Polls: Dating

Let’s say a guy is already doing well generally at 30. If he continues to work on himself and has good habits will his attractiveness continue to rise?

I was in an intense relationship that lasted 4 months. Ending up meeting parents. I am crazy about this girl. She broke up with me, we broke up amicably. Then I rang her to try again and convince her that we should be together and she was very dismissive and low key insulting me saying I didn’t make her feel special, didn’t gift her (when I did), I kept saying sorry and that I can do more despite really doing enough. Then I told her not to contact me and removed her off of Instagram.

Anyway. Broke up. It’s been almost 2 months and I reached out just saying hi how are things. No like emotional essays or anything like that. I never begged her.

Is there anything wrong with that? She might not reply. I guess I wanted to see if there was any hope. If she doesn’t reply well at least there’s additional closure but I guess I will feel sad like I left with my pride.
But then again, is pride all that? Does it matter, losing some pride for a girl you like and then disappearing?

That for a couple dating and in love the real bonding is in the bedroom

Some guys get all the luck. What a woman! Imagine when they have kids!

ex broke up with me not because l did anything bad, I was good. But she felt resistance and that we would clash. She was a little dismissive/mean at the end. She did say we could be friends.

I unfollowed her and told her not to contact me again as I was hurt. It has been 7 weeks with nil contact between us. It was a shorter relationship but we met each others parents, stayed overnight and she is literally the most beautiful girl in the the world.

Message: (I will start the conversation asking how she is)

I do understand there’s a good chance you may have moved on. Looking back on our relationship, I thought what we had was special and unique! Despite how it ended, I would like to try one last time to reach out to you as I thought what we shared was genuinely meaningful!

It would be nice to meet and catch up with you again!

I respect your decision if this is simply not what you would want.

My ex broke up with me. It wasn’t a nasty breakup. Although she was a bit mean/dismissive at the very end. Nothing bad happened. I met her parents she met mine. Marriage talks despite a shorter 4 month relationship

I stopped contacting her and removed her off of socials. I have spent the last 6 weeks really depressed. I lost a connection and literally the most beautiful girl in the world 😭😭

I’m a guy I can lose my pride/dignity for a girl I like? Who cares?

I won’t beg her or send her an essay. But reach out check how she is and explain how I think what we had was really special. But also be like I understand if she has moved on.

No pressure or desperation in the message.

Hello,

So I recently just turned 24. I've noticed a lot of people still classify me as young looking and look I just got out of high school. Reality is that I actually just recently got out of the military after doing 4 years. I have 0 dating experience. I'm looking online and I noticed I actually find some 18 and 19 year olds attractive and in person as well. I actually had a younger girl (below 20) hit on me a while back. Is it fine for me to date 18 and 19 year olds or no? I don't have a problem with it but that's just me. How old is too old to date an 18 or 19 year old?

Reasons for breaking up, guy didn’t make her feel special enough, feels resistance inside.

Girl was a bit mean and dismissive to the guy at the end.

Shoukd you ever wait for the dust to settle and then try again despite being rejected once? If you really like the girl. Or do you lose self respect and dignity?

When I got dumped by my ex I was shocked as we were so compatible and I was good to her.

But suddenly the emotional tide changed in her head. Her feelings turned to resistance. Seeing a person change like that when you were open emotionally to her, and let her in is sooo painful.

Like girl’s feelings are just uncontrollable and change like the wind.

It seems like you hear stories about a woman saying a guy kept chasing a woman for like a year then after she finally gave in then she became in love with him. What is it with that?

How come you don't hear about a woman who kept pursuing a guy, after he was acting standoffish, that didn't stop her, once she kept trying he gave in and the rest is history

After a breakup to go ghost and immediately unfollow. They never reach out and just disappear. No way or mutual friend to find out how they are.

If a guy was overall good to you and not rogue. Do you just tend to remember the good bits about the relationship