Why are my new colleagues getting me involved in drama already?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to know the specifics of your situation without more information, but here are a few possible reasons why your new colleagues may be involving you in drama:

1. They may be trying to test your loyalty. Sometimes, new colleagues may try to involve you in drama or gossip as a way to see if you'll keep their secrets or defend them in difficult situations.

2. They may be trying to bond with you. Unfortunately, some people use gossip or drama as a way to connect with others. By involving you in their drama, they may be trying to build a rapport with you.

3. They may be trying to undermine you. In some cases, colleagues may try to involve you in drama as a way to gather information about you or to make you look bad in front of others.

Regardless of the reasons, it's important to set boundaries and avoid getting involved in drama or gossip at work. This can help you maintain a professional reputation and avoid getting caught up in unnecessary conflict.

If you find that your colleagues continue to involve you in drama despite your attempts to stay out of it, it may be helpful to speak with a supervisor or HR representative to address the situation. They can provide guidance and support on how to handle difficult colleagues and maintain a positive work environment.

[Wise4myage]

Some people love drama and never seem to get enough of it.

[Asker]

They tell me stories of people I’ve never even met

[Wise4myage]

That's weird.