Short story,
My girlfriend was flirting with a guy from her uni at ig and I read the messages. I am ready to forgive her but says after what she has done and thinking I will not able to process, her feeling are fading. Meanwhile 4 days before this she was telling me how she wanted a future and begging me not to leave her ( I ignored and hurt her badly because I was sad and selfish). Now I can't pressure a talk but I am dying inside not able to contact with her and every single second passes I fear time will make her feelings fade more. How can I convince her I accept what is done and forgive and trust her, which is the case."
She did not want me to leave her just couple of days ago, she still asked if I should leave after the incident, now her feeling are fading. I just dont understand, she doesn't even tried to make up while I told I want to improve myself, work on my mistakes.
I dont want to leave her but she is going to leave I feel, she forced a stay friends and lets see how it goes state but I fear that will make us used to be away. Dont have money to go to her country even if I had, no planes...
Two weeks ago I learned that she lied to me. I was sad but somehow I understood the reasons but she didn't admit her lying so I tought she wasn't remembering or told it randomly feeling bad then she confessed she was lying to my face to hide her lie. I was so sad and felt bad I acted so childish, ignored her. Couple of times when I wanted to talk she feared so much that I was going to leave her but I just acted cold, ignored her, all she said she understood I was sad and it was okay , not to worry. I told her I wantd a future with her too but I just couldnt see if we could make it work which she begged me not to leave. I felt so bad that I made her feel like this but couldnt tell her that I was not going to leave her. She told me how much she loved me many times which I did not reply her, inside I was telling the same. I hurt her so bad.
My girlfriend was flirting with a guy from her uni at ig and I read the messages. I am ready to forgive her but says after what she has done and thinking I will not able to process, her feeling are fading. Meanwhile 4 days before this she was telling me how she wanted a future and begging me not to leave her ( I ignored and hurt her badly because I was sad and selfish). Now I can't pressure a talk but I am dying inside not able to contact with her and every single second passes I fear time will make her feelings fade more. How can I convince her I accept what is done and forgive and trust her, which is the case."
She did not want me to leave her just couple of days ago, she still asked if I should leave after the incident, now her feeling are fading. I just dont understand, she doesn't even tried to make up while I told I want to improve myself, work on my mistakes.
I dont want to leave her but she is going to leave I feel, she forced a stay friends and lets see how it goes state but I fear that will make us used to be away. Dont have money to go to her country even if I had, no planes...
Two weeks ago I learned that she lied to me. I was sad but somehow I understood the reasons but she didn't admit her lying so I tought she wasn't remembering or told it randomly feeling bad then she confessed she was lying to my face to hide her lie. I was so sad and felt bad I acted so childish, ignored her. Couple of times when I wanted to talk she feared so much that I was going to leave her but I just acted cold, ignored her, all she said she understood I was sad and it was okay , not to worry. I told her I wantd a future with her too but I just couldnt see if we could make it work which she begged me not to leave. I felt so bad that I made her feel like this but couldnt tell her that I was not going to leave her. She told me how much she loved me many times which I did not reply her, inside I was telling the same. I hurt her so bad.
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