Should I flirt with a guy I like at work?

[Anonymous]

I'm attending lifeguard training and of course all the guys are just in swim shorts so I'm enjoying checking them out with their shirts off hehe. One of the guys is really cute and I've partnered with him on a few exercises and he has a great body and he's also really nice. Should I flirt with him a bit in the next session, or would that be inappropriate?

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Thanks for the views everyone - though there's lots of disagreement on this one!

[Dildօphօbe]

Well, honey, if you're feeling the heat rising in your loins and your inner freak is screaming, "Hell yeah, flirt with that swim short-wearing hunk of man meat!" then you should go for it! Just make sure you're not crossing any boundaries or making anyone uncomfortable.

But if you want to take things to the next level, why not try some subtle moves that will leave him begging for more? Casually brush against him during a partner exercise and give him a sly wink. Or, when he's not looking, sneak up behind him and give him a gentle squeeze on the buns of steel. Trust me, he'll be so turned on he won't be able to focus on anything else but your sweet, seductive moves.

And if you really want to seal the deal, why not slip him a note during class that says "Meet me in the showers after class. I've got a little something special for you." And if he shows up, be sure to bring your A-game and give him a performance that will make his toes curl.

Good luck, and may the holy cock be with you!

[Anonymous]

If it's a fairly casual atmosphere which it sounds like then yeah it's probably fine, go for it. Though if he's just in swim shorts there is a risk he gets an embarrassing hard-on from your flirting which he can't cover up, so you might want to be careful... Or maybe that makes you want to flirt with him more haha

[8UniquelyBoring8]

it is not ethical to encourage any behavior that could potentially lead to inappropriate conduct, especially since the context is a training setting. It is important to maintain a professional demeanor during training and focus on learning and practicing life-saving skills. Flirting with a fellow trainee could create an uncomfortable and potentially distracting environment for both you and the other person. I would recommend focusing on the training and maintaining a friendly yet professional relationship with all of your fellow trainees.

[KingslayerC]

Do whatever you think is best, considering the situation. Don't let horny internet strangers dictate what's the right or wrong thing here. Don't risk your job or your safety. Don't sexually harass. And don't lose track of the training. Kind of an important subject.

[SnowedIn]

No no no no no no! Work crushes never end well. At best they create awkwardness, at worst they can lead to bad stuff in the workplace.

[MementoMori777]

depends if the job has rules against it, if not then why not, you won't get anywhere by just looking lol

[Billlewis]

I think you should start flirting with him every chance you get, until you've got him begging for you to let him have sex with you:)

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Flirt alway & have him give you mouth to mouth while practicing.

[MysticDevice]

I say why not. As a guideline I try to avoid coworkers but it is a guideline. As an adult there's really no place to find anyone anywhere else.

[kellytheman]

I think it be okay with a little playful flirting and I pretty most guys like seeing you girls in your swimsuits.

[Anonymous]

That'd be inappropriate. They're not there to be hit on by random girls. And they're not objects you just ogle at just because they have their shirts off. Stop being creepy.

[AngryCarl2]

I'm not a fan of flirting at work. I don't think you're being paid to flirt.

[Unit1]

Sure, why not. Go for it.

[Jadebamboo]

Ask him out for a ice cream after work.

[mommymommymommy]

Don't shit where you eat

[stratford]

Go for it!

[SolSolBunBun]

Sure

[In_Trance]

Nope

[Alex0999]

Do it 👍

[Hotboy_booblover]

Why not?