Does my teacher like me or not? Context: I am a 17 year old (turning 18 in a few months) black female (relevant) and he is a white male teacher?

[pookiebear8]

* He is married with 2 kids (under 8)

1. He was on lunch duty and was talking to another teacher. I was 8m behind him and he turned his back to glance at me while smirking. Then he turned to face back to where he was facing originally and carried on talking with the other teacher. However, when I was walking past him, he turned his body so that he could see me walk by. And when I did walk by, he started speaking louder while fidgeting. 2. On my last days of school, I had my head down on the table in a communal area he frequently passes to go to his class. Originally I had my head up and this was when he was going to go to the staff room. However as I wanted to avoid doing a presentation by faking sick, I put my head down. I asked my friends to tell me if he looked/saw me. 1 minute after, he returned and came back the same way. Once he had left I asked my friends if he looked/saw me. They both said, "He was eyeing you and it was WEIRD" in a concerned tone. 3. I think he might have a fetish because he said during class, "I would rather be teaching you guys about slavery than the topic we are doing now"which I personally found weird because that was a random thing to say in that lesson (history), even though he taught it to his previous younger year group. 4. He was leaving another teacher's classroom and I was leaving the toilets. He then looked at me for like 2 seconds and turned away without saying anything. Then when I entered his class he greeted me. 5. He asked the class if anyone was turning 18 (for voting reasons) this year and he waited for like 10 seconds for an answer while kinda glancing at me, as if he knew. 6. On my last day of school, he let me sit in his chair and said it was a gift to me because he will no longer have to mark more papers and he'll spent more time with his kids (joke).

During parents evening I asked him, "How do I get higher marks in history?" and I think I slightly smiled (to be nice) and he was full on smirking+smiling.

[meepmeeperton]

Maybe he never got the chance to do a chocolate vanilla swirl before he got married and had kids and wishes he could with you.

Hopefully that's not the case and he just likes you as a student.

[pookiebear8]

I didn't really participate in his class tho. And I defo wasn't his fav student. He would just blush when giving me work, most notably during my last days. But he's a married man with 2 kids, so why me? I'm not even gorgeous.

[meepmeeperton]

Maybe he's not used to the looks of black women and thinks you're beautiful just for being different than white, if that makes sense. And even if he's married with two kids his marriage could be going poorly and his eyes are starting to wander to inappropriate places.

[pookiebear8]

But this was in the UK and he used to live in London, so he knows of black women, though I do think he might have a fetish because he even went to an event that was dedicated to slavery, so I don't know?

[pookiebear8]

also what is "chocolate vanilla swirl" mean?

[meepmeeperton]

Well maybe he does have a fetish and you being black makes you attractive to him no matter how attractive you are otherwise. And it could be more of a fantasy thing since he didn't marry a black woman in real life.

[pookiebear8]

interesting. what did u mean by "chocolate vanilla swirl"?

[meepmeeperton]

Lol just black and white going together and having sex.

[noohair]

He would be risking his job to be with you. Adult or not, he would be fired.

[DishLady]

I stopped reading at "HE'S MARRIED" -- stop trifling with a married man, will you kid?

[Jessikaah91]

Don't F the teacher. 🤣

[war_daddy]

I think he wants to have sex with you

[pookiebear8]

But he's married with 2 kids, so why would he? I'm not pretty as well.

[war_daddy]

I don't know

[In_Trance]

Lol no

[andy530]

Sounds like he does