Is it normal to click on a married woman?

[scott04sa22]

Yesterday I was getting a new phone. Me and a sales representative were talking while I was in the process of getting my new phone. we were clicking all over the place and I kinda melt her heart or she went aww after my neighbor called me on my new phone requesting my help. I told her my cons while she surprisingly offered me a job but I declined it because I was still happy at my current employer. I never had a sale rep offered me a job like that or had a rep who i clicked with. Trust me she wasn’t clicking because it’s her job. The clicking just happened very expectedly like we had a chemistry thing going on.

[hahahmm]

1. I'm a loyal type guy. I'm not going to encourage somebody else to be disloyal just so I can have a good time. No I wasn't always like that. I once thought I knew better than our ancestors who had all these rules for living. The older I get, the more I think they were geniuses.

2. I've seen multiple times in my life (both happened to me and others) where a woman on a job seems totally into you & there's mutual stuff going on and then she switches to acting like you're a stalker. They can do this switch at any time, for any reason.

One time I had a job with this smoking hot woman & we were getting into very heavy flirting. I was totally about to 'hit' that and if I wanted it in the bathroom at work she would have been all in on it. But I was more classy than that so I was waiting till the end of work. Then a co-worker tells me, "she's married." I had a rule of not messing with married women so I went to her and asked her, "are you married?" She said yes. I stopped messing with her. Her husband worked for the same company (but not in the same offices where I worked with his wife). I had met him several times before & we'd had good conversations. Friendly. Anyhow, after I stopped messing with her he was very cold to me. I figured out she must have lied to him & told him I harassed her or something to cover herself in case I ratted on her. Now just think if her husband had been the type who shoots first & asks questions later or kicks you in the nuts with steel toed boots first. That's when I learned, the absolute worst thing you can do is get a married woman hot & bothered and then reject her. There's no going back.

I would NOT want to be working with a married chick who thinks I'm all into her. She has all the power and can wreck your life in any of 100 different ways any time she wants to. Just for entertainment or to get even because you decided to get a girlfriend.

And yes I have seen women do the switch from friendly/heavy flirting to claiming you're a stalker when you actually did nothing like that more than once in my life too. Let's just say, that if the hottest looking woman in the world came on to me in a customer service situation, I will IGNORE it. I was burned twice like that before I wised up. I also don't tip extra if a woman looks nice and she's serving at restaurant/bar. Let the suckers tip extra.

[hahahmm]

Most people would just say, "it's her job to make you think she likes you." But the fact she offered you a job tells me she wants you in a situation where it's easier for her to lie to her husband about why she's hanging out with you. Probably a serial cheater.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Just remember she is in sales & if she has you on her team you can click with customers & drive up sales. A lot of places are hiring & it’s tough to get good employees & I’m sure you are not the only one she offered a job too & I’m sure you won’t be the last.