Listen to this song first. Have you given up on finding love?

[sage2021]

https://youtu.be/g_BUvEDDDes?si=-62Q5msdWxDRassn

[Surely]

I once told a woman that she needs to be careful. Because I was still hung up on someone else. She still got upset. When I told her that I warned her and why was she mad at me. She said that I was the only guy that ever told her the truth!
Go figure!

[Surely]

Thank you for the MHO! How is your son doing?

[sage2021]

@Surely
Thank you for asking about my son. He seems to be doing okay now 😊

[Surely]

Wonderful! Glad to hear that.

[Smf1989]

Yes I have

[sage2021]

@Smf1989
So you have totally given up on trying to find a love relationship right?
There are a lot of guys on this website that say that they have given up on finding a good woman 👠 ♀️ because they just aren't very decent and are very selfish among other things.
I hear this time and time again for years now and I really feel bad for the guys. And yes, I do blame it on the women of today because they are on social media sites learning the wrong things about how to treat a guy and a lot of them are weaponized feminatzis! Who can get close to that? Right!! No guy!!
If it's any consolation to you I finally met the love of my life when I was 61 years old and it was completely by accident. He was a surprise! 😀
We had 6 wonderful years together and some of it wasn't spent together physically because he had to move away for a while but then he came back and we lived together for a year and a half.
Sadly, on September 8th of 2023 he died suddenly and her always told me that he would never leave me.
So here I am again, just me.💔

[Cormac995]

The modern dating environment is complete hell. It feels like everybody just wants sex and flings and nobody actually sees love as the goal in the relationship anymore. As for woman being nasty and cruel, I wish I could say otherwise but the only woman who haven't fucked me over in my life in some capacity are the last two therapists I had.

I live off less than 1000 dollars a month before rent the idea of dating on my income is ridiculous let alone attracting a partner long term. Nobody wants to settle for someone with a dead-end future and a house husband isn't exactly in demand because it's a very unconventional roll. The same is true of the average worker. They just don't make enough money.

I've moved mountains for woman multiple times but I'm always the guy that's the "He's a great friend." Guy and I know it. I don't blame them honestly; I'm a shit pick for a partner but that doesn't make accepting it any easier.

[Cormac995]

Dating apps are 5 guys per 1 girl and with the economy being this bad. if you're not middle-class dating is super hard. If you're broke like me, it's impossible. It's even more unlikely too because in America the assumption is that the man pays and if you make them pay their share then you're going to be negatively compared to every guy before who didn't. Dating is just straight up too expensive for a lot of guys including ones far more successful than me.

After a certain point I just felt like all I was doing was wasting my time and getting hurt. It's reached the point it almost feels like self-abuse to keep trying at this point. People want love and companionship but that's not enough on its own for most people, so people like me who only have that to offer are pretty much fucked. It makes sense though I get it, you don't have to like something for it to be true.

Woman also refuse to lower their standards. Every woman from a 1-10 wants a 10 but the reality is these days so few men at are tens they don't have to settle for anything less than a 8. So, you have 7-1 stuck single complaining about not having a man because they can't accept that the kind of guy they want can do better than them, so he'll never pick her.

[Cormac995]

It's kind of funny. People made fun of Incle's for years but now we're seeing Femcels go through the roof too. It's kind of rewarding seeing all this backfire honestly after everything I've been put through with this current dating system. I can handle rejection that's one thing but I'm less forgiving than most because I haven't just been rejected, I've been abused and there's a big difference.

Getting shot down hurts but is perfectly fine but when you string a guy along, milk him for attention and then fuck his best friend like I had happen that's a special kind of knife twisting especially when you paw at him when in public with each other knowing I'm sitting in the same room. Also it would have been nice if the closest thing I had to a girlfriend in high school hadn't been raping one of our friends unknowns to me WHILE WE WERE DATING!

Learning that one fucked with my head but it made a bunch of things make sense in hindsight. She often went to the restroom right after my other friend did and after a short while my other friend started taking a bathroom buddy with her whenever she went. She was very sexually aggressive but the moment you touched her back she got frustrated. (I know red flags everywhere I was in high school and never had a girlfriend give me a little slack please.)

Basically, while we were supposedly dating, she was finding ways to corner my other friend alone whenever she could so she could sexually assault her. I only found out a few years ago and it sickens me. The amount of ick I feel knowing my first kiss was with a rapist makes me want to rip my tongue out.

[Dongie]

Mac Davis is cool. He was pretty big in the 70s. Have you seen 'North Dallas 40'? It's a great football movie with Nick Nolte as well.

[Dongie]

And to answer the question, yes.

[Anonymous]

Yes I have. Love is a lie. At least, heterosexual love is a lie. I wish I were homosexual. The love of homosexual people is never based on benefits.

[NathanDavis]

I have love... and, plenty

[sage2021]

@NathanDavis
So, did you give your opinion because you want people to be envious of Nathan Davis?🤫

[NathanDavis]

what's to be envious about?

[sage2021]

@NathanDavis
Then you just came on here to brag? Because it sure sounds like it to me!!

[NathanDavis]

maybe it's just you...

because when I hear someone else say they got love and happiness in their life... I do feel happy for them, not envious of them...

[sage2021]

@NathanDavis
Did you even read the question? Man, what was your purpose of giving your opinion to a question that has nothing to do with what you said.
Now please let's end this because it's MY question!!

[NathanDavis]

well you started to question me, lol

and as the gentleman that I am, I answer your inquiries...

[exitseven]

Mac Davis is very underrated.

[sage2021]

@exitseven
I am a big Mac Davis fan. I even met him in person with Nick Nolte at a park in Long Beach 🏖️😎⛱️ 🩴🩴🕶️👒California. They were making the movie "North Dallas Forty".
I was even invited to eat lunch with them. How cool 😎 was that?

[exitseven]

Tht is really cool. I remember that movie.

[MikeRJ]

I am a hopeless romantic.

[Anonymous]

Yes I have