Should I quit my apprenticeship at a workshop because I'm the only girl there and my boyfriend thinks I'll be flirting with the guys there?

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Caroline91 · Answer

I find myself agreeing with @leatherdame  I would reply differently if I hadn't seen that pic. It sounds like there is a basic trust issue in your relationship. If you want him to trust you, you have to not give him any reason not to. No, I don't see any point in you quitting if you like the job. He's going to break up with you anyway at some point if he doesn't trust you.

LeatherDame · Answer

Normally I’d say absolutely not/probably best to dump your controlling and insecure boyfriend if he’s already talking like that.

But this is GaG and the second photo was flirty so there’s the possibility that he’s not just being insecure and you really are flirting up a storm. I either way, I doubt the apprenticeship is why it’s actually happening and dropping it would hurt your career without fixing anything.

Kaneki05 · Answer

No that's dumb. Even more so who cares if there is flirting. Having some flirtious banter in a workspace of men is not cheating, it's called normal if your an attractive girl.

There is a major difference between that and cheating. Same way with sexual harassment is also different.

Anyone with common sense knows the differences, and it's more so you shouldn't date someone who don't know.

Summeroflove · Answer

Are you flirting with other men there? People who start being too insecure about someone many times are projecting. There should be a level of trust I know if I’m dating a woman that if she’s going to cheat she’s going to cheat no matter what. Whether she works with men or not…. Point blank.

You shouldn’t quit your job because someone you’re not even married to wants you to. What if you break up and now you don’t have your job anymore?

IslaTheWitch · Answer

lmao... never ever do it for someone... quit if you don't like it, but not because of someone's insecurities :D

bowenw · Answer

You should do what you love to do for work. Your boyfriend needs to get used to you working with guys and trust you. If he can't get over it, he needs to find a girlfriend that only works with women.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

I think this is worthy of communication, tell him you won't flirt with other guys and that you are there just to do your job and earn your money, if you stick to that everything should be chillin, it's pretty cool that you work at a workshop

OneViewpoint · Answer

If you're serious about a career, don't quit. But whatever you decide, get a new boyfriend. His attitude is a red flag.

alice55 · Answer

I can understand his perspective but if you want to quit your job you need to fid another one first before quitting if not you'll be in trouble especially if he decide to leave you while your'e unemployed

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

How are you going to flirt with guys and take thirst trap pictures if you quit?

MemeSupreme · Answer

okay i'll bite even tho ik this is likely fake lol no don't quit for a dumb reason like that bc all that bullshit you've went through in your apprenticeship was for nothing

NoOneEver · Answer

You should only quit if you know that what he claims will be true, and you don’t want to risk jeopardizing your relationship with him.

If not he’s going to need to learn to build more faith and trust in you.

trumpetplayerforlife · Answer

No because he's being controlling ignore him and do what makes you happy

Levin · Answer

Damn. You are a flirty creature. But your career is for life. Boyfriends will come and go. Especially douchy controlling ones.

Staximus · Answer

Hell no. If you like your apprenticeship then don't quit just because your boyfriend is being insecure. If you're flirting with the guys then that's another problem and you can do that at any job. Girls that work on cars are hot, though

DishLady · Answer

No that's stupid. But possibly stop sucking your fingers, eh, girly?

HelpfulWoman · Answer

or dump the dude who's preoccupied thinking you'd be flirting and cheating so quickly?

RedInnocent69 · Answer

No, but don’t kid yourself. Whatever you’re doin, they’re flirting with you

Spencer10 · Answer

No. Maybe get a new boyfriend. One that is supportive and more trusting.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Not at all. He needs to chill out and trust u. Do u live together? IS he ok with the sex life u two have together?

Anonymous · Answer

No but just remember never sleep with any of the guys or you will be viewed as a whole there.

Jackblue · Answer

Absolutely not, you can't let your boyfriend control your life.

DomInDraper · Answer

Quitting your job for a spouse is one thing, but for a mere boyfriend/girlfriend? Nah.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

H**L to the NO !!!(Unless you are flirting with the boys !!!)

In_Trance · Answer

Seems like a silly reason to quit but at the same time it's a valid question

Anonymous · Answer

No, better working at something you love than doing nothing at all

WhitneySnow · Answer

No! He should trust you. Don’t quit.

AviatorTom · Answer

That's not a valid reason.

hello4433 · Answer

As long as you won't flirt you don't have to quit

msc545 · Answer

Of course not. Get a new boyfriend.

SweetJoyGirl · Answer

lol.

TatesGirl62 · Answer

Grow up

Should I quit my apprenticeship at a workshop because I'm the only girl there and my boyfriend thinks I'll be flirting with the guys there?

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