relationships (no hook ups, friends with benefits, causal dates, etc) or that I’m only interested in a boyfriend.

if not, when’s the earliest I can tell guys this so that I don’t waste time seeing guys who clearly want otherwise?

I believe there is. But my issue is with people who feel the need to voice out the fact that they're "high value". When I hear people say that it's a complete turn off to me, because it comes off as arrogant. Sometimes it depends on the context, but it's still not nice to hear.
People know that from the energy you excude. People know that from the way you talk, dress, set boundaries etc.

Men and women calling themselves high value reminds me of those who call themselves Alpha male/woman lol. It's lame 😂

I keep seeing people on my posts say they couldnt turn down a smoker among other things because they’re not attractive enough to have a dating preference. Thats honestly a sad mindset. Its disheartening. So here’s a few words of encouragement that even the cockiest mf may need to hear every once in a while when they’re feeling down... *puts on my Morgan Freeman voice*...
THERE IS SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR EVERYONE! IT IS TOTALLY OKAY TO HAVE PREFERENCES AND A GOOD SET OF STANDARDS. NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS. JUST BECAUSE YOU MAY NOT BE ATTRACTIVE TO ONE PERSON DOES NOT MEAN YOU WILL NOT BE ATTRACTIVE TO ANOTHER. IT IS NOT BK. YOU CANNOT ALWAYS HAVE IT YOUR WAY. BUT STILL, I HAVE A DREAM, THAT ONE DAY YOU WILL FIND WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR. AND IF YOU DONT FIND THEM, THEY WILL SURELY FIND YOU. ONE CALL THATS ALL. LIKE A GOOD NEIGHBOR, STATE FARM IS THERE. AND YOU ARE IN GOOD HANDS WITH ALLSTATE. REMEMBER THIS— YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH. FCK THEM HOES WHO TELL YOU OTHERWISE.

#FeelFreeToList #YouAreGoodEnough #TheresSomeoneForEveryone

Guys, Is this Considered Cheating if a Guy accepts a Lap Dance at his Bachelor party? ↗

So this question is inspired by the question above. Many guys think it is not cheating when guys get lap dance at a bachelor party. I am middleeastern and i always was shocked that bachelorette/bachelor parties exist. I just want to ask this question to see the opinions of the same guys that are ok with lap dance at bachelor parties. I just want to see if they are hypocritical or not.

Please vote!!

(Note: I am also sorry if i offend anyone with this question)

**I found this Interesting when I answered Someone on Something Similar they had Asked. xx