Is any guy at 19 years old ready to settle down with one girl and a baby?

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Ready to settle down with one girl and a baby?

Mande1985 · Accepted Answer

I'm 25 and I love being with younger guys. I just can't see myself with anyone my own age or older. However, I do have to sacrifice something.. and that's settling down and getting married at this age. Its not that younger guys don't want to settle down.. its because they have so much they want to accomplish. Such as college, living life.. so on and so forth. Even if a guy younger than me wanted to settle down, I don't think I would want him to. I remember being 19, I was married and all I wanted to do was party. But my husband who was much older than me wasn't into all of that. So, I wouldn't want to do that to someone else, especially if I loved them.

There is usually a reason for the questions people ask. What is your reason? Just curious.

Honey18 · Accepted Answer

Alright.. I do realize that everyone here says no. BUT I would like to give you a bit of insight. My husband and I have been married since December 09. I am 18 years old and he is turning 21 next month. I believe that most guys around his age don't want to settle down quite yet but some do. We both wanted to settle down a long time before we got married. If you look at my profile picture you will see that it is a baby girl, our daughter. She is only two weeks old and she means the world to both of us. We are in love and have been together for about 3 years now. No one on here will really be able to tell you if your man is ready for that type of commitment but I will tell you that it can happen. Best of luck.

Justmean · Accepted Answer

I think that's a little bit too serious,But can happen.

To some girls it's not a problem because they won't have any problem with money and other sh**,cuz they only take care of the baby and the house.

But guys whatever their age is they must have three things to Be ready for marriage.

1- Money.

2- The responsibility.

3- maturity.

Im not going to say that there's no guy will get married 19 y.o because I've seen a male in my age married my friend she was 17 y.o And he was 19,idk if you believed that or not.

So if a male has this three,things to me I think he can get married in 16 y.o if you want.

That's the only thing I can say.

JumpThenFall · Accepted Answer

I'm sure some guys are, but the majority of guys that age [I hate to say it] are not. I'm 20 and I date guys in thier early-mid 20s and I don't see any of them wanting to settle down yet. I have friends around my age who have had kids and while some of the fathers stuck around in the beginning, they didn't end up staying together. It's a nice idea, but unfortunately it's not a reality.

BFrank · Accepted Answer

are you asking if he started dating a girl who already had a baby?

i see it possable. I'm almost 19 and I know a girl who just had her little girl and the dad's a deadbeat. I'm not gonna lie, I'd probably date her for a year or two steady until I'm outta school so I could seriousely provide for the two of them. but this girl I've known for a while and she's sweet. someone who I could possably see myselfe with down the road...but man it would ba hard.

but this is comming from a guy whos quite mature for his age.

Brando · Accepted Answer

Are there guys willing to settle down at 19? I'm sure there are. Am I? Nooooooooo waaaaaaay. I'm 20 and the thought of settling down is never in my head. I'm way too young and haven't done the things that I want to do before I even consider the thought. To me, I don't understand why people are willing to settle down that young, like they are following some kind of script or something. Sure they are having a kid or getting married, but are they established enough? How many other things are they missing out on?

yannick · Answer

for women on here, it's not only about love. you can be as in love as... someone... very in love, and still not want to settle down at 19 and raise a baby. what do you think? that raising a baby can be done with pocket money? I'm sorry but without money, raising a baby is a terrible idea. second, yes, at 19, guys have their hormones raging. why settle down at 19 when you have so much to experience? I don't think at 19 you've had all the experiences you needed to have, and yes, that includes women. settling down means being with the same person until you're 80 and die and raising a baby means being responsible for him/her, his/her past, present and future until he/she dies, his/her kids, grandkids, and all following generations die. so you may want to make sure you're REALLY ready and had the necessary time and experiences in life.

livelaughlove09 · Answer

i doubt it. 19 is too young for anyone to really settle down and start a family in these days and times because at that age your life is really just beginning and you are just learning how to live on your own...so it wouldn't be wise to stick a baby and a wife into that scenario with a 19 year old guy... plus I'm sure at 19 both girls and guys have wayyyyyy too many wild oats to sow to even think about some serious settling down and baby making.lol.

PeterCobra · Answer

i did it at 20. kid was 1 year old. she was 19. I was the only dad the kid had for 7 years. after dating 5-6 years I married her and she divorced me after one year for a rich guy she was seeing behind my back.

so will anybody do it? yea, I did it. would I ever do it again? nope.

kheserthorpe · Answer

Plenty of 19 year olds have done it through history.

I was probably prepared to 'settle down'. I just didn't know how to have a good relationship and maintain it.

Good luck to the three of you.

Make your needs known, show him how to meet them, and make sure you know his needs. When in doubt, make sure you F. his brains out, a lot.

Anonymous · Answer

My dad was 19 when my sister was born...He stayed my Mom split . She wanted to make it on her own, not be a house wife ( not that he wanted or expected her to be a house wife). He had to raise 4 kids on his own. he was working towards a phd. History of philosophy. He now works at multiple jobs to stay a float . My mom is married to a rich professor. She never made it either.

I'm 19 and I am Consciously, Intentionally not sexual active.

Have a nice day :)

Anonymous · Answer

not sure most guys liek the thought of settling down at 19 but I'm pretty sure a lot of guys at that age decide if their current girlfriend is who they want to be with forever and have children. but want to wait a few years. that what my boyfriend told me. but you never know, things can change.

but most guys I know want to wait till their in their late 30's lol

31Ross · Answer

not a chance, I'm 19 and I still have two  years left of college. Also how can anyone possibly be in love at 19? Sure you can start the process, but it really does take years to develop something real.

WeaponZero · Answer

settling down and raising a baby costs money.  something 19 year olds don't have.

WaitingAtTheDoor · Answer

Very, very, very, very few at that age. And the same goes for girls at that age.

Cartiphilus · Answer

The mistake of not using a condom falls equally on both of you.  Getting consistent child support from him may be the best you can expect at his age.  I hope you have health insurance or rich parents.

thetrippingbandit · Answer

nope like everyone says.. setteling down means muchO responsibility and since you have a child allready you have enuff respposibility haveing to deal with another child with rageing hormons. I don't know but its most def a no take it from someone whos 32  hun

Haaps · Answer

19 is what to young to start anything serious and a baby is out of the question until youve established yourself.

dollme777 · Answer

NO NO NO most guys don't want to settle when they are 25

Killfest400 · Answer

I'd be willing to settle down with one girl, but I don't want kids.

CandydChalazn · Answer

Deff not. He won't like it unless he truly loves you

Anonymous · Answer

Hell no. Way too young. You're just a kid yourself. Why settle down? A steady boyfriend, sure. But no marriage or anything.

Anonymous · Answer

Noooooooo Please don't count on that actually happening... if he really is okay with settling down with one girl and a baby, that is an EXTREME rarity...

MrReal · Answer

Is anybody really ready for a commitment at 19? No, but that's how you separate the good guys who will commit and the bad guys who will leave.

Anonymous · Answer

If I was in love than I'm sure I'd be able to do it. I think it takes a lot of maturity though

Meedo · Answer

does he have to be 19?

shy_guy_says · Answer

Let me sum it up in one word...no

Androgynous · Answer

No. Not ever would that be possible.

Cartiphilus · Answer

With teenage raging hormones it's highly unlikely.

oxygenmax1 · Answer

ur too young to thinck about a family

Anonymous · Answer

my boyfriend did...he was 19 I was 23...

MrKkibbles · Answer

I doubt it.

TheTaxMan · Answer

Extremely doubtful

Anonymous · Answer

i would but the prob is rite now I am not settled

SmoothBlue17 · Answer

no way jose

boi818 · Answer

hell no

mikkie180 · Answer

Pretty doubtful.

dudeman · Answer

no men are not women

GirlySunshine · Answer

Unfortunately no.

Anonymous · Answer

nope

Anonymous · Answer

i do not know

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