To be honest, I have no idea why would anyone let somebody else bully them.
I was never bullied, but I stood up for some people who were bullied and I was friends with both, bullies and the bullied ones.
I think the reason I was never bullied myself, even though I could be a huge weirdo, was that I had a tough family experience and wasn’t going to bow down to anyone outside, I had a rage I didn’t use, so bullies respected me and asked me for their opinions, while the bullied ones felt happy I was around when they were bullied, because they knew I’d stop it by saying something. And my word had a power.
Something I noticed about them is that bullies tend to be people who received less attention from their family, one of the bullies father was an alcoholic and a drug addict and her mother was struggling from a mental illness.
The bullied ones though, their families were overprotective to them, I think it made them fail to protect themselves when their parents weren’t around, because they didn’t know how to stand up for themselves.
I’d feel happy if a bullied one learned how to stand up for himself, but I also feel sorry for the bullies having them open up to me, I know they were victims themselves too.
Karma will always bite you in the ass 😁
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HOW ABSOLUTELY DEPLORABLE bullies are nothing more but a bully victim themselves. Its been proven. Many of these so called bullies are re-enacting their own pain and an inflicting them on others. oftentimes they've been hurt emotionally or physically themselves it is usually a cry for help. In order to stop the bully you must figure out who is harming the bully. Often times it could be childhood trauma sexual abuse physical abuse emotional abuse, a family crisis an absent or neglectful parent etc. there's a number of things that may be happening outside of the school or even at times in school. BULLY BASHING does no one any help. By harming the bully you're just keeping the cycle going the bully who harmed the bully is themself a victim of another bully. END THE CYCLE OF BULLYING BY HELPING THE BULLY!
Nope... as someone who was bullied for NO reason other than my family wasn't rich... I couldn't give two shits about them getting their own medicine. I wish I could have stood up to my bullies, but knowing me ( small and quiet ) I would have been put in the hospital, or dead. My bullies were pretty tough girls. I didn't know how to fight, I was practically almost a twig LOL... I had no change. I was never nasty to anyone, didn't speak to anyone... probably why they also targeted me. Easy picking. Oh well.
One thing I learned as a child is there is always a larger bully. Another thing I learned is to defend yourself from a bully. You may get your ass spanked, but over time they will respect you and leave you alone. As to this question. Let me put my thoughts this way. I REFUSE to become my enemy just to beat him. Violence begets violence. A very good friend who has been involved with Hapkido since his 20s was forced to take out a man's knee back in the late 90s. The man was attacking his wife and my friend stopped it. Trust me, when a Hapkido Master takes out a knee it is quick. The man was on the ground in agony. He said the first thing he did was call 911. According to my friend that man still walks with a limp. Do I have sympathy for a bully who has the tables turned? Yes, I do. I will at some point get involved once I say he/she has had enough.
That's how it used to be done. Someone or a few would finally standup to the school bully and punch him in the nose and that would end the bullying. Now the school will have that person arrested and charged, so there is an extra layer of fear and the school bully gets away with their behavior.
Fuck no. Bullies wanna play that game, they should be able to take what they dish if one of their targets fights back. That is how I dealt with mine when I was a kid and that was the only thing that stopped them. Teachers, parents and the principal only seemed to increase the torment.
No sympathy. Bullying ruins kids lives destroying their confidence for life and it teaches bullies it's OK to abuse people and they take that attitude into adulthood becoming criminals, wifebeaters or unemployable.
Depends... it's either Karma just doing it's work and like a small revenge or the comeback is pretty harsh, bad or violent and that's not cool either, cause just cause you got bullied, doesn't give you the right to go and be awfully bad back
Nope. Karma will always spin the block. Sometimes it takes longer than we'd like, but best believe she'll always come.
s Bullies deserve no respect or sympathy. I would be glad to see someone who was bullied confronting their bully.
NO! Bullies deserve EVERYTHING that is coming their way! If that happens to be an ass kicking, so be it!
While bullying kids that bully isn't the answer..
Sometimes people need a dose of their own medicine...🤷🏼♀️
I actually got in trouble one time for making my bully cry on the bus
I eventually people stopped bullying me because I was actually worse than they could ever be
I was bullied in school by this one kid. One day I had enough and I beat the crap out of him. He ended up having to go to the hospital and he was suspended for a month. Since I was defending myself I got 2 days in school detention.
Haha the results show the girls are more compassionate.
I all for them having one dose back in self defense but not to go overboard...
Depends on how they go about it.
There’s a difference between standing up for yourself and becoming a pair of bullies mindlessly harassing each other.
Stand up for yourself and what’s right, but don’t become the new bully via over aggression.
Nope not even a little sympathy or remorse I'd probably be the one knocking them out😂🤣
Bullying show the failure of all adults in the lives of children. Crime prevention is the key. By the time kids are in court, its too late.
No i believe a a good ass whoopin but shooting stabbing that shit needs to stop
Nope stabbing a bully in the arm hard enough to make him bleed with a sharp pencil got them hin my back back in jr high
Nope I have no sympathy at all for those types of people.
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