Is Taylor Swift's depiction of love accurate?

[Part2603]

Or is she just spewing sentimental bullshit?

Any stories out there of couples patterning their love stories from her music? Anyone put her songs on their mixtape?

[MrOracle]

Taylor Swift has had more guys than I've had hamburgers, so if she was so wize about love, she'd have a family by now. She wants guys above her level, but she's dated them all. She doesn't realize that men even close to her level can get dozens or hundreds of girls, and have no reason to be faithful to her.

They don't need her money or fame, and it's not like they need someone to cook or clean, so what can she offer that he needs that a thousand other girls can't?

[77five]

“No reason to be faithful”. Jesus christ…..

[MrOracle]

Hey, I didn't tell her to date only from the 100 most desirable men in the world, but that's who she chooses, and those guys have hot girls throwing themselves at them constantly. It's not my fault those guys take advantage of what is offered to them.

Don't confuse me telling it like it is for me endorsing that behavior.

[77five]

And you think Taylor isn't one of the top women?

[Part2603]

@77five See, that's the difference, we men are not interested in "top women". We're not prestige or social status oriented. Not to the same degree women are.

[MrOracle]

She's not a top woman in the context of "what a man wants in a woman for a relationship", which is a different thing compared to her celebrity or her general status.

While being a celebrity might make a woman more desirable to bang, it does not make her more desirable to commit to. Neither does her money or her jet or her houses.

Those things make men more attractive to (most) women, but they don't make a woman more attractive to men when we are talking about relationship partners.

[77five]

@Part2603 then what do men want? Because she's not ugly by any means

[SiberFox]

Doesn't she go through boyfriends like a basketball through hoops at a game? Why would you think she has a good depiction of love?

[Part2603]

Yeah, she should take her own advice. 🤣

[TroyDT]

No, but then most people's description fails because they make it about their feelings rather than the choice to act in seeking the better for the other person. Feelings are not love.