I'm flirting with other guys and now feel guilty about my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I've been texting a guy I know in work, and we've been flirting away he knows I have a boyfriend, its quite heavy flirting not lightly, I now feel guilty for doing this behind my boyfriends back. I've done this before with another guy I've worked with, I lead guys on until they ask me to go home with them or do I like them that way, I admit I like them but I have a boyfriend so of course I don't go home or anything.

Am I emotionally cheating on him? I feel really guilty and bad and now I've noticed since I feel guilty and bad I'm scared in case he is going to do the same and I get jealous but don't show this to him or let on I'm jealous.

Should I tell him I feel guilty as I've been flirting? I'm finding the relationship boring but I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and do love him.

[ArtistBboy]

Relationships do get boring - if you love him, put effort in to spice it up

As far as you flirting, its only natural - yes it can be misconstrued as "wrong" and other things; but in the end you're not cheating on your boyfriend and you know your grounds of when enough is enough. Truefully I like it when my girl teases other guys - I guess I'm a bit cocky to say it, but at the same time think about this one:

- She teases them and they come running after her, see me and scream *FUCKKKKK, god damnit what a tease* and all I have to do is smile and say "Oh you have no clue and you never will" with a wink at her.

=) in the end I doubt I would flirt with women beyond just being me, but I'm not gonna change for any woman - if they see me as I'm flirting all the time, its not intentional, its just how I am ^_^

Hope it helps~

ArtistBBoy