Should I trust my coworker who once threw me under the bus?

[Anonymous]

My coworker always reports my small mistakes to my boss its just petty. To be clear I actually do my job well she just reports me because sometimes Im slow to respond to my coworkers which is not really related to my job mistakes she's like saying Im absent minded when in reality I have anxiety. Or they saying that I can't seem to absorb information quickly when they talk to me like Im slow to respond. We also have a groupchat and she always shout out me whenever I make smallest mistakes but when she makes mistakes I never even report her to our boss but now I do the same to her now I shout out her on our groupchat her mistakes as revenge to her.

Yes

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[Oliverlogan263]

Woah girl your coworker is straight up bullying you! Reporting every little thing to the boss and calling you out on groupchat like that is so lame.

I would NOT trust her anymore. She obviously has issues and is just tryna make you look bad on purpose. Who cares if you're a little slower to respond sometimes, your actual work gets done right?

I say keep reporting her mistakes back now too for sure. Give her a taste of her own medicine! And start keeping your own record of everything she does just in case you need to go to HR or something. Don't put up with that mean girl BS.

You gotta protect yourself now cause she clearly won't have your back. Try chatting with other coworkers too so you have allies on your side. Stick with people who will support you, not drag you down. You don't need that kind of toxic energy girl!

[Asker]

I agree some people are so miserable that will threw under the bus for your every mistakes.
I agree by the way some of my coworkers are kinda agree with her and she's kinda making me really bad in front of others. by the way she even scolded in front of other people telling my mistakes about me asking twice again I have OCD and I keep asking question just to make sure and she's scolded me in front of other people saying some people are kinda annoyed by me when she should be telling me that in private. I mean I understand they kinda annoyed but please tell me in private when no one is hearing.

Yeah I always put her mistakes on our groupchat too from now on as a revenge. Im petty I just want to retaliate. I dont trust her from the start to be honest something is not right about her when I first met her my gut instincts is right because she is bully.

I will hopefully some people at work will defend me like Im still new and she works there longer than me so obviously people will side her more than me because they know her better than me.

Well if there's karma I hope she and some people who threw me under the bus will get their karma.

[Oliverlogan263]

Ugh that sucks, sounds like she's really got it out for you. Totally uncool of her to scold you in front of others about stuff, especially when it's related to your OCD. That's some personal stuff that should definitely be handled privately. I can understand why you'd wanna retaliate and call out her mistakes too, I'd probably wanna do the same thing. Sometimes people just don't like you for no good reason, and it seems like she had it in for you from the start.

I wouldn't lose hope though, even if some others kinda side with her now since she's been there longer. As long as you keep doing your job well, eventually they'll see she's the one being the bully and causing drama. You could also try making some friends with other coworkers so you've got some backup if she tries anything. And who knows, maybe eventually karma will come around and she'll screw up in a big way while you're looking good. Just gotta keep your head up and not let her get to you too much, even if it's frustrating dealing with people like that. Hopefully things turn around for you there!

[Fanfare690]

That's why you guys aren't friends now

[Assbeat89]

Don't get your ass beat 🗣