I am a software engineer who is underpaid because of market situation, I am getting offer for male escort which can pay me 6 times of current job?

Six times your pay is phenomenal, I would take the escort job for sure. Though I would be careful with how you are using the extra money. If it's so much, I would absolutely be sure that at least 50% of it went into investments/long term savings. Then you're still making 3X your current income for whatever else you need.
You should also consider the stigma of escort/sex work. I personally have no negative judgment on it, sex isn't the evil thing for me that some other people make it out to be. But society will and does, so my recommendation would be you have some awareness and maybe some set limits around it.
For me, for example, I might set some boundaries like:
- I'm going to do this for a year, which is enough time to save a considerable amount of money.
- Boundaries around sex (will you be having sex with clients? All clients, or just ones you choose/are attracted to? What is okay during sex if so, like what are your limits?) should be set beforehand, not decided upon in the moment. This helps you be clear with clients.
I am going to save entire money for investments, not gonna spare a penny except whatever is general expenses like self care and it is surely for small time 2 to 3 years not after marriage. Also this will be secret from everyone I know and I will use a different name and I will keep my identity kind of morphed. I will never accept anything that is wrong so surely will be in limits.
Cool man, good luck and stay safe.
If someone find out you were a male escort at your job it's going to be hard to find work. Maybe just drive uber.
Keep your day job and benefits while you look for a better paying software engineer job.
Wdym?
Work for a different company that will pay you more.
That I will surely do soon but this is quick bucks, I don't have to leave my software job for this and it will be part-time as per them.
Is it illegal?
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Greatly depends on what your company says about part time jobs that are allowed.
Since the payment will be in cash, it will never be known by company in terms of earnings.
Erm it’s not the cash.
Unless you work for a company where no one actually talks to anyone, things like part time jobs get found out.
If you are in breach of contract, they dismiss you instantly.
How you going to advertise?
Just takes one person to notice it and you are potentially without a job.
You need to clear it with work first
I guess if the job is of same kind for example that I am working partime software engineer somewhere then it is an issue right.
Moreover escort job can be lied that we met in a bar or someone I know like that. Anyways I will go through the agreement.
It’s not just that which companies think of.
For example someone finds out you work for a company and do escort work.
You then get an email saying, they will inform your family, employer etc, unless you do a simple task.
They want your works email, they will send you three emails, all you have to do is click on the links within each email.
Not only that but they will pay you £10k…
Once a hooker - always a hooker.
No nice replacement word will change that.
Pick, which side of evolution you want to be on.
The market has such a high demand for Software Engineers. You must be terrible at what you do.
Nope the issue is with company, they won't pay much and the company is causing barrier for growth.
Yeah that is for sure but they are offering huge money even for part time after office.
I have put that option on hold for now but I am eager to earn huge money.
To remove the guilt I will gift every customer something and think of it as relationship
Be a male escort part time
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