Polls: Dating

It just seems like that's the way it is in modern dating thanks to dating apps and social media. Girls are flooded with matches and messages when they sign up for a dating app and it is pretty common for her to have over 100 matches in less than 24 hours after creating her profile. They also get a ton of DM's from guys via social media too. For a guy on the other hand, it is common for him to only get around 10-20 matches in less than 24 hours after signing up for a dating app and most of the girls that match with him either don't respond or their convo won't go far before it fizzles out. Guys have said it can take over a month just to get one first date from a dating app and most of the time there is no second date because the girls have such a big selection of guys they're talking to. Guys also never get DM's from girls on social media obviously and when they try to DM a girl, she's getting so many other messages from guys alongside his that he never gets a response. All of this considered, it seems like it has never been easier for a girl to meet a guy in the modern dating era, but it is harder than ever for a guy to meet a girl. Agree or disagree?

Also, how many times have you experienced love at first sight?

Imagine you meet a new guy in an occasion, work, street , cafe or maybe seen him in a public transport from distance. Whether by talking or just by looking at him you feel attraction.

How quick you wish you could have it with him?

By picky ill define it as them hardly ever trying anything new and almost always exclusively sticking to the foods they like only no matter where you go to eat.

Guys, what is the first thing you like to look at in a girl (besides her face)?

Girls, which of your features do you like to use to attract a guy?

ALMOST everyone will say personality is more important than looks, money, status etc.

okay... no problem

basically ugly broke losers are only rejected for their bad personalities. if you can't get a partner while you're an ugly broker loser, you should work on your personality the most

we heard all the time, "it's not all men, not all women" okay fine

so, when large age gap relationships like these exist (let's say she's 18-25 and he's 20+ years older), why isn't personality the first brought up?

why is it that looks, money, status don't matter but we assume these large age gap couples are only with each other because of looks, money, status and not because of personality?

why is that the first thought for most people who see these large age gap relationships as either weird or gross to begin with? why is it impossible to consider both partners may have great personalities?

you can claim you personally don't care about looks, money, status but why are you so quick to assume others do especially in these large gap relationships?

I don't want the idealistic answer. be 100000% honest

Seen someone comment "Looks aren't important" and thought it would be interesting to get everyone's opinion. I personally think this statement is ridiculous as from a biological standpoint, physical attraction is important, more so for men then woman but still important. Don't get mad at us men for physical attraction being more important to us men then women (still important for women), this is due to basic biology that dates back thousands of years and is still with us today. Through out human history, woman have been more forgiving in the looks department than men in exchange for being a good provider.