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Why I'm Actually Grateful I Had An Abusive Mother (Page 2)

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  • Logorithim
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    Very interesting Take. I'm glad that there were some silver linings despite the abuse.

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  • abundantlyrich
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    I can take the good from the bad for sure but scars will remain

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  • Jack_L_andTurn
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    I am still sad that you had to endure that. I had a tough, strict dad who taught me discipline and to be tough without being abusive.

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  • TrixiePooch
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    The abuse must have fucked your brain up. what the fuck?

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  • Anonymous
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    For me it ended up fucking me up in the end badly, but luckily it did you some good I guess

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  • LegateLanius
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    Wow. I'm glad at least some good things came of it. No backlash here. That's intense.

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  • Qwerty_0
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    I never had a mother and I despised my father, and I turned out perectly fine and dandy.

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  • Anonymous
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    I'm grateful the USA has an abusive president, for much the same reasons :)

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  • Anonymous
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    Real GOOD TAKE!
    I know by personal experience that nearly all of this is true.

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    • Anonymous
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      I didn't have a happy youth, because of her but I learned to be VERY stubborn, which saved my happiness when i had a bad period in life.

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    • Anonymous
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      Dad was physically present but didn't protect me from her: he was too occupied mourning his first wife and child who died together.

      Together they taught me involuntarily, not to mourn deceased persons.

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  • Lyan21
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    True it does make ir break you. It depends how your mind perceives it.

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  • Anonymous
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    me to my mom beat my ass but it made me angry and ambitious to be a better person

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  • ChronicThinker
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    I relate a lot to this. Well done.

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  • Prankster13
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    Very good take. Thank you.

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  • BillieJean1070
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    I could never have wanted an abusive mother.

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  • TomasLyy
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    Well that makes one of us...

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  • Anonymous
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    Very interesting take.

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  • VixenRach
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    "How to please a man"? What did she teach you lol

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    • CherryRoseChampange
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      How to submit and take one a man's desires even if they weren't my own originally, how to study a man's behaviors and thought patterns to adapt to anything they'd want sexually. That meant becoming flexible and good at acting. She taught me how to manipulate the mind for seduction and ensuring happiness/security. I also had to learn about the anatomy of a man and different ways to stimulate different parts of their body. And I had to practice facial expressions, certain voices, sounds, and movements.

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    • CherryRoseChampange
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      Ignore the words below my paragraph it's a typo lol.

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    • VixenRach
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      Damn, that's quite a lot. I'd probably laugh if my mum tried that, while dying of embarrassment. I'd much rather teach myself 😂

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  • RedRobin
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    Nice take

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  • Nice222
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    Great take thanks

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    • CherryRoseChampange
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      Anytime, and thank you!

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    Nice story, bro.

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