Dear Mom, 9 Things I Will Never Forgive You For

[Anonymous]

Inspired by MissMc3's myTake.

A list of unforgivable occurrences, from a son to his mother.

1) I Will Never Forgive You For Abusing My Father

I will never forgive you for refusing to get a job and having dad pay for all of your needs (Pills, Medical Bills, and food) as "typical" as it might have been. For verbally and physically assaulting him because you were "emotional" or "He deserved it". For throwing stuff at him when you were angry and threatening to tell the cops he "abused you" if he called them. For telling him he was ugly and couldn't get better. For making him feel worthless, No matter how much he busted his ass to try and make your life as good as he could.

2) I Will Never Forgive You For being absent most of my youth.

I will never forgive you for spending all your time sitting in front of a computer wasting away ignoring me and my siblings because your online fantasy world was more important than seeing your children grow up.

3) I Will Never Forgive You For Abusing US Emotionally

Threatening Suicide when you needed attention. Constantly faking sickness to make us worry.

Telling us that we were dead to you when we didn't do everything like you wanted. Then expecting us to forgive and forget when you stopped being an insane bitch.

4) I Will Never Forgive You For Your Narcissism

Every time there was an issue it only mattered what was relevant to YOU. How it affected YOU. How it made YOU look. The only time others mattered was when "helping" could make you look good.

5) I Will Never Forgive You For Hitting Me

I agree with spanking children, and dad was able to discipline us without emotional scars, but your hitting with a hairbrush or your back hand covered in rings across the face, was unnecessary and different than a spank on the butt.

6) I Will Never Forgive You For Trying To Make Me A Resentful Person

My entire life you have done nothing but push your resentment of others. You were racist. You were homophobic. You hated everyone for every reason because you were jealous of them.

7) I will Never Forgive you for using the sexist system to get sympathy

When you falsely accused three different men of rape because you knew you would be believed without question and if caught you wouldn't be punished... but we all knew you were making it up. You ruined those men for your own greedy need for attention and sympathy.

8) I will Never Forgive You For Killing My Dad.

One of the most amazing men I have ever known, my hero, my mentor, my rock.

The gentle, most caring, and giving man I have ever met.

And you killed him with your incessant greed, emotional and physical abuse, your narcissistic endless need to have him do EVERYTHING... which he always tried to do for you. Doing ALL the household chores, ALL the Household maintenance, ALL the shopping, ALL the parenting, working 3 jobs so you could sit on your ass at home on the computer... Which eventually lead to his heart attack which you also didn't seem to care much about until he was gone and you could get sympathy for "your loss".

9) I Will Never Forgive You For Making Me Lose Trust In Women

When I've wouldn't date until I was 20 because I was afraid they would hurt me like you did.

When I am on elevators alone and a female gets on, I instantly step off and take the stairs to avoid false accusations of rape. Because now I see it happening so often it sickens me. Where I now see almost EVERY tv commercial follows your hate against men and pushes the false "women are heros" bullshit. Where I now know that even though 71% of all non-reciprocate domestic abuse is female to male, and HALF of domestic abuse is female to male and as a male I have ZERO support.

Dear Mom,

I will never forgive you for the emotional burdens you put on everyone who knows you.

For every time I told you that you were wrong, and you simply attacked and shamed me and played the victim.

But I made it. I am now a father, one of the many great fathers just like mine, and I am lucky HE was there because I have now seen the statistics and I know that without him and only having you... I would have been significantly more likely to be homeless, depressed, suicidal, abusive, a drop out, a drug/alcohol abuser, a criminal, and many other things.

Because of him I am stronger, smarter, and braver than you ever could be.

You are a pathetic excuse for a human and you will never have a place in my life, ever again.

Sincerely No Longer Yours,

The egg you once incubated for 9 months for my father.

[JetBoy797]

Wow. I cannot even imagine. Thank you for sharing this. Between your myTake and MissMC3s, I have re realized how blessed I am to have the parents that I do.

[Anonymous]

Was she mentally ill at all, maybe depression or something like that? Some people can be nasty with it. Sorry you had to go through this. It's so sad :( stories like yours always make me strive to be a better parent though, and I'm sure I'm not the only one. So your mother's actions will help some kids out there, so although you had to suffer, at least people can learn from you and it can possibly help stop this kind of thing for other children in future- small silver lining. I know it doesn't help you personally though.

[Anonymous]

Thanks for sharing this. I'm sorry you had to go through that. My boyfriend went through similar things with his mom. If anyone ridicules you for this, ignore them. They are not worth shit.

[Anonymous]

My mother doing all these things right now except I don't have my dad in the picture and she stopping hitting me because now she is scared im taller.