Polls: Dating

Your man tells you about your potential future father-in-law. The father is emotionally abusive towards his children and their mother. He is mean, nasty, passive agressive, emotionally manipulative, and enjoys screaming at the people he supposedly loves. Your man hates that about him, and is not like that at all. But if you go forward with the relationship you will need to deal with him in some capacity.

Is this a dealbreaker? Why or why not? Feel free to ask for more information if you feel you need it.

I shared a reasonable opinion and get called an incel. Girls have weak ego’s here and they know words like incel (which no normal person would know).

Also. People here just seem horrible. I should leave I don’t want people to rub off on to me.

Does money affect the quality of mates you find?

First off, I have plenty of women that are after me.
Because I have it all, the whole package. Funny too.

But that’s what I don’t like about it. Girls they see me, so tall and attractive. They see what I have in life and financially.

I hate the way girls value these things in men. They didn’t want to know before I had a glow up. I hate what women value in men.
All I wanted was a pretty, nice girl. Simple. Very open minded.

I’ve not been hurt, but I just hate the way women select men. Women are dumb and hypocritical. Also most are just sluts and act like cunts anyway.

I wish most men didn’t give women the time of day, I see men beg for women.

So I was visiting my brother last week and we went out to dinner with a bunch of guys he works with. One of them is going through a divorce so a lot of the discussion was about marriage and women. I was surprised by how cynical and negative they were. And it wasn't just some of them, it was all of them. They were saying marriage has become a really bad deal for men with few benefits and lots of risks for men, and that most women today are not really women anymore and are not worth taking the risks men face in marriage.

I live in a pretty conservative state where guys seem more positive about women and marriage so I'm not used to that attitude. I mean I have seen a lot of guys online who talk like that but I assumed they were just incels. These guys were definitely not the incel type. Most of them work as brokers and make great money, drive nice cars and seemed like reasonably attractive guys.

Is this attitude common among men these days?

I hate girls that do only fans etc...
They’re failures and greedy. It’s like using men. I also don’t understand what type of incel would care about paying for their shitty content.

My and my girlfriend had a fight after discussing our sex life. It turns out neither of us are satisfied. Recently she’s been refusing. Then she mentioned a bunch of other things she’s upset about. She’s apparently been unhappy with our relationship in general. When last week she was telling me she’s happy. Then she yelled at me to leave her place.

And how said she doesn’t wanna see me for 5 days. I’m wondering what she’s doing in the those 5 days. Is the screwing someone else. Should still go back to her?

The worst relationship I had with a Latina woman was still 10 times more interesting, intense and passionate (not to mention, the sex was much more spicy) than the best relationship I had with a white woman.

So when black boys say things like this

I can only laugh since I have zero interest in dating #whitewomen again, for the same reason that the even best of them cannot compete with the "least good" Latina (or Asian as well) I've met and dated.

When it comes purely to attractiveness, I believe the chicas got the win too.

A first date is like a casting call or an audition. We have some ideas of what we are looking for and want to see if our potential partner has those qualities. So, ladies, when you are on a first date, which of these factors is first and foremost when you are sharing that meal or strolling and talking to a new guy? If your answer is not one of these options, please explain in the comments.