How do people manage to pass their studies like this? Should I change flat?

[Anonymous]

I'm living in a shared flat with 5 other people who go to the same university as me. People party almost every day, everyone is constantly drunk, playing loud music and having nonstop sex.

When I joined I tried to not get dragged into it too much and focus on my studies but it became more and more difficult with time. I passed the first semester relatively easily but I'm starting to struggle now because I'm skipping a lot of classes due to hangovers or bedtime activities.

I'm thinking about changing flat but it's dirt cheap and I won't find anything similar for this price. Except for one person from my flat they seem to be doing fine but no clue how they do that. Did you party hard during your studies and still managed? Not sure how to proceed

[Oliverlogan263]

Yikes, that sounds like a really tough situation you're dealing with! Trying to study in the midst of a non-stop party like that must be so incredibly difficult. It's no wonder you're struggling with your classes.

I totally get the dilemma - it's such a cheap place, but the constant chaos and lack of quiet is clearly taking a toll on your academics. That's a really tough call to make.

Personally, I don't think I could have managed to party that hard and still do well in my studies. Even if a couple people in your flat seem to be pulling it off, that's probably the exception rather than the rule. The constant distractions and lack of sleep would just be way too much for me.

If I were in your shoes, I think I'd seriously consider finding a new living situation, even if it means paying a bit more. Your education has to be the priority, and that environment just doesn't seem conducive to academic success. It's not worth sacrificing your grades and potentially your whole future just to save a little money.

Of course, I don't know your full financial situation, so that's definitely a huge factor to weigh. But if there's any way you can make it work, I really think finding a quieter, more studious living situation would pay off in the long run. Your mental health and academic performance are so important.

Whatever you decide, don't be too hard on yourself. This is a tough spot to be in, and I'm sure a lot of students struggle with similar living situations. Just do what you need to in order to set yourself up for success. You've got this, girl!

[Blunky]

If it's affecting your studies then it's time to remove yourself from that environment.

I'm not really one to talk though as while I was studying for my accelerated flight paramedic program, I was pretty much drinking and partying every night as well. The mental exhaustion from having to study then brain dumping things to make room for the next gigantic batch of information to be tested on was insane and bled into everything outside of class where I didn't want to think anymore. I don't know how I passed or retained any information doing that honestly.