Am I bad to start a drama because I am tired of how people treat me?

[Anonymous]

I really want to express my feelings to people! I just want to tell this specific someone what has been going on behind their back. I need to confront the people who have been treating me poorly. I have a kind heart; I truly do. However, I feel like I’ve been treated badly, especially with all the rumors. I always give love, share kindness, and try to make others happy. I pride myself on being a comforting presence, but I can see through people, and often, they choose to ignore me. I am not part of the clique, so I don't fit in to be liked and respected. I am consistently the one who gets stepped on because others say that I don't stand up for myself. I was bullied throughout school, faced abusive parents, and have endured so much more. I am tired of feeling like I am nobody and that people can treat me any way they want. Many of these people haven't even met me but know me through a mutual acquaintance and simply don't like me. If I can see through someone's insincerity, I suddenly become their enemy. I seem to be an easy target for others. These individuals often prefer to associate with those who don’t see their true nature. I’m just exhausted from being treated poorly, and it even affects how others perceive me. I believe I am quite quiet, which attracts people who aren’t great to be around.

[rosemilk]

feel free to express your feelings all you want, please. i actually encourage this. because not expressing your feelings or just keeping them in is very bad for your mental health that can then mess with your physical health.

toxic people loveeee people like you because they think you're easy to manipulate and step on. DO NOT let these people treat you like this. this keeps happening because you are allowing them to. it's time to stop this. you'll feel so much better after once you put your foot down and your life will improve so much. you no longer will have to feel this weight or feel dragged down by people who treat you badly because you cut them out of your life for good. don't wait any longer. life is too short to be feeling like this or to be around people like this. please cut them out of your life

[Kha0tiic_xo]

Totally understandable! Starting drama I wouldn't recommend because you're better than that, so remember that, but confronting the people who turn their backs on you and treat you like shit, and gossip, walking all over you isn't starting drama in my eye's, it's being an adult, being honest even if it hurts and letting them know they won't be stepping all over you anymore and the shit stop's now. Tell them all to grow up and stop acting like tools, and to stay the hell away from you because you have no time for childishness or their petty games. Let that be that and find friends who will respect you, and like you for who you are.

Good Luck!!!

[MrChinaski]

Are you completely independent? I am after 45 years and just say whatever is true and don't care where the chips land. If you aren't, you probably need to manage relationships a while longer.

[Asker]

yes COMPLETELY! I just stay to myself all the time but I really don't care for a social life. I am not sure why I let a lot of stuff bother me

[MrChinaski]

Be your true self. And it is nice to meet you.

[HusamRocks]

U need to love urself first and everything will work out for u then 👍🏻

[On_cloud_wine]

Just stay true to yourself.. stay in your own lane and mind your own business.

[Danny_dan92]

Nope