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Well, dating is a game. With what species is it not?
You have to play the game, figure out what works and what doesn't then execute a plan.
That's what I don't understand about guys who complain. They can play video games, they can play hockey, they can play football without a single complaint about the rules.
But when it comes to playing the dating game, they throw their hands in the air.
I’ve seen my sisters bring home all kinds of guys over the years, and the “peaceful hippie” type was definitely among them, so yes.
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First of all I need you to get it out of your head that having "game" and psychological manipulation are the same thing. They are not. Anyone saying otherwise does not understand game.
Having game isn't about knowing what to say even if it's not true to get girls, this will never work, girls are generally smarter than that.
But that does not mean you can be yourself and all will work out fine, it never does.
What you need is to work yourself so that "yourself" becomes a person that has a strong understanding of social dynamics hence "game". Only then can you be yourself and expect results.
See humans are more primal creatures than one might think. We respond to certain things very instinctively and that is what you need to leverage to your advantage.
Men are attracted women who show signs of fertility and good health because back when we lived in caves that was needed in order to survive (survival of the fittest) this is why to this day men look at the difference between hip and wrist size as well as breasts the common organ for breastfeeding. These instinctively represent attraction to us and later society conditions us to have variations.
Women on the other hand want something different.
Back in the caves women needed the strongest man possible in order to protect them. That man needed to have skills, needed to be self sufficient, and he needed to be a leader as to not get himself and his family killed.
Today women instinctively look for the same thing: this is why women are generally drawn to asserive men who show signs of leadership and confidence as well as self sufficiency and of course men who are physically imposing hence the craze with tall men.
So having game really comes down to working on your own self confidence becoming assertive and a leader and of course being socially savvy capable of being funny and intersting when needed as well as romantic and in touch with your sensitive side when that is needed as well.
So don't let your personality control you l, learn to control your personality, do not become a liar and a manipulator that is something you will end up regretting but do work on truly becoming the man that women want to be with because if you're not there yet few to no women will wanna be with you it's that simple
The thing is, when you're yourself, the person who gets interested will actually be interested in the real you.
And that's what we want.
People who change or act differently to get with someone... Doesn't make sense to me, because... You will revert back to your normal self and they will realize you either pretended or want you to be the one they fell for and the relationship will break.
Like, I'm not going to try to get a guy by changing my whole schedule and personality so he will like me, then he won't like ME and that's not what I want.
What's the point of acting like someone you're not unless your only goal is to dip your wick? The woman will eventually find out that you were being a phony.
When you mention mind games, I think of some of the retarded theories about how much time you should wait before contacting someone after a first date. Like, gee, you wouldn't want to follow your instincts and be honest or anything.
A person should obviously be authentic if they are looking for a partner who is a good match. To increase the odds of finding people, it helps to go places where they are most likely to hang out. I know for a fact that there are lots of women who would prefer a peaceful hippie but they're less likely to be found shopping on Madison Ave., hanging out in dance clubs or casinos.
Yes. A guy I used to work with did. And when I say a dirty hippie I really mean that. I actually got to be friends with him. I try not to judge but he doesn't have the best dental situation going on. He has long hair that he doesn't brush and it's all matted into dreadlocks and most the clothes he wears looks like he robbed goodwill. He's a very interesting character.
A relationship built from mind games and/or lies will inevitably come crashing down in a horrible painful mess.
A woman probably already does love you, but thinks you would reject her.
It’s best to just be yourself. Why would one want to attract women who like to play games or want something that you’re not. There are plenty of women, especially in their 30s and 40s, who appreciate nice, stable men.
Yes if he looks good and doesn’t let the “hippiness” spill over into his appearance, such as letting his beard and mustache grow out really long and not getting haircuts.
lots of girls like peaceful hippies (as long as they have good hygiene), no girls like mind games
I think it is possible. However, context is important. If you live in a community that is generally laid back and low stress, you probably wouldn't have much trouble finding a woman who is in tune with that vibe. However, in a big city with a lot of drama and stress and rushing around, a woman who is conditioned to that environment might not be into a hippie kind of personality.
It’s likely that the guys who “try” will get the girl a million times over before the peaceful hippie. However, the peaceful hippie may have some opportunities present themselves, and if they do, they need to be ready to act fast because their chances will be more rare
Anybody can get a woman. The question is if you can keep her. The second question is if you want to keep her. It's kind of like asking if there's a shoe in the shoe store that fits your foot.
It works in my own case. I'd call myself some kind of ''neo-hippie''.
A girl that forces 'you' to imitate someone other than 'yourself' won't make us happy on the long run.
People like us aren't mainstream - who cares. It only means that our girl won't be mainstream as well; to find her may take a bit longer.
That's still better than knowing that 'you' are just one other John Doe.
Yes u can find a Woman but these days it's not getting easy it's like they only looking for money an them fake ASS Men.
Just know this no matter what stay ur self always.
God Bless
I knew a guy who was an actual hippie during the 70s he had a family when I knew him.
Yes, be yourself, but you may need to figure out what that is first. It took me my 29 plus years to figure that out.
Rastafarian b-tches are into those homeless hippy types
No that's blue pilled shit. Being yourself isn't the gateway to getting women. You need more than that and people that say otherwise are really delusional
I don't believe you should become manipulative, but if you can't get yourself a girl by being yourself, you should try changing yourself into someone women want to be with.
Lmao. This is actually funny. Because all of the "peaceful hippies" I know that got a lot of girls are actually players in disguise. The whole "organic vibes" bullshit is just a front.
You might as well just throw a pair of dice and take your chances. There is no magic fomula.
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