Is living with a boyfriend and having a baby same thing as settling down?

[Sugar100]

I’m not looking for a husband and marriage, I want a first boyfriend at age 27 and experience first time in my life what it’s like meet families , live together , have accidéntal pregnancy , bliss , fun trips with a boyfriend.
It’s ok if it’s not forever or 3-10 years. It can be short term 2-3 years only.

but still it feels difficult find a guy wanting live with me and be in love for me and want sex with me daily in our same apartment.

Yes

No

[ohsheeT]

Be carefull of what you wish because it could happen.. and sometimes when the boyfriend gets the girlfriend pregnant. The boy friend leaves. Girlfriend and baby then girl friend has to be responsible because boyfriend not going to.

[OlderAndWiser]

What you are describing is also known as "pretending."

[Avicenna]

It can be if both of you view it that way.

[NathanDavis]

not necessarily, no...

a lot of people still mess that up big time... and it can get quite unsettling too, lol

[Shiprex]

I don't know if you're serious about this desire as it's kinda messed up how glib about it you come across and seem to like the idea but haven't perhaps thought it through carefully.

[SixFootSexy]

How about living together until you get pregnant, then leaving as soon as you get to 8-9 months of carrying the child. Is that short enough term?

[Sugar100]

Yes that’s okay

[SixFootSexy]

@Sugar100
Do you mind if he doesn't pay any child support when he leaves?

[Sugar100]

Mostly all woman r alone stuck with child it’s the normal life now. Even married woman r divroced alone stuck with kids

[SixFootSexy]

So not a problem then?

[DJB72]

Statistics show if you live together before you get married you're more likely to divorce. Sorry.

[princeofromance]

It is close but not quite the same.

[Sugar100]

So y it’s difficult find a boyfriend to live with me and hav accidental pregnancy if that’s not settling down? I’m not looking to settle down I just want a short term boyfriend to live with me meet family and breakup

[princeofromance]

You need to truly love him in order to settle down and have a family together. You cannot simply use someone just to have a baby, for that is not fair to him or the child.

[Sugar100]

Yes but I love guys but guys don’t love me

[Sugar100]

I want live with a boy and meet family I want experience it finally at age 27 I never in my life have done this I want someone I like give me a chance 😓

I want a frist boyfriend. I never had a boyfriend. I spent my entire life alone.

I don’t want be 28-30 living with my parents I need a boy live with me 😓

[princeofromance]

Yes, but it is still wrong to use someone just to have a baby and breakup with him. No guy is going to like a woman who exhibits that type of manipulative behavior.

[Sugar100]

I think I’ll never find guy that I like that loves me back. 😓 it don’t exit for two people love eachOther.

[princeofromance]

I know that you will find your Prince if you are willing to treat him right and have a beautiful family for the right reasons instead of my biological clock is running out and I need to have a child.

[wkhan_87]

Marriage is perfect sattle down.

[vj0090]

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