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A lot more, but don't want to think about them.
#1 is a hard one to swallow. Because all over social media it seems like happy couples and good-looking people don't have problems or obstacles like the rest of us. It seems like life is so much easier for them.
@Cathy7734 Yes it was hard. But everybody has strong and week spots. But they will always show you the shining good side of their lifes. Being a thin guy I always admired all the guys with strong arms who seemed to have gotten their with nearly no afford. But it´s not true, they have also problems where others have it easier.
How about people who are aggressive and seem to get what they want in life at the expense of others? I know a wealthy doctor who has a beautiful wife who is obedient. They live in a beautiful home and have a beautiful life. When he yells she and her daughter snap to attention. Life seems pretty easy for him.
@Cathy7734 I think he still has some weak spots though he might be good at hiding them. One of them could be his aggressive attitude. Maybe he thinks he has to be aggressive because he thinks his wife or his daughter might not take him serious as a man if he isn´t. I don´t think life is easy for him, just because his wife is obedient it´s not getting easier because there are other responsible decision he has to face like paying the bills, like decisions about which insurance would be best to choose.
I've had that happen to me too. I reveal too much and then they use that information to attack me.
Absolutely. It doesn’t matter if it’s family.
@thegirlinstilettos sad shit I'm afraid. Even though I've offered it so many times I just got disrespected and burned.
Same here. Stay strong tho!
@thegirlinstilettos ya you too. I read some toxic stuff and it brings me down. But I know there are still good women out there. My luck has just been shit.
That's not true. My best friend was a woman for ten years. I never expected anything more than for her to... Be herself and do good for herself. Till she brutally betrayed me
@mr_empathy maybe I said this the wrong way, but I think In most opposite gender friendships, there is one person that develops feelings. Maybe she was the one that developed feelings for you personally.
Not romantically. Perhaps she liked what I did for her more than actually being my friend
How did she betray you if you don’t mind me asking
Stole my identity and my car
So she was using you, not an actual friend. I am sorry that happened to you.
It would seem so. However, I don't understand why she would for ten years. Just to get my ID and car
Did you do things for her?
Yes as well as teach her how to be a parent to her daughter
It's a long story indeed
That can definitely be a reason she stayed around. There’s quite a bit of drug addict girls that used my boyfriend in the past.
He was “friends” with a girl for more than 10 years and her drug addicted and alcoholic ways made her use him for rides , money, pay for food, a time away from her house, rides to the liquor store
If I may ask, is that why you said such a thing was impossible?
Yes. Because a real true friendship truly ends up in a relationship. I consider my boyfriend to be my best friend. He is obviously attractive as hell but our personalities mesh to create a great relationship
But not just that, I’ve tried being friends with guys in the past and it would all come down to them wanting to have sex with me. Even back in my childhood years every boy that wanted to be friend me in school ALWAYS had a crush on me.
A friendship is the foundation of a good relationship. Then once the relationship collapses. I do believe there's hope. I won't let one person ruin my outlook on friendship. However, kinda have no friends now 😅
@mr_empathy I personally think same genders have more to relate to and that’s why I think it’s important to make friendships outside your relationship which opposite gender friends don’t typically mesh in relationships
Oof I almost did the bank account thing. Blessing in disguise that I wasn’t old enough to make a joint account with him because he would’ve spent all my savings
@Cherry234 I did. It looked fab on the internet, but was awful in reality.
Oh ok I see. Not everything is represented accurately online