Thoughts on a 19 year old dating a 28 year old that has kids?

[Anonymous]

[Haha456]

a 19 yr old is still a kid herself.

i knew of an 18 yr old girl who married a 33 yr old single father of 5 kids. Now she is 41 and he is 56.

Another guy was 24 when he married a 39 yr old single mom with a 13 yr old kid. Now he is 45 and she is 60.

The only reason why some people are not single is because they have LOW STANDARDS.

Folks who are single until an old age usually have higher standards than folks who marry at a young age. Its part of the reason why I am still single.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I'm assuming it's a dude with an older chick. It's for sex. The dude would literally have nothing else to gain from the situation unless it also provides him with a home and free meals... and maybe time with his video games. Like not working sort of stuff. If he is able to take care of himself, there is nothing but sex left in the equation.

The older woman already has a family, so the dude would be a provider and probably have a status that is beneath the family dog. You know... a dude that is so desperate for some sex that he'd accept that.

[Avicenna]

Well, you don't say what the respective genders of the 19 and 28 year olds are, but I would advise a 19 year old male not to date a 28 year old single mom whose kids live with her. Now, if it's the reverse, maybe, depending on how often his kids are around. If he has them all the time, no way. Just weekends? Maybe, if everyone is comfortable with it, which is doubtful.

[kylee2437]

A 19 year old has so many options, why settle for someone that has so much on their plate? A 28 year old with kids isn’t going to be able to have much fun with you as you are still a kid at 19 and need fun memories

[PainusNdeeAnus]

I dated a 28 year old with two kid I got to drive her car live in her house eat her food and all she wanted was dick plus she was extremely well endowed upstairs downstairs all around the town stairs
Older women are cool when they’re still kinda young

[kylee2437]

@painusNdeeanus that’s great but there’s better options for someone that is 19.

[Guy13]

It sounds like a misfit toy be administrated... or [perhaps the instructional manual was misplaced? Does not seem like a good thing.

[bamesjond0069]

You don't say the sex of each. 19 yo man dating an older woman with kids... I'd tell him sex only. You can't date a woman like that and have it work out well. Total trash.

If the girl is the young one, I'd say as long as she gets along with the kids and there is no baby mama drama and he's a good dad AND the man can financially support the kids as well as the girlfriend and if they have kids, then go for it. Not a big deal.

[AsaKyo]

This reminds me of my mom and dad, which it ended badly because my dad was still a fuckboi with children who kept bothering my mom until she went out with him and he got her involved in his previous baby mama drama and made her life overall hell

So if I were you, I wouldn't do that

[slatyb]

Doesn't sound like the best idea. How did you meet? What's so great about him? What did he learn from his failed marriage? Why do you think your relationship with him won't end the same way?

[LazerBean]

Sounds like the beginning of a long path paved with regrets.

[EmmaMary]

Personally I would consider that to be far too young in taking on that amount of baggage and the age differences.

[sheikalana]

The young one should ask themselves if this is what they want in their life. The kids are the parent's priority here and if you're not ready to share their attention I would advise you not to do it.

[DavidRaul]

You really don't want to go into that and pick his pieces. You are young and have a lot of time to explore. Find someone your age so you both can work on your goals. His priorities are different

[Summeroflove]

Not my business. Long as both are happy and in it for the right reasons.

[Apple1996]

Not a good idea unless your wanting to be a step mom

[Berethor]

For a guy it usually means being a beta male, while girls tend to be more okay with that.

[HighValue]

It is a bad idea since they already have kids from someone else.

[WhitneySnow]

That’s a big age gap. The 28 year old sounds a lot more mature.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/rjb7ceADYzI

OH NO BRO

[Luckycharms12]

Maybe 28 year old that doesn't have kids could work but long term can't see it working out

[In_Passing]

Omg. If u are not ugly, find single guy.

[Asker]

He is single he’s just has kids and actually has a life going on

[FilmGuy93]

Are you TRYING to get the shit used out of you?

[Jamie05rhs]

Sure, if you want to be Maria Von Trapp.

[BJP21]

Sure why not?

[Staximus]

The hell with that

[Heolurt]

Both are adults so who cares.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

He is having fun

[Snedger____]

Not a good idea

[EaterPeter]

All the best!

[MrTaboo]

How old are the kids