I'm Married, But I'm Not Having Kids. So Get Over It! (Page 2)

[Pyrofox]

Nice MyTake. But if you ever change your mind down the line adoption is also a option if you ever do make the choice of wanting a kid. And you want to pass on your ideas onto the future through them.

[adamjanovic]

Not gonna change my mind.

[englisc]

I've yet to meet an older woman who is actually happy that they had no children. All I've ever heard from those who've seen us with our little ones is how much they regret not having any and how lucky we are.

[Phoenix98]

Um ok? And you thought that was worth making an entire MyTake about?

And lol o you will eventually feel the urge but by that time your expiration date will be almost here or it'll be to late but all women feel that urge at least once in their life it's instinct and is encoded into your DNA there's not much anyone can do about it.

[adamjanovic]

Never felt it.

[adamjanovic]

And what do you think a myTake should be about?

[Phoenix98]

doesn't mean you won't, it normally happens later in life if it doesn't earlier but it always happens eventually same for men to just in a different way.

Generally they are made when someone has useful information to pass on to the masses, or have a question that's important or a contribution to society that they wish to share online with many people.

And some are just utter nonsense.

[adamjanovic]

If you don't think it's useful then don't read it.

[Phoenix98]

*shrugs* just sounds like to me a woman trying to justify her own choices.

As I said all women think like you do for a time.

[realperson02]

finally some girl making sense when it comes to not having children. it's your decision and you got yourself a spouse who is in the same boat.

[FaithfulGuardian]

Then what is the point of marriage if you don't want kids? Marriage and children are the deadly combination to tied down your partner so if no kids, that isn't very secure. And also, who will take over your wealth and assets if you and your partner die one day if you don't have kids? Your pet?

[cth96190]

@adamjanovic
You are free to do whatever you want.
What I can tell you with certainty, based on my observation of people during the past 59 years, is that one day you will change your mind and regret this decision bitterly.
This will probably happen age 35 to 40.

[adamjanovic]

Doubt it.

[MagiAlphaOne]

It's also called "Baby Rabies"

(n) the condition wherein the biological drive to have a baby morphs into a neurotic obsession to have a baby by any means necessary. The obsession consumes the sufferers' thoughts and activities to the exclusion of all else. Usually affects women in their late thirties and early forties.

[MagiAlphaOne]

“If you want to make God laugh, tell him about your plans.”

There would be far fewer people in this world if we were all planned!

[Iraqveteran666]

Well if it's both what you want it's no one's business.

[SunnyCaliGirl]

It's all up to you the women, it's your body so you have the right todo what you want with it.

[skeptic002]

GENESIS 1
And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth

[adamjanovic]

Then I guess I'm going to Hell.

[NotJustHereForLulz]

You're misusing the Lord's name to try and guilt someone.

[skeptic002]

@NotJustHereForLulz

GENESIS 3:15
the LORD said unto the serpent I will put enmity between THEE and the WOMEN, and between thy SEED and her SEED it shall CRUSH thy head, and thou shalt STRIKE his heel
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GOD just told the devil one of eve's kids is gonna crush his head

so would it not be obvious that GOD wants us to have kids
and the devil wants to stop it from happening

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/C5aZ51YXQAAnVTI.jpg

abortion
LGBT
war
disease
the art of confusion

Hosea 4:6 my children are destroyed for lack of knowledge because thou has rejected knowledge

[NotJustHereForLulz]

My main point is that you used the name of God to try to try and shame another person. Also don't see where popping out kids is the law. Besides, how do you know if OP is even religious?

[skeptic002]

no im not shaming just telling her the truth
and no it's not a law but if you wanna help GOD have a kid even if its just one
and I do not care whether she is religious or not
im going to tell the truth, cause she knows a GOD exist she just doesn't like the way he does things

[NotJustHereForLulz]

Lookie here. This post is someone else's decision and your actions will likely not change things. Not everyone believes the way you do and that's a fact of life.

[adamjanovic]

@NotJustHereForLulz Thank you!! 👏🏻

[skeptic002]

@NotJustHereForLulz

that does not mean I am not correct
that simple
everyone else likes to run off feelings I do not

[Tony1974]

Not my monkey not my circus! Live YOUR life the way YOU choose...

[Anonymous]

I'm glad you and your husband are not afraid to be yourself ☺ also, you can make friends with many other childless couples

[Anonymous]

... Hey if you wanna stay just in a marriage without kids that's fine. I see no issue whatsoever in it.

[ovixs90]

When you will be 60 years old and alone then you will remember why i didn't wanted to have kids.. Friends stay until your 30-40 max and then mostly people stay husband and wife alone no friends anymore.

[Eternallylucky]

What if you get an accident, will you keep that baby?

[Anonymous]

we don't give a damn you don't want to have children lol

[TheFlak38]

So much waste of effort. If you don't want children why did you get married? Marriage and no kids is for gay people. Get over it.

[MisterSir]

okay, doesn't affect my life in any way at all; you do you

[YourFutureEx]

I don't mind as you're married.

[SheDevilxx]

I love this woman.

[adamjanovic]

Awww, thanks! 😊