Am I wrong for causing drama?

[tempirl2012]

Last month, i found out my boyfriend of 1 year had gotten some random girl pregnant. But before that, i read a text of Him asking her to be with him and everything. (she said she didn't want to be with anybody.) Plus he was asking to pick her up. ( she rejected him) So i guess he blocked her. The last conversation they had was December 27, 2022. I ended up calling her January 20, 2023. Which she was very upset. She said, "stop playing on my phone" "this is why i didn't want to be with you. U told me u were single". After that, i put her number back on block. The next day, she started leaving a bunch of voicemails on his answering machine.. He had me listen to it- calling her nuts. its February 17th. We're asleep in bed and she texted out of nowhere sending her ultrasound picture of their unborn baby girl (He still ignored her) Because he's with me. Am i wrong for causing drama? I mean i don't why she just won't take the hint that he just want her or the baby. 😴🙄I mean he does like other women pictures online; but i don't care about that- as long as he's not talking to the pregnant girl. 🗣

[burlen]

It's understandable to feel upset and hurt by your boyfriend's behaviour and the situation you find yourself in. However, consider your actions and whether they are helping or exacerbating the situation.

While you have a right to express your feelings and communicate with your boyfriend about what you're going through, reaching out to the pregnant woman and causing drama may not be the most productive or effective way to deal with the situation.

In this case, it seems that contacting the pregnant woman only caused her further distress and potentially created more conflict. Remember that she is also going through a difficult time and may be feeling a range of emotions. It's important to treat others with compassion and empathy, even in challenging situations.

Instead of causing drama or escalating the situation, consider focusing on your own feelings and how you can communicate with your boyfriend in a constructive way. It may also be helpful to seek the support of friends, family, or a therapist to help you process your emotions and make decisions about how to move forward.

[ShiftingMonke]

I'm shook that you boyfriend cheated on you, created another life, and you think your reaction is drama.. what a sad state of affairs we've come to.

[Anemone978]

Why are you still with him? He cheated on you, got another girl pregnant, doesn't give a shit about the baby... but you still want to date him? LOL

[Wise4myage]

NO, not at all. And you need to remove both of them from your life.

[Fanfare690]

Messy af
This is bad

[In_Trance]

yes, smh