Would we still be consider losers to our former bullies?

[Anonymous]

Would those that (for whatever reason) never liked you during your school years and dedicated all the energy to bully you, still see us as losers even as adults?

Is their concept about us (the kid they picked on the most) still the same even now? I got inspired by a horror movie Valentine 2001. Even 13 years later, the former girls (now women in their mid-late 20's) still referred to the poor kid they bullied as ''some loser from 6th grade''. They don't change all those years later. They still see that poor kid as a loser. I read several stories where they don't really change much.

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5 mo

Would their views be the same as my concept towards a specific girl in 7th grade. She's a detestable bully and a fake person. Should she ever perform a great deed to the community or participates in anti-bullying campaigns if we ever bump into each other, maybe my opinion will vary. But till now, my opinion remains sealed for her.

[slatyb]

Likely the bullies have always felt like losers and bullying others was their way to feel superior to someone.

[Asker]

Yeah their mindset is already formed. By the time they're 12 years and older, it's pretty much too late since most of the personality is formed during adolescence. They have some type of ego booster and derive pleasure in making someone suffer... unless a real ''Come to Jesus'' moment happens (after a horrible event happening to them or someone close to them) or you scare the living hell out of them for good, they don't change.

[Asker]

Sad, pathetic individuals indeed. Now I'm thinking there are too many narcissists. They're already lacking empathy if they're getting pleasure out of making someone suffer.

[red-lipstick-girl]

I was bullied a lot too but now I am a conscious person so now if someone bullies me they will get beaten by me in return it will be very painful

[Asker]

Definitely. They're the losers themselves.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

That depends on how much we value their opinion

[Asker]

True. I guess it must be the same as I think about the former bullies; that they're shitty people.

[Orion84]

I literally could not care less.

If they still have that mindset 20+ years later, then I would genuinely pity them.

[Asker]

yeah they would then be the losers themselves, if they still act like that at this age

[Anonymous]

Probably.

[Asker]

Yeah they made it in their minds (at an early age) to permanently judge you. It's pretty much the same I think of bullies back then. For us, they remain as destestable people, even years later. So yeah it must be the same for them, that in their mind we're still the loser they can't stand.