How can I stop living in a drama?

Question

I am so drama queen.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

If you really understand what drama was and what drama was meant to do you would run from it

Have you ever just been having a nice carefree day everything's just floating along just right you're happy things are just beautiful and then somebody steps into the picture and they start talking crap about somebody or they start being negative to whomever right in front of you and it just keeps getting louder more intense and just a word uglier by this moment but what that is supposed to do or what they're trying to do is to get into your bloodstream and make your blood start to boil and the this goes on day in and day out day and day out. You kind of forget that peaceful loving day that you're having and you start talking the drama crap and you become it and now you're just as bad as the person that brought it to you and it goes on and it goes on and it goes on other people join in

And two weeks goes by 3 weeks goes by and basically what r is being done
It is so nonchalant you don't even know it really what's happening but you're turning into them drama is created to take away from what you're supposed to be doing in life there's two sides to life two sides to everything

Good dad wrong right yes no hello goodbye positive negative love hate so on and so on and so on God devil

And see there's like a holy war going on right now the people aren't even aware of because they don't really look at people or pay attention what's really going on around them

The people that carry drama with them are angry angry people and they want to take you over to that one side that evil side and day in and day out eventually you'll go there and that's their job in this world is to take you there that is the holy war that's going on and it gets deeper in that really

But you had it that's not who you truly are you want the drama away from you so you jump over to the other side love positive right God and you figure out that you need to become one with yourself one with others and one with this universe and that is the fabric of the world that is fabric of God that is energy when you can become one with somebody one with yourself and one with the universe you are now in the fabric of the world and everything flows everything is beautiful

And if you have a destiny in life it is to become the best you can possibly even come help others and believe in yourself have confidence and become that fabric of the universe become part of it because we are all tied together

You will be 10 times happier everything in the world will go smoothly for you things will start coming together for you but when you're on the drama side nothing comes together everything gets worse there's just more and more drama it's a spiritual thing is what it is stay away from drama stay away from ignorance stay away from judgment don't talk crap about anybody I mean nobody's better than anybody else but the people that bring it to you they are in the dark you don't want to be in the dark cuz you can't see you want to be in the light where everything is just beautiful drama will hold you back forever

Drama will turn you to the dark side you're supposed to talk crap about people you're not supposed to talk about people at all

People with big brains they're the ones that figure out how to stop all these viruses how to get to the moon people with middle size frames they are family people that are trying to succeed trying to take their kids and make their kids grow up to be beautiful and just really good people people with small brains they talk about other people that's it Jerry Springer they have no life no nothing so they talk crap about other people because it makes him feel more powerful or whatever

And then with that you can start dialing in the beautiful parts about it learn about energy because everything on this planet is energy is the universe we are energy we are the universe and energy never dies it just keeps going and going but if you understand it and have the connected it is the most beautiful feeling you will ever feel especially becoming one with somebody and then one with this universe is even more powerful everything just flows I mean it's handed to you almost but you have to be there in it to do it to grasp it and understand it

I wish I would really thought about this for a second before I answered it because I went from one to 25 to 40 and missed all in between so you could understand it more but I think you probably will get to him anyway stop doing it you got better things to do plus drama makes you old drama make you tired like I said drama doesn't get you anywhere except for deeper in the hole

Lynx122 · Accepted Answer

You're 44 I don't think you're gonna change much if you haven't so far. To change your behaviour you actually have to want to do that but people who are always involved in drama it usually makes them feel better. Like either they're distracting themselves from the pain they're feeling or they just like the thrill of it the emotional rollercoaster or they need some kind of attention so they don't feel shitty about themselves.

To change your behaviour you have to actually take a step back and understand the reason why you're doing this and then deal with the underlying issue. Either the trauma or the need for attention or the thrillseeking but that won't be fun or easy. You have to sit in the negative emotions you're feeling. In the longterm you'll feel better but at the beginning it won't be fun it won't be exciting so you'll probably just quit and go back to what you were doing.

That's my guess. You can prove me wrong but I've been around enough people with issues now to understand that improvement is the exception. The rule is they'll have the same problems for the rest of their life and that's just the way it is.

SnowyOwl · Accepted Answer

You just do it. You stop. You don't think about it. You don't talk about it. You just stop it. Be real with yourself, it's the least you owe yourself.

Brokenheartedx · Accepted Answer

Don't involve yourself in drama and stay neutral.. If you're 44 you should know by now to stay out of things

Cinematic Lily · Accepted Answer

If you find yourself caught up in drama, you might consider focusing on self-awareness and managing your emotions better. Try to identify situations or behaviors that trigger dramatic reactions and practice mindfulness to stay calm. Set boundaries with others and avoid getting involved in unnecessary conflicts. Engage in activities that bring peace, like painting or listening to audiobooks, to divert your attention from drama. Surround yourself with positive influences and embrace a balanced lifestyle. 🧘‍♀️🌼

blueonblack22 · Answer

Well at least you are self aware of your issues which is the most crucial step.  Your drama issue likely stems from some deep issues: insecurity, paranoia, etc. I recommend you get counseling.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

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LiamJHayden · Answer

Some drama can be unavoidable, but a lot of people manufacture their own. Actively choose to not do the latter.

genericname85 · Answer

i mean it's your decision to be a drama queen. there's nothing to it but to just stop it xD

Graptemys79 · Answer

Sex will just add to your drama. I would suggest counseling if it is available.

Flower7 · Answer

More sex would cause more drama, not less.

es20490446e · Answer

Sex doesn't fix drama.

Yannae · Answer

Self reflection, finding your flaws and learning

Anastasia06 · Answer

Cut those out who created.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

Sure come on over

eagle1951 · Answer

change the channel lol

Anonymous · Answer

Nice knowing ya! 🫡

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