Yes, all great points!
I don’t have much interest in those things either.
In the case of people like us, I definitely think being single can be peaceful and enjoyable!
Very true!!! No worries about dishonest people.
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She's my giant seqouia!:)
or maybe Lotus flower...That more peaceful...
It just seems that usually, the partner is the CAUSE of troubles and stressors. That’s how it’s been for me, anyway.
Sounds like you need to pick different partners.
For some reason, I’ve ONLY had toxic relationships throughout my lifetime. I never had any peace of mind while being involved in them.
And those things become increasingly important to most people as you get older...
@MrOracle Actually from my experience, most folks who stay single without kids into their 40s tend to be ok with being alone. You need to understand the reason why they didn’t prioritize settling down in the first place. Especially for women. If a woman wanted kids , she can always have children
Everything is a Choice in life.
I agree with everything except the hookup part.
Any woman can get a hookup anytime she wants, and most guys can too if they aren’t picky.
Not everyone is interested in casual sex.
I agree, I’m merely saying that those who are and don’t want a relationship don’t have to go without sex
Great, that’s a very healthy attitude to have
I've had enough girlfriends to know, When the right person comes along, they dont complete your life, they compliment your life.I live a whole life, i have Friends, A career, Hobbies, pets, I do me, and have everything i need.Eventually you meet Sombody else that has the same thing and lives their own life. They might not need you, But you know when they stay. They stay by choice, Not because they feel like they have to or have somthing to gain. 2 whole people coming together. And staying together by choice. Is what is healthy.If your not happy alone first, you never will be happy with anyone else, All you will do is create a problem you dont need. With the right person you will have peace and it won't feel like work.
I HATE conflict!!!
The spice of life? No it's not.
@Gal67 When you talk to your friends, you talk about what you do/think/like and what happened to you. The latter is usually conflict of some sort. Conflict is what you instinctively think is worth telling people, it's what you think is interesting and worth sharing. Something wrong at work, some arsehole in a bar, relationship problems, etc. etc.
You need a dictionary, because that's not what the word "conflict" means. Having an interesting conversation, even a heated one, isn't "conflict"; it's just an interaction, a peaceful one. Quite often others will actually agree with you about certain things, so how on Earth is this conflict?
@Gal67 You misunderstood. I meant talking about conflict, not that talking was conflict. Should be obvious from the examples listed.
Definitely, bad relationships can leave a lot of traumatic memories behind!
Yes, some people really hate drama!