As someone who is largely insensitive I would disagree, depending on what definition you are using for sensitivity. There is a rather large difference between being able to sense others feelings and empathise with them, and being adversely affect my by them. There are many cases where people have been sensitive to others, and then exploited that information in a cold-hearted manner.
Sadly with OP holds true for how most women view guys romantically. You got to grow some balls and not let things get to you.
Being a natural HSP (highly sensitive person) I had find this shit out the hard way. Seems like more indifferent I am when it comes to emotions with women the more I get laid. Easier said than done for someone like me though
Are you talking about sensitive and weak? And does that mean every guys should be insensitive? What you be about be a man with balls and be more human with real feelings?
Women in general like the guess work of trying to figure out what’s on a guys mind. The mystery kills the cat.
Sensitive guys are more likely to wear the emotions on their sleeves. Females see this as feminine behavior. They say they like it but deep down it turns them off.
Or you're just talking about weak people in general. Toxic masculine guys like you ruin everything they touch and they don't blame yourself because of your fragile ego. You don't know how to do it the hard way like what real man do because you're weak!
@sonnysunshine If you think I'm talking to you, I'm talking to the OP. Also my response to yours, I thought they love caring and responsible gentleman. They complain their boyfriends are being jerks all the time and that's not our problem.
Sensitive people need to realize when something’s a joke. If you can’t take a joke, then you’re sensitive and ANNOYING. You don’t need to get worked up over everything. Let loose whore
To a certain point yes. But sometimes enough is enough. Or abit too dark, because usually jokes have some truth to it. And that's not a pleasant thing to get reminded of.
Dude, I'm not a 'toxic masculine' guy, I'm very secure about my 'feelings' and my ego is very much solid and NOT fragile. A few people might go so far as to say that I'm rather full of myself...
Are you saying all guy should be insensitive? I just described what being insensitive is. Because you're "manly" you just going to have to stop caring with other people? You know what they say, hurt people hurt people. Not admitting the fact that your hurting people makes you weak. Well for you that is ok but for a lot of people it's not.
Just calling someone weak and sensitive makes you insensitive and weak didn't you know? I mean what the hell did we even do to make you that upset? You're just butthurt and you can't blame yourself.
She is a kid, do not need to explain or listen to her. She has a lot to learn about life. She will hopefully learn the hard way. She's probably the bully at her school.
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Sensitive doesn't mean weak or strong. Your actions speak for what it is.
A Carthesian product of sensitive/insensitive by strong/weak. Sort of academic approach. But why...
Why not?
Awesome post - well done. 😊
The last one is why I always buy thin mints.
Congrats! Need a medal?
Really usefull take!
Disagree. Overly sensitive people, especially men, are pussies. They fucking ruin everything they touch.
As someone who is largely insensitive I would disagree, depending on what definition you are using for sensitivity. There is a rather large difference between being able to sense others feelings and empathise with them, and being adversely affect my by them. There are many cases where people have been sensitive to others, and then exploited that information in a cold-hearted manner.
Sadly with OP holds true for how most women view guys romantically. You got to grow some balls and not let things get to you.
Being a natural HSP (highly sensitive person) I had find this shit out the hard way. Seems like more indifferent I am when it comes to emotions with women the more I get laid. Easier said than done for someone like me though
Are you talking about sensitive and weak? And does that mean every guys should be insensitive? What you be about be a man with balls and be more human with real feelings?
Women in general like the guess work of trying to figure out what’s on a guys mind. The mystery kills the cat.
Sensitive guys are more likely to wear the emotions on their sleeves. Females see this as feminine behavior. They say they like it but deep down it turns them off.
Or you're just talking about weak people in general. Toxic masculine guys like you ruin everything they touch and they don't blame yourself because of your fragile ego. You don't know how to do it the hard way like what real man do because you're weak!
Suite yourself buddy.
@sonnysunshine If you think I'm talking to you, I'm talking to the OP. Also my response to yours, I thought they love caring and responsible gentleman. They complain their boyfriends are being jerks all the time and that's not our problem.
@sonnysunshine And sure thing. Suite yourself.
thanks for clearing that up
Oh boy, that's a lot of gobbledy-gook isn't it? LOL
No body forces you to read something you can't understand
@Aiko_E_Lara that's surely the best response lol 😆
Sensitive people need to realize when something’s a joke. If you can’t take a joke, then you’re sensitive and ANNOYING. You don’t need to get worked up over everything. Let loose whore
The nobody can count on you. How about ask yourself if you're being rude or insensitive or not? I can tell good jokes and bad jokes.
Those are pretty nice attacks you put up against me. And excuse me but did i attack you personally? No? Take a chill pills and stop being weak.
And insensitive too
Anyways, how about insensitive people need to realize when they're making offensive jokes? It's a matter of balance.
It’s called dark humor and it’s always obvious.
Just because something is obvious doesn't mean it's funny. Jokes require context in order for it to be funny or else you could just be being a asshole
Always obvious? Or are you just being a narcissist thinking you're always right?
Saying "dark humor" to everything doesn't always make you funny and truthful FYI. It's just a nice excuse to be rude and to make you seem cool.
To a certain point yes. But sometimes enough is enough. Or abit too dark, because usually jokes have some truth to it. And that's not a pleasant thing to get reminded of.
This is right on
Thank you for that!!
Sensitivity is the biggest sign of weakness there is. Also, if a dude is sensitive, it CLEARLY means he's gay.
Simples...
Something a toxic masculine guy would say.
In secured about their feelings. Saying that to make themselves feel good.
Which is clearly what weak people with fragile egos say
Dude, I'm not a 'toxic masculine' guy, I'm very secure about my 'feelings' and my ego is very much solid and NOT fragile. A few people might go so far as to say that I'm rather full of myself...
Then can you elaborate why being sensitive means week and gay to you? Don't just throw it out there. You're just judging tho that is a fragile act.
The only way you didn't understand is that you didn't read a thing
Are you saying all guy should be insensitive? I just described what being insensitive is. Because you're "manly" you just going to have to stop caring with other people? You know what they say, hurt people hurt people. Not admitting the fact that your hurting people makes you weak. Well for you that is ok but for a lot of people it's not.
If you're going to say sensitive people are gay then i would say people who says that are toxic masculine guys. So? What's wrong?
Awesome
Interesting
Good take! 😊😊
Good take
nice take /very true
Well said
I like to make things up too.
I can't explain feelings to heartless people so. Explain vision to blind people. Yeah they think you're making it up.
Those people are the wrst
I like to make things up too.
I knew it !
I like to be sarcastic too
That’s true and ironic coming from a weak sexist guy.
Sure you would know. I mean't maybe it's just you who feel oppressed every time I say something
@Athena5524 This is just my guess. You're the only under 18 girl who can't take facts but your ignorance.
I met here by the way
Proof that kids are horrible and insensitive. Learn some respect please. Bullies ruin people's lives and their own hopefully.
@Paul09 She's a fragile feminist I'm not surprised.
You guys are weak and sensitive. Weak and sensitive guys are disliked by women.
Elaborate that. I challenge you.
Just calling someone weak and sensitive makes you insensitive and weak didn't you know? I mean what the hell did we even do to make you that upset? You're just butthurt and you can't blame yourself.
She is a kid, do not need to explain or listen to her. She has a lot to learn about life. She will hopefully learn the hard way. She's probably the bully at her school.
@Paul09 Heh I just love to explain weather she understands it or not. Maybe if she grows up, she'll take my words.
Welp she deactivated her account and made a new one. I'm not a hundred percent sure if that's her by the way.
Hmm not bad