Is my ex mean or what?

[Anonymous]

I didn’t do anything fundamentally wrong to her. I feel like I was good to her. She broke up with me. I missed her and tried to reach out she ignored and I sent her flowers (I really shouldn’t have). There was no message of who they were from.

After the first message she sends me a message weeks later, very business like and cold. Whereas initially I reached out saying how are you I hope you and your family are well to which she ignored. No hi or anything in her message. After we broke up I did unfollow her on insta which she may have not liked.

Anyway I’m not replying, this is the last straw. Fair enough I should have put a message / not sent them - but her whole response is just cold and mean. Even when we broke up she gave me a bunch of reasons saying I’m untrustworthy and a player when I have no idea how she could reach such assumptions. We all make small mistakes but I feel I was a good boyfriend to her.

She seems rude

I don’t agree

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1 mo

At the end of the day I did nothing wrong, I was loyal and caring to her. The failure of the relationship was on her.

It’s not as if I was abusive to her, mean to her or upto no good. She lost a 12/10 guy and that’s her loss.

[Anonymous]

A1 manipulation
She moved on and you sent her something with a name on it to her/ her parents home
Any parents would be concerned for child
Does she have a secret admire or a stalker?
Thought she'll have too
Forced to reach out to tell you not to do that again

[Opinion Owner]

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[Anonymous]

She’s not rude or mean at all. You on the other hand need to move on and stop obsessing. It’s over, she won’t go back to you and you have to realize that now.

[MasterKS]

point.

[Asker]

I understand she won’t come back and tbh now I see her for who she is. A bitch, evil. Can’t even say hi. Just cold and business like.

Imagine divorcing someone like this she would leave you homeless.

I didn’t do anything wrong to her. We broke up if we contact each other you can at least be amicable

[Opinion Owner]

No, because the reason you contact her is that you want her back. That’s why you keep obsessing over her, messaging her and sending her flowers. She knows that’s what you want. But she doesn’t want you back and she doesn’t want to make you think there’s a chance that will happen. She’s not evil or a bitch, I see nothing rude in her messages, she just tries to keep some distance. You have a distorted view of reality in so many ways. You need to leave her alone. Not because she’s ”an evil bitch”, but because she’s your ex, she wants to move on, she wants you to move and too, she doesn’t want you to try to get back together or to keep contacting her.

[Asker]

I no longer want her back. I really wanted her but now I see when we broke up she was so rude to me accusing me lf things I’m not. Yeah she’s a bitch.

Why is she even messaging me again weeks later. The account she’s talking about she can check herself she doesn’t even need to speak to me.

[Asker]

I said sorry why she still talking about the flowers

[DryGermanGuy]

What will happen first? That woman getting a restraining order against you or GaG having to kick you off the platform for all the damn boring repetition?

[Nikki1989]

You are the one with the issues, not her. Move on.

[Abbycado]

Try not talking to exes. Problem solved.

[Asker]

Yeah that’s facts. But don’t you think this is mean though.

[Anonymous]

You can’t just break others trust and act like everything is fine

[Asker]

I didn't do anything wrong to break her trust

[Opinion Owner]

Lol hahaha

[slatyb]

Who cares? It's over. Move on.

[Anonymous]

Stop asking this